Only CULTURALLY COMPETENT users should remove torrents from Themed Movies / TV
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"Homosexual culture has appropriated Demy's work, and in particular Les Parapluie de Cherbourg.
That's exactly my point! It appeals to gay people but it is not inherently gay. You can view any film through a gay lens or apply queer theory to anything whether or not it was intentional on the part of the creator. You can also find "gay details" in any film if you look for them. Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar.
French people may have first dibs on this film because it's French, but I don't think that there's anything inherent to it that only French people can divine. In this particular case, being French or a francophone doesn't confer any special advantage in seeing what's not there in the first place. You still haven't given a single concrete example.
So where do you draw the line? It doesn't really matter to me where you draw it, but be honest about why you're drawing it, where you're drawing it, and who is especially qualified to do so.
It is interesting to note that Demy died of AIDS. How he got HIV, I do not know.
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Love the photo!
I am arguing that historic films that are essential to gay culture and drag culture should be allowed, despite not being explicitly gay-themed.
The elements of an 80's-themed party are hairspray, shoulder pads, and British New Wave music. Those elements are part of the 80's. The theme is comprised of the elements.
If this film is "certainly a major element of French gay culture", then it is gay in and of itself. It is gay because the French gays appropriated it, i.e. they took it for themselves without asking permission, similar to the way English-speaking gays appropriated the word "queer". That word is ours now. This film is ours now.
Of course, we have to accept that the French academics know what they're talking about… but in this case, that's not such a huge stretch.
Also, I completely agree that non-French people can research and understand this film's important place in French gay culture. It's just harder to do, because we need translation services, and we're going to miss some of the cultural references. One of the French users who commented on the first posting of UMBRELLAS compared it to THE WIZARD OF OZ. In my mind, this film is a concrete example, but I think I understand why you don't agree. Part of its gayness is extrinsic and acquired, based on French gay culture's understanding and embrace of the "placardization" of the romantic relationship.
Let's see... how about DIE HARD 4? I'm guessing the majority of GTRU users don't think it belongs here, and it probably doesn't, but the way Bruce and Justin treat each other as romantic interests is really obvious, throughout the movie. They do the daddy/son thing perfectly and the director told them to. Part of that effect is conveyed by subtleties in language. I don't think it would be nearly as obvious to a person with no English who is watching it with subtitles in their native language. If it was dubbed, the effect might disappear entirely. Perhaps this is a concrete example of a movie with homoerotic elements that are difficult for disinterested foreigners to pick up on.
So where do you draw the line?
The rules for Themed Movies are confusing and use an undefined word, which creates gray areas that require interpretation. I propose that GTRU users collectively know what's gay enough to belong here. I will commit to accepting the decision of a diverse group of forum users, even if I disagree. You and I have modeled the process I'm proposing for these types of films, in a small way:
The first user (me) made an English-language search, and found something about queerness in Demy's work, but it wasn't specific to UMBRELLAS. The second user (you) made another English-language search, and found something that had more information (the thesis.) The third user (me again, but it could have been anyone) made a French-language search on google.fr and found several more specific and relevant information sources about UMBRELLAS, which strongly suggest it is gay enough to clear the gray areas in the rules.
The process did not require any time or effort from a mod.
The process also showed how knowledge of the film's original language and culture helps find information sources that we can use to decide if it's gay enough. I'm suggesting we explicitly give greater weight to the opinions of users from the film's source culture, but it might not be necessary. If they are sharing information that the rest of us aren't aware of, their deeper knowledge will be obvious to everyone.
Of course, if the site owner(s) want to delete a torrent, they will ignore the forum decision and do whatever they want. C'est la vie!
Thanks again for your very thoughtful comments!!!
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Well, to keep this short, instead of some of the long college thesis that have been posted here :cheesy2: , IMHO if someone can make a valid and reasonably logical defense for something being here (instead of just saying "It's gay!", or something like that), then it should be left alone and stay here.
Not some crazed interpretation or subjectively applied subtext, but something which does make sense.Just IMHO…
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if someone can make a valid and reasonably logical defense for something being here
I think this is key. Some films will be obviously gay-themed (by most definitions), while others will need an explanation–and that can add to the enjoyment of the film. If the "gay connection" is not obvious, and it's not explained, users should expect a gentle comment to the effect of, "Is there a gay theme here?" Responding with a hissy fit that one of the day players in scene 241 was gay in real life doesn't cut it...although we see that a lot.
