Sex with married men
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Cheating would be hard for me. So it depends on the wife: If she would encourage me to do it, then it would be a yes.
So if you WERE encouraged cheating would not be such a big problem for you after all? Yeah, sounds legit.
All this married guy thing kind of paints a sad personality picture of an insecure guy who lacks control over his life and in order to fulfill his wet dreams he must fill his family with lies and sneak out of the house. You could be as hot as you want, but this lifestyle is simply pathetic. Hurting other people for your own pleasure, how sad and little these people are. If you want to have sex with men don't go create a family. It's like building a house that you already know you don't want to live in. So basically, these men are stupid. Not having the ability to think ahead equals lack of intelligence.
I suppose having sex with stupid hot people can be a thrill, but watch out. You are who you hang out with. Do you really want to be stupid?
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Cheating would be hard for me. So it depends on the wife: If she would encourage me to do it, then it would be a yes.
So if you WERE encouraged cheating would not be such a big problem for you after all? Yeah, sounds legit.
All this married guy thing kind of paints a sad personality picture of an insecure guy who lacks control over his life and in order to fulfill his wet dreams he must fill his family with lies and sneak out of the house. You could be as hot as you want, but this lifestyle is simply pathetic. Hurting other people for your own pleasure, how sad and little these people are. If you want to have sex with men don't go create a family. It's like building a house that you already know you don't want to live in. So basically, these men are stupid. Not having the ability to think ahead equals lack of intelligence.
I suppose having sex with stupid hot people can be a thrill, but watch out. You are who you hang out with. Do you really want to be stupid?
Judging people on your own assumptions lacks a certain level of intelligence. We are allowed to have sex with either a man or a woman, getting married to a woman, starting a family, these don't make having sex with men stupid. For some guys maybe they want to have the traditional married life and play with the boys on the side.
I swore off sex with 'straight' guys a long time ago but in my high school days I had plenty of sex with guys some of whom I was quite friendly with their girlfriends. Maybe they just like a little fun on the side, perhaps they are more comfortable just having sex with guys and loving women. Who can never be sure?
One thing is certain, sexuality is fluid. It's disheartening that some of the most rigid sexually repressive individuals are homosexuals. I would think after experiencing the will of society upon ourselves we would be more open to other people's sexual freedom but it's just not the case generally.
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Cheating would be hard for me. So it depends on the wife: If she would encourage me to do it, then it would be a yes.
So if you WERE encouraged cheating would not be such a big problem for you after all? Yeah, sounds legit.
All this married guy thing kind of paints a sad personality picture of an insecure guy who lacks control over his life and in order to fulfill his wet dreams he must fill his family with lies and sneak out of the house. You could be as hot as you want, but this lifestyle is simply pathetic. Hurting other people for your own pleasure, how sad and little these people are. If you want to have sex with men don't go create a family. It's like building a house that you already know you don't want to live in. So basically, these men are stupid. Not having the ability to think ahead equals lack of intelligence.
I suppose having sex with stupid hot people can be a thrill, but watch out. You are who you hang out with. Do you really want to be stupid?
However, that is not what he is saying. Basically he is saying if the wife gave her permission then he would do it. Cheating in a marriage implies that one party of the marriage has no idea the other party is sleeping with other people.
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Having extramarrital sex is still cheating, with or without permission. If you want to have sex with multiple people, then why get married.
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This concept of having sex outside the bonds of marriage is cheating is cute. One nice loophole is saying "I will never sleep with another woman" and you know there are some women who are perfectly content with that. Stop trying to make people conform to your version of what is & what should be. It will be far easier for everyone involved.
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Haha…. Funny you should mention conforming to ways dictated by other people, and loop holes... That brings to mind another way of looking at the situation of marriage and sex.
As in this example: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j8ZF_R_j0OY
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So you want to have your cake and eat it. Why marry "one" person, if you want to have sex with more than "one". It is not an antiquated ideal, it has to do with self respect for you and everyone else.
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Having extramarrital sex is still cheating, with or without permission. If you want to have sex with multiple people, then why get married.
Though the term "cheating" may mean different things to different people, it usually involves a betrayal of trust. It's difficult to define what constitutes cheating and infidelity because people have differing opinions on the subject and what they would consider appropriate or inappropriate behavior from a spouse. If the spouse has no issue with him sleeping with other people then it is not cheating.
If the husband and wife were swingers would that be cheating or if they had a threesome would you consider that cheating?
