Racial Preferences
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Well, like was said before, having a racial preference is normal. Most likely, it will be a preference to someone of their own race. I am a bit different in that, despite all the diversity within my race, – we blacks do come in all shades of "black/brown"-- I am not, in general, attracted to black men. There have been exceptions in my dating life, but less than a handful. My attraction is more toward European men - particularly German, French, Italian, and British/Scotish/Irish men. For the longest time, I was not attracted to Spanish men, but man has that changed since 2010 and my trip to Spain! What a person likes is what they like, and people should not get so upset or take it personally if they simply aren't what someone likes. Just accept it and move on. Questioning it is useless. I outline online what I like in my profiles. No need to contact me if you are not what I want or describe. I am not the type to change my mind on a whim just because someone asks a question like..."So you aren't interested in black guys?" I am also not looking to start an extended convo/discussion/debate about my likes / dislikes until we're past the initial hook up stage and things get a bit more serious. I just delete those kinds of questions and move on. No need to waste your time or mine. I wish more people thought like this....
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I sort of have this strange fetish of wanting to have sex with a member of all races… I find beauty in all races for some reason.
As for being gay Muslim vs Gay Christian, the difference is, most Christian countries don't murder people for being gay, while many Muslim countries murder people for being gay (Iran, Sudan, Senegal for example)
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I can have sex with a guy of any race if he is hot an sexy but in general asians are not my type.
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I totally agree that everyone has their own racial preferences and it's not necessarily racist. But it can become racist if you're treating someone, like a guy flirting with you or a friend/acquaintance, differently because of their race. But no one ever thinks that kinda stuff overtly… I think it's all in the subconscious.
The best advice I could give is don't lock yourself in to only pursuing one type of guy... I'm white and all through my 20s I only dated/slept with white guys and hispanics. I would have been the first to tell you black guys were "not my type"... Now I'm 31 and two years ago randomly met a 24yo black guy and started dating. I wasn't even looking for a relationship but just went with it. We fell in love hardcore and now we've been married a year. He's the best thing that ever happened to me. I never would have guessed I would marry a guy of a different race, but I'm really glad I didn't dismiss the possibility before giving it a chance.
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You can call me a slut but i love all races of men, i think every race has a special characteristic, like tha asians who are slim/fit, the black guys with big natural muscles (and dicks), the hot latinos, the handsome caucasians, the hairy mid easterns
men men men :cheers:
I can also appreciate each unique characteristic of different men.
Ok slut! :bighug:
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I much prefer Caucasian or Middle-Eastern guys over Black or Asians. But, of course, there are always exceptions. I consider it a preference as opposed to a racial prejudice.
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my friends called me racist…
but I dont like the idea of having a boyfriend whose skin colour darker than me
(what if I cant find him during blackout? lol...)I'm yellow skin Asian....
Now that's racist :hmmm: (and the joke is so 20 years ago)
speak from experience…
I was in my tuition class, blackout happened...
and I can barely see my friend who is tanned
chinese saying, "a fair skin conceals three weaknesses" -
I don't look at race.
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My MAIN qualifier for determining if he's worth my time, is of course, personality.
BUT with that being said, I do find the contrast of his black skin against my milky white skin to be utterly hypnotic…. And so far, its been my experience that I'm drawn to the assertive, yet respectful man of chocolate rather than the the sensitive white guy with too many hang ups....
Of course all that could change in an instant...
REALLY, what attracts me is the completely shaved man - REGARDLESS of race!!
Hugz, Reena
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I'm so weak when it comes to caucasians but I'd never say no if it's the right turn on, n.n
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i like white bears and black or white muscular bears. i dont really like asians cause ive been around them my whole life…
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No racial preference. Just bring me the boys! ;D
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not rlly attracted to my own race either
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I like caucasians, latinos, and middle eastern guys.
But its always different when in person than in theory.
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I am attracted to BIG men.
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As a black man (particularly into bears) I've gotten really used to people telling me they're not into black guys (and occasionally being really into me just because I'm black).
I'll say I've come to terms with it. I don't consider it racist, but I do consider it shallow. To me it's the same thing as a straight guy saying "I'm only into blondes with big boobs." It's not something someone says if they're looking for a meaningful relationship or really connect with someone. It's a purely physical thing. It's not until someone starts making assumptions about the person I am because of my race that it starts entering the racist territory.
I even find it a bit of a turn off is someone states they have a big thing for black guys because that makes me question if they're into me just because of my race.
For myself I know that sexually I have a bit of a preference for white guys, I can't deny that, but in looking for a relationship and a partner it really doesn't matter. It's connecting with the person that's important to me.
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I'm from south-eastern Europe (Balkans). We are all white here, all types and varieties, and I find guys around me very attractive. Black and Asian men don't do much to me, nothing racist, just a matter of taste.
Reading through this thread I had to notice how different people have totally different preferences. Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder. -
Not so much race but most East Asian and some European accents dont get me as hard as UK/AUS/US accents. I can still jerk off to them as long as they dont try to speak fragmented English except for some exceptions like Russian.
Asian/Caucasian halfbloods turn me on pretty hard. I dont think I've ever met one I didnt want to immediately share bodily fluids with.
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yes i hv
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if the guy is hairy and thick, bring it on
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