Uploaders shouldn't think of their torrents as raw meat tossed into a shark tank, but rather as a menu item for viewers to consider. Make an argument why a person should invest not only dowload volume but the time to watch the film.
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Mod 2222 is competent as he can be, we mod may not agree on certain matters, but I stand by his sound decision.
As for Democracy, this is a Private gay site with the emphasis on the word private.
I agree with the last two replies.
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As for Democracy, this is a Private gay site with the emphasis on the word private.
Except…without the Users/Downloaders, this site wouldn't be here. It may be a Private site, and there may be a specific owner, but you can't run the site by only what the owner/mods say goes. The Users have to have some input, otherwise what's the point of even having the site?
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But that's it, there will always be a user/downloader, they come and go. If you meant by input translate to suggestions, then yes.
To say, a user(s) with "only" cultural competent should remove torrent from Themed movie is a different matter, That's is why we have mods.
Mod 2222 applied as a volunteer for that duty and was interviewed by senior mod of this site and found him suitable.
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The Danish Girl and stranger by the lake? I heard of it before, but I've never seen stranger by the lake? It's another french film. French= Le Gay :love:
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@bc22:
In some parts of the world, it can be offensive to call someone out on any form of competency. Perhaps if one must, maybe a better phrase could be something like Culturally Aware.
That's an excellent better term!
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- Google can help with the gray areas.
Gray areas are real. Gray areas are a matter of interpretation. Crowd-sourcing works. The opinion of many GTRU users will be superior to the opinion of any one user.
Every discussions is open in every torrent comment box. If I'm not the one who is starting them, I read them all especially in Themed and TV category, and take a weight in every contributions. But I'm the one who decide, yes or no, stay or delete. This is not about superiority but its about job description. This is the numerous times you question my ability and competence, and I'm tired to explain myself every time, but you seems do not want to hear it, so fuck it, I don't give a fuck what you believe. Forgive my words, but I need to say it. If you don't like me personally, make a petition and submit it to the site. In the meantime I'll do my job whether you like it or not.
- Google can help with the gray areas.
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- We should be getting movies from other torrent sites.
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8 ) The site owner doesn't want more torrents.
I don't believe I've ever interacted with the GTRU site owner(s), but I have worked with lots of corporate site owners. They want:
More and better content,
which attracts more users,
which creates more traffic,
which leads to more revenue (via donations, subscriptions, or advertisements)My proposals would increase the amount of interesting content in four ways:
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Rare and/or obscure and/or non-English language films with that are significant to the gay community will be much less likely to be deleted, so more users will be able to find them.
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Users who like straight porn, and want to see more straight porn with better lighting and longer scripts (i.e. themed movies with unsimulated straight sex) will be able to find more of that content under Straight Younger and Straight Older. Because these movies will not be in the Themed Movie category, the traditional Themed Movie users will not be bothered.
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Users who want to see hot naked guys on screen will be able to find more content under the Voyeur category. Because these movies will not be in the Themed Movie category, the traditional Themed Movie users will not be bothered. (Voyeur is from voir, "to see". It seems to be the perfect category for watching hot naked guys. But if that isn't acceptable, these could go under "Softcore" instead. That category is rarely used.)
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Users who want to see more classic films that relate to the history of fabulousness (i.e. drag) will be able to find more torrents of this type. These will be posted in Themed Movies, and I don't think most of the traditional Themed Movie users will be bothered by this either… but if they are, they'll have a place to comment and complain!
Because this site is indexed in google, the site owner(s) can expect more new memberships, as people search for a copy of a rare movie they want to see, and find that it's available only here. That's how I found this site, through a google search for a rare title.
Thank you for your suggestion, we'll take this to the boss, but at the moment, HERE AND NOW, the Mods will follow the current written rules, which number 1-4 falls under gay interest which is against the rules. You said time so many times, no need no more, we got it.
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Hello kalayaan, thanks for replying!
Yes, input means suggestions, and the four proposals I made are just suggestions, nothing more.
And I agree with everything you wrote.
Mod 2222 is competent as he can be
Yes, I agree, and if you read through this thread, I have not said anything bad about 2222.
"Cultural competency" is a well-defined term in anthropology. It has absolutely nothing to do with general competency of any sort – intelligence, education, work ethic, professional experience, board certifications, etc. It has no relation to any of these. I should not have used it. I didn't know it was an obscure term. "Culturally aware" is much better, thank you bc22!
You become "culturally aware" by growing up singing the same nursery rhymes with the other children. For most of us, that was one language and one culture. A foreigner can acquire some of this later, with great effort, but they'll never have grown up watching the same ads on TV.
