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      Minerboh80
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      @DilfLover1:

      now was the guy's gf/wife REALLY a bitch/slut, or are those ur personal feelings because she was with the guy u liked? it can suck falling for a straight guy, but it's a normal experience. my family is pretty dope and excepted it when I came out. i'm one of the lucky ones, but I REALY do feel for the ones that aren't excepted and cast out of their family. actually want to go into counseling of some sort for teens and/or adults who are shunned by families when coming out.

      Mostly because she was with him.

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        DilfLover1
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        ahhhh,i see. u still talk to him? or still bitter towards her?

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          Minerboh80
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          @DilfLover1:

          ahhhh,i see. u still talk to him? or still bitter towards her?

          No, we parted ways when he was transferred into another unit to complete his military service.
          It was not something physical, it was more in the form of a very strong platonic love that i have torward him. I never revealed to him my feelings for the formentioned reasons.
          If i am still bitter? Man, I HATE HER!!!! :spank2:

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            DilfLover1
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            so if it was just platonic feelings u had for him…why do u hate her so much?

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              Minerboh80
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              @DilfLover1:

              so if it was just platonic feelings u had for him…why do u hate her so much?

              By the term ''platonic'' i mean that i haven't revealed to him my feelings (apparently, you haven't red the whole story).
              It doesn't mean that there were not there (and there still are).
              I hate her because she have him. It is that simple and don't tell me that you wouldn't feel the same way if you were in my shoes.
              And let me tell you that she didn't apprieciated the fact that he was her boyfriend. She was a demanding and selfish harpie! 😠

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                DilfLover1
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                first of all, don't come at me like that saying I didn't read ur post, ok. im not sure if English is ur first language, but "platonic" means flat, which in relationships means u don't have any romantic feelings for the person. so u using that term, I assumed that u were saying that u didn't have those feelings any longer. and if I was in ur place, no I wouldn't feel the same. if I loved someone, and their happiness was with this person, then i'd be happy for them.

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                  Minerboh80
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                  @DilfLover1:

                  first of all, don't come at me like that saying I didn't read ur post, ok. im not sure if English is ur first language, but "platonic" means flat, which in relationships means u don't have any romantic feelings for the person. so u using that term, I assumed that u were saying that u didn't have those feelings any longer. and if I was in ur place, no I wouldn't feel the same. if I loved someone, and their happiness was with this person, then i'd be happy for them.

                  Platonic in Greece has a different meaning. It means that something we feel is not manifested or it is kept a well hidden secret.
                  For him i am happy and that's why i haven't tried to establish a form o contact after all these years. However, being happy for him doesn't mean that i have to feel happy for the bitch.

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                    DilfLover1
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                    no u don't have to be happy for her…but have u ever talked to her? or met her?

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                      Minerboh80
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                      @DilfLover1:

                      no u don't have to be happy for her…but have u ever talked to her? or met her?

                      Yes. When he had a leave of absence for 24 hours he brought her to meet her with his friends.
                      She was obnoxious and very spoiled. She didn't bother to say to me ''very happy to meet you'' despite me being nice to her.

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                        kerupukudang
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                        i dont think i will ever come out because i live in a society that kind of hate and bans gays or lesbians. Lucky for those who are able to come out and still live normal lives.

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                          squall113
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                          My mother read diary of me and my boyfriend, what a lucky me to have a wonderful mother!

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                            Minerboh80
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                            @squall113:

                            My mother read diary of me and my boyfriend, what a lucky me to have a wonderful mother!

                            😄

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                              glarusvn
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                              my story is a little bit stupid - i forgot gay porn disk in the  family computer- so my parents found it and ask me - so i said that i am gay-at first my mother said go away a gay will not live in my house , my father said nothing.After some days my mother accepted it but my father still not and we are not talking about this.

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                                DilfLover1
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                                im really sorry to hear that 😞 a parent's love is supposed to be unconditional, not conditional

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                                  alveer
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                                  wow

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