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    Would You Be Straight if You Had The Choice?

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      thetmstone
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      No because I don't refuse my sexuality, I think you'd betray who you are and how you were raised and that ain't ok to me. I just love being male, I like other males and wouldn't change that for any reason 😉 Yes, I am afraid of eventual homophobia episodes that may occur in my life, but I don't care, luckily I know how to defend myself but I also understand that we're all different and don't react the same way.

      And for the record, I'm 23 years old and I still wouldn't be straight 🙂

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        daydreamer86
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        I hate to say it, but if I could choose then yes I would choose to be straight simply because it would have been a heck of a lot less strain on the relationship between me and my parents.

        With that said, I'd probably still have to get over my fear/disgust of vaginas first. ;D

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          vaylon 0
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          No. Known I was gay since I was little and because I wasn't fem, most people thought I was a liar just looking for attention.
          Besides, I have seen all the shit my straight friends have had to deal with. I wouldn't wish that crap on anyone. So, I consider myself lucky.

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            sudata
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            I wouldn't be the person I am if I were not gay. I thank the way I am, otherwise I'd see the world in a very different way. So being gay is a very important part of my personal¡ty and I'd be another person if I were not gay.

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              erikiwi
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              no

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                nickys1177
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                this is tricky because if I were straight then I would not have other good qualities which made me okey with my life now

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                  junior
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                  no way..

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                    Domosuke
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                    I would yes.

                    Because I'm black as well.

                    I feel being black and gay, I'm forced to pick a side. As usually the gay media circuit doesn't accept men who look like me. Most of the black and African cultures do not accept homosexuality at all. So it's tough trying to be under both of those tropes.

                    For example, right now I'm picking my gay/queer side.

                    But society sees me as a black man, and black men usually are supposed to be masculine and promote this straight image.

                    I'm a feminine gay guy, so it's just so puzzling and confusing.

                    Also I seem to be attracted and crush on straight men and straight agendas more than gay.

                    I'd rather just be straight.

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                      MulderYuffie
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                      No never I'm completely happy with all aspects of gay life and wouldn't trade it for the world!

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                        NickJakobs
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                        No way, it feels more naturall for me to be gay. i have no issues with this live style .

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                          ubbe45
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                          No way! It feels so natural for me to be gay (and bottom).

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                            uppa2
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                            I don't think so… But I can't judge who will choose to be straight.

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                              jake357
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                              im happy with who i am today, i cant imagine changing that. i bet a lot of the people i know i would have never met if i was straight. plus being gay adds an interesting perspective on things. not saying being straight wouldnt but gay people often have the choice of coming out which adds to the layers

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                                nostalgic808
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                                I detest children, enjoy the absence of contraceptives and worship at the altar of Dick. It's a solid no for me.

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                                  Mrsergie
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                                  sometimes i think it might be easier but i love being gay.

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                                    indybr05
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                                    maybe not straight, but would love to be Bi, it's the best scenario for me

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                                      evanrosier
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                                      It would be easier to be straight in my homphobic and transphobic country, no doubt, but no.

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                                        ckboy
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                                        My life would be much easier so yes.

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                                          Carlogenic
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                                          yes

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                                            USHorizon
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                                            Woo, thanks for the honesty. I'm black and masc. I think I like my queerness (and my pansexuality), but it's often not read as visible as race and gender. Undeniably, that's given me a degree of privilege within black and non-black communities.

                                            @Domosuke:

                                            I would yes.

                                            Because I'm black as well.

                                            I feel being black and gay, I'm forced to pick a side. As usually the gay media circuit doesn't accept men who look like me. Most of the black and African cultures do not accept homosexuality at all. So it's tough trying to be under both of those tropes.

                                            For example, right now I'm picking my gay/queer side.

                                            But society sees me as a black man, and black men usually are supposed to be masculine and promote this straight image.

                                            I'm a feminine gay guy, so it's just so puzzling and confusing.

                                            Also I seem to be attracted and crush on straight men and straight agendas more than gay.

                                            I'd rather just be straight.

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