More diversity, more inclusion, more interesting films and shows from more countries and languages, that is what I am suggesting.
I stand by his sound decision.
Please help me understand this. Decision to remove UMBRELLAS OF CHERBOURG, or decisions in general?
I hope the research we did is enough to convince you that UMBRELLAS is gay enough to stay... even if it's just to humor our beloved French compatriots. Vive la France!
If you're talking about decisions in general, I agree with you. The vast majority of 2222's decisions are sound, sensible, sober, and suited to the situation. We have only argued about a few of those decisions, and they were mostly about French films.
I agree with the last two replies.
Yes, me too.
The question is, by what mechanism do we implement cinemacapman and eobox91103's excellent summations of this forum:
"if someone can make a valid and reasonably logical defense for something being here […] then it should be left alone"
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"one of the day players in scene 241 was gay in real life doesn't cut it"
I think we should gather these logical defenses via the forum, then determine their validity through discussion, hopefully with a very diverse group of commentators.
(And then the private site owner(s) will do whatever they want to.)
I want to thank everyone again! I have the soul of a librarian, so I want to preserve and archive everything that is important to us. You've helped me see some different perspectives on what is and isn't important.
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- Clips instead of whole works.
Clips take time to make, and many users don't know how to make them. They are by nature incomplete, which is unsatisfying. Also, if nobody ever posts the whole movie, nobody will be able to make clips from it!
Asking users to clip out the sexy parts of interesting movies is asking them to do work. People are lazy, and don't like to work. It's easier to post the whole thing, unaltered. Also, I prefer whole movies. I'm not the only one.
There some user who passionately excellent at this job and I will make all of their torrents freeleech in short time. Maybe you don't know how to make them or you're lazy, or you are both, but people are not lazy and not stupid, don't judge people using your own standard. If you don't know how to make them, enjoy whats being provided, if you can't find it look somewhere else, like many smart user will do, instead to push something with force to change the rules just to meet your own agenda. I think you are the lazy one, my personal opinion.
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Mod 2222 is competent as he can be, we mod may not agree on certain matters, but I stand by his sound decision.
As for Democracy, this is a Private gay site with the emphasis on the word private.
I agree with the last two replies.
Yes yes yes thanks my fellow Mod kalayaan :urock: :cheers:
We can do this!!! :hug:
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Your comments are very sensible and I don't disagree with you. I just ask: what's the harm in having it available here, too? It's gay enough. There are other torrent sites for movies but why send people elsewhere?
I already said I don't think it's important to have it here but I would also agree that it's not particularly harmful to have it here, either. It's simply a matter of convenience for some users for a film like this.
In a discussion a while back on this site regarding non-porn films, I asked the question, "Where do you draw the line?" I feel comfortable drawing it to exclude both The Lighthouse and The Umbrellas of Cherbourg but of course others can disagree and it doesn't bother me one way or the other what is decided. Even being familiar with them, it would never have occurred to me to look for either of them here on a gay torrent site if I wanted to watch them again, except for this discussion.
However, I really do appreciate being able to find gay-themed films here, many of which are difficult or impossible to find elsewhere, and I think that is important.
**In the end, it's a privately-owned torrent site and the owner can do what he pleases with no obligation to explain or justify his actions. **
Thank you so much bearbearbear, I could just kiss you now :jiz: LOL
And that last sentence is the most excellent one! I love the way you explain this. :thx:
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Your comments are very sensible and I don't disagree with you. I just ask: what's the harm in having it available here, too? It's gay enough. There are other torrent sites for movies but why send people elsewhere?
I already said I don't think it's important to have it here but I would also agree that it's not particularly harmful to have it here, either. It's simply a matter of convenience for some users for a film like this.
In a discussion a while back on this site regarding non-porn films, I asked the question, "Where do you draw the line?" I feel comfortable drawing it to exclude both The Lighthouse and The Umbrellas of Cherbourg but of course others can disagree and it doesn't bother me one way or the other what is decided. Even being familiar with them, it would never have occurred to me to look for either of them here on a gay torrent site if I wanted to watch them again, except for this discussion.
However, I really do appreciate being able to find gay-themed films here, many of which are difficult or impossible to find elsewhere, and I think that is important.
**In the end, it's a privately-owned torrent site and the owner can do what he pleases with no obligation to explain or justify his actions. **
Thank you so much bearbearbear, I could just kiss you now :jiz: LOL
And that last sentence is the most excellent one! I love the way you explain this. :thx:
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