Problems not being a chubby boy
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Yes, there are those… i was one of the "average" guys before, but then one of the guys i dated started being saying i was becoming a chub and thus no longer attractive to him.
my partner typically likes slimmer guys, but he's okay with me gaining a bit of weight. i've always liked bigger, chubby or muscular guys.
It is a common frustration to feel like a minority group, but there it is.
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I have the same issues as well. But I wouldn't say I'm handsome or anything. Just an asian guy who is slim. The bears and chubs I am attracted to here all seems to be only attracted to chubs and bears themselves. If not, they are attracted to muscular people. It is frustrating, but I learnt to deal with it by not setting my expectations too high physically. I guess it worked out somehow cause I ended up having a nice boyfriend. He has his flaws, definitely not my ideal type physically. But as a person, I think he's loveable.
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also, choosing the right online dating site matters - there used to be a site called chubspot which was dedicated to chubby guys and people who like em… then there's still bearforest and biggercity.
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There are a lot of website for chubby who likes chaser, but the world is wide and sometimes you just can't find someone you like near you!
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There's no point in trying to make someone interested in you if there's no chemistry. I'm sure there's more chubby guys out there in a similar situation. I suggest posting your profile online to chubby sites and seeing who bites!
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I am a tall, handsome, slim but athletic boy; and I am a chubby bear lover. My problem: all chubbies rejected me, because they only want to be with other chubby men. :cry2: :cry2: :cry2:
It's so difficult that a chubby man could like to be with a slim guy? I think this is a kind of discrimination too: chubbies wanting only to be with other chubbies…You haven't met me! ;D
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It's a pity you are not in my neck of the woods. Not many lads here like the chubby men.
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Dude… think about it this way... you can't change the fact that you're attracted to chubby men. It isn't "discrimination" for you to exclusively be attracted to chubby men.
You're describing "chub4chub" (A chub4chub is a chubby guy that is attracted to other chubby guys).
There's also "chub4chaser" (A chub4chaser is a chubby guy who is attracted to non-chub guys).
There are a LOT more chub4chasers than there are chub4chubs. You should consider yourself extremely lucky, you just need to look in the right places. :cheers:
Try www.chasabl.com
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I am a tall, handsome, slim but athletic boy; and I am a chubby bear lover. My problem: all chubbies rejected me, because they only want to be with other chubby men. :cry2: :cry2: :cry2:
It's so difficult that a chubby man could like to be with a slim guy? I think this is a kind of discrimination too: chubbies wanting only to be with other chubbies…Tall, handsome, slim and athletic? I'm chubby do you want my number?:>>
PS. There are also many dating websites with lots of chubbies who will be looking for someone like you. Try chasabl.com, biggercity.com and bearwww.com.
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I am a fat/chubby guy and I like slim and athletic guys. So, don't worry, there will be more people like me
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try bearforest and growlr
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well, I've always been more or less chubby and mostly into not chubby guys, but they always reject me, so it's the opposite of your problem :cheesy2:
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nah its not true there are plenty of chubs that love slim and athletic guys
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There's plenty of chubby guys that like slim dudes, trust me, I consider it a problem(Chubby/fat person here), since I'm chub4chub.
If you're looking for a relationship, it mostly depends on your personality, if you're all up and about telling guys you'd bang them, and greeting them in a way that more than likely puts them off, then that's probably why, unless you haven't, then they're possibly just not into fit guys.(And are scared of saying so, that, or maybe you didn't read their profile carefully? Idk)Reason why I'm chub4chub is because of the massive amount of fit/skinny guys I've had send me messages where they tell me I'm cute, then stop talking for good, or just end up saying something silly like "I'd love to screw the hell out of you."(It's good to know, but some guys might think that's weird/unnecessary to start a conversation with) Along with the fact that I was bullied most of the time by skinny people, so I sort of just stayed away from them, and chose to like bigger guys like myself.
There's plenty of reasons a person might not reply to you, but I'm 100% certain there's plenty of chubby dudes out there who dig fit dudes.
Chasabl is certainly a place you'd want to try out, as I've been on there for a few years before, and basically there's plenty of bigger guys whining about not having a skinny/slim/fit guy to love, so you'd probably have a bigger chance there.Now, saying all this, this doesn't mean I'm an expert or anything, this is all just from my experience.
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im a chub and i like slim guys
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Thanks for the suggestion. The site seems promising.
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Same problem
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I am usually attracted to slim to medium build or athletic men. The odd stray muscle-bear gets me going now and then, but I am not into fat guys.
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