Worth it to continue talking to a gay friend who has replaced me?

[BoromirsFan]

I made a gay friend online who offered to be my tutor for my difficult college classes.

I was perfectly fine with it being platonic and strictly professional. But he kept pushing the boundaries, sharing info about his sex life and sexual interests. Really not the stuff you would share with your friends because of how intimate it was.

We talked a lot and I became used to it. But I saw that he has found a new gay couple that he talks to, and he has since messaged me a lot less.

This has really hurt me emotionally because I grew to enjoy talking with him. Now he even ignores some of my messages too.

It's been about 12 days since I last messaged him and he hasn't responded. Should I send more messages and try and continue this? Or should I cut all ties?

I know you're not supposed to keep messaging people when they don't respond because it looks desperate, but I don't want to throw away free tutoring. What would you do?

[Gianni89]

One way attractions never work out well, forget him, delete his info so you aren't tempted to even try because trust you are only going to hate yourself later. Find a new tutor, pay for this one, at least you won't get sidetracked. Never make anyone a priority in your life when you remain a mere option in theirs. Jesus, I'm Ann Landers. :afr:

[USHorizon]

@Gianni89:

One way attractions never work out well, forget him, delete his info so you aren't tempted to even try because trust you are only going to hate yourself later. Find a new tutor, pay for this one, at least you won't get sidetracked. Never make anyone a priority in your life when you remain a mere option in theirs. Jesus, I'm Ann Landers. :afr:

I agree with Ann Landers.