Racial Preferences
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Like Soulsrevenge said, Everyone has a racial preference, its normal. And no its not racism to not feel attracted to someone because of their race.
As for myself I prefer white men. I'm not into Asians, or Black guys. Since I like bears, its not common to see Black or Asian bears. But there are some exceptions to this, there are a few Black or Asian guys that I find very attractive, and would date without any problems. Like there are some few men that are not bears and I find attractive, the question is its much more rare.
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I'm not really into my own race (Asian) but I guess every other race has its positive qualities. I do like whites though.
Being attracted to Arabs/Middle Eastern must be really hard, since nearly all of the countries there (and their culture) are extremely anti-gay. It's not just families not tolerating them, they get killed for this. I mean the threat of persecution or death doesn't necessarily diminish the number of gays from those regions but it also means they tend to be closeted.
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I'm Middle Eastern and I think Indians is the only race I'm not attracted. It makes me sound so racist, but I dunno…it's not like I CHOSE it that way,
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I have known a lot of gay muslims (middle eastern) and their actually pretty hot and very nice.
They have the same problems with their religion as gay christians have with theirs. -
I'm not generally attracted to men with very light features (blonde hair/blue eyes; red hair). On the other hand, I'm not attracted to men with very dark features (black skin, kinky hair). I'm also not into boyish (smooth) features, so that rules out most Asian men. Strangely, I am somewhat attracted to the stereotypical Asian businessman, though.
Although I identify more as a gay man, my preferences with women are generally the same (though obviously, I don't like bearish women :funny2: ).
As for being Muslim/Arab and gay . . . there is no reason to feel bad for us. We enjoy ourselves as much, if not more than anyone else. The difference is it is not a 'lifestyle' for us and most are happy that way.
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my friends called me racist…
but I dont like the idea of having a boyfriend whose skin colour darker than me
(what if I cant find him during blackout? lol...)I'm yellow skin Asian....
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Personally, I don't have any racial hang ups. Sexy is just sexy to me no matter what race you are. However, I do get more turned on by black men than I do any other race, but I don't make any judgements based off that. I think it's just a mental thing when people say they aren't attracted to certain races. Think about it. Nobody in a particular race is exactly the same, so to be put off by any particular one is odd to me. But to each it's own.
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Is Turkey in the middle east cause Turkish men are hot!
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my friends called me racist…
but I dont like the idea of having a boyfriend whose skin colour darker than me
(what if I cant find him during blackout? lol...)I'm yellow skin Asian....
Now that's racist :hmmm: (and the joke is so 20 years ago)
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You can call me a slut but i love all races of men, i think every race has a special characteristic, like tha asians who are slim/fit, the black guys with big natural muscles (and dicks), the hot latinos, the handsome caucasians, the hairy mid easterns
men men men :cheers:
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You can call me a slut but i love all races of men, i think every race has a special characteristic, like tha asians who are slim/fit, the black guys with big natural muscles (and dicks), the hot latinos, the handsome caucasians, the hairy mid easterns
men men men :cheers:
I can also appreciate each unique characteristic of different men.
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Actually, being attracted to your own race more than other races is the norm.
Countless studies have also shown that when a person (of any race) is shown pictures of people from another race, they have a much harder time telling them apart, than they do with their own race.
It's an ancient survival method.
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Actually, being attracted to your own race more than other races is the norm.
Countless studies have also shown that when a person (of any race) is shown pictures of people from another race, they have a much harder time telling them apart, than they do with their own race.
It's an ancient survival method.
Agreed, i think i saw this episode of criminal mind where agent hotchner said that interracial rapist are very rare. of course rare means it happens once in a blue moon but that's it. i guess unless conditioned, we are built to like our own race more.
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Ugh this thread is stupid as hell. I'll just let love happen naturally. I'm black and I am attracted to all races however I'm an attention whore and interracial couples gives you more attention so not that I don't like black guys, if I had ot choice I would be with a guy who looks nothing like me.
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I'm white and am only attracted to white and orientals.
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If a boi is hot, doesn't matter the race. I don't think its racist at all to be attracted to whomever you're attracted to as long as its not based on a prejudice apart from that particular individual's attractiveness.
That being said, I have a particular penchant for extremely pale skin redheads/gingers… its the freckles, but not too many. :love:
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Well, like was said before, having a racial preference is normal. Most likely, it will be a preference to someone of their own race. I am a bit different in that, despite all the diversity within my race, – we blacks do come in all shades of "black/brown"-- I am not, in general, attracted to black men. There have been exceptions in my dating life, but less than a handful. My attraction is more toward European men - particularly German, French, Italian, and British/Scotish/Irish men. For the longest time, I was not attracted to Spanish men, but man has that changed since 2010 and my trip to Spain! What a person likes is what they like, and people should not get so upset or take it personally if they simply aren't what someone likes. Just accept it and move on. Questioning it is useless. I outline online what I like in my profiles. No need to contact me if you are not what I want or describe. I am not the type to change my mind on a whim just because someone asks a question like..."So you aren't interested in black guys?" I am also not looking to start an extended convo/discussion/debate about my likes / dislikes until we're past the initial hook up stage and things get a bit more serious. I just delete those kinds of questions and move on. No need to waste your time or mine. I wish more people thought like this....
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I sort of have this strange fetish of wanting to have sex with a member of all races… I find beauty in all races for some reason.
As for being gay Muslim vs Gay Christian, the difference is, most Christian countries don't murder people for being gay, while many Muslim countries murder people for being gay (Iran, Sudan, Senegal for example)
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I can have sex with a guy of any race if he is hot an sexy but in general asians are not my type.
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I totally agree that everyone has their own racial preferences and it's not necessarily racist. But it can become racist if you're treating someone, like a guy flirting with you or a friend/acquaintance, differently because of their race. But no one ever thinks that kinda stuff overtly… I think it's all in the subconscious.
The best advice I could give is don't lock yourself in to only pursuing one type of guy... I'm white and all through my 20s I only dated/slept with white guys and hispanics. I would have been the first to tell you black guys were "not my type"... Now I'm 31 and two years ago randomly met a 24yo black guy and started dating. I wasn't even looking for a relationship but just went with it. We fell in love hardcore and now we've been married a year. He's the best thing that ever happened to me. I never would have guessed I would marry a guy of a different race, but I'm really glad I didn't dismiss the possibility before giving it a chance.
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