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When it comes to funny clips explaining 'traditional marriage' nothing can top this one:
The genius who is Deven Green of Welcome To My Home ("I just tattooed this cat this morning, look at the good I do")
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BTW I don't want to get married period. I am a widower incapable of loving another, still able to fuck another.
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If you believe there are differing views about what constitutes cheating, make sure you and the person with which you enter into a relationship share the same defintion.
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If you believe there are differing views about what constitutes cheating, make sure you and the person with which you enter into a relationship share the same defintion.
This is why a lot of relationships fail. The definition of cheating is not a literal term. Where one person may see kissing someone (even just a quick peck) as a form of cheating, someone else may not. That's the down side to opinions. That should be the case with any relationship as part of the discovery stage of the relationship.
Enough of that though…. What about sex with me? I'm still technically legally married, but haven't actually been with my still legal husband since September 11, 2007. Would that make sex with me constitute sex with a married man?
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What about sex with me? I'm still technically legally married, but haven't actually been with my still legal husband since September 11, 2007. Would that make sex with me constitute sex with a married man?
Sorry Mazda, i don't think that counts. Homosexuals like to think they can turn straight guys to their side and you're already weak for the dick. Besides, you didn't waste 10+ years creating a family only to realize you want some random dick in your ass. Well, not sure about that last one, but you get the point.
This topic basically comes down to if you're gay, can't find a guy to sleep with, try something even harder and look for married men because they're so fucking hot your dick will melt. I get that some people like challenges, without them life would be boring, but this to me appears as an act of a primate, something an ape with an undeveloped neurons would do.
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If you believe there are differing views about what constitutes cheating, make sure you and the person with which you enter into a relationship share the same defintion.
This is why a lot of relationships fail. The definition of cheating is not a literal term. Where one person may see kissing someone (even just a quick peck) as a form of cheating, someone else may not. That's the down side to opinions. That should be the case with any relationship as part of the discovery stage of the relationship.
Enough of that though…. What about sex with me? I'm still technically legally married, but haven't actually been with my still legal husband since September 11, 2007. Would that make sex with me constitute sex with a married man?
It seems to me that you are just looking for exceptions almost as if that justifies the act, no matter what you wish to call it. A rose by any other name is still a rose.
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Now that gay marriage is becoming more common, do people's answers to this question change if the married man is married to another man rather than a woman?
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It seems to me that you are just looking for exceptions almost as if that justifies the act, no matter what you wish to call it. A rose by any other name is still a rose.
Not at all… What I have been wondering for a while now and am going to finally outright ask is why do you seem to feel the need to be so argumentative with everyone? I was only pointing out that "cheating" is a matter of opinion. Some relationships will accept cheating as any type of contact with other people such as a simple kiss, whereas other couples (like my last ex and I) don't consider it to be cheating if you go out and shag some random fling on the side as long as you do not withhold that from the other. All I'm saying is that "cheating" is not a cut and dry term. It's a matter of opinion.
Now that gay marriage is becoming more common, do people's answers to this question change if the married man is married to another man rather than a woman?
With the change in gay marriage laws, I think it does have some impact, at least for me. Part of the thrill of the married man experience is knowing that you're converting a "straight" man over to the dark side of gay sex. If you they're married to another guy, while it can still be fun and all, there's that extra little something about it that's just not the same. At least, that's the way it is for me anyway.
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I still say that pointing to the fact the definition is mutable, doesn't change the action. If one kills someone by negligence and they are acquitted and someone else kills someone in a crime of passion and they are convicted. They have both committed the act of murder, even if the courts and people say you were not to blame. Fuzzy definition or not, I do not believe in getting married and then having flings, consensual or not. Also, no one is being argumentative, the purpose of the forums is to debate things. At least that is how I feel.
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This one's a tough one. I would never jeopardize my relationship with any of my friends, but if he's a 10/10, I'd go straight for it. (pun not intended)
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depends on the relationship you have with them
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I still say that pointing to the fact the definition is mutable, doesn't change the action. If one kills someone by negligence and they are acquitted and someone else kills someone in a crime of passion and they are convicted. They have both committed the act of murder, even if the courts and people say you were not to blame. Fuzzy definition or not, I do not believe in getting married and then having flings, consensual or not. Also, no one is being argumentative, the purpose of the forums is to debate things. At least that is how I feel.
You are absolutely right, and honestly there is no right or wrong answer here, I just wanted to get others opinions on the matter. In actuality what I decide to do won't be based off anything that I have read or seen on here. At this point I haven't done it, but if I chose to, it will be because that's what I want to do, and don't feel that my character will be questionable, because truthfully nobody knows my situation but me. But thank you all for your responses and I will keep you posted.
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