Is there anyone +25 here and still virgin?
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I am 29 soon 30. Chinese potato queen! Several sex experiences with Occidental guys but never down to anal level. Tried a few times, but still not ready. Think I am still into fucking but should be the one beloved.
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I'm not virgin with girls since 17, married to woman and still attracted to guys but never found any gay guy who deserves my ass. I'm 24
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I think all of you that are not having sex cause you think you won't like it or cause you are shy or afraid of it should TAKE A RISK and try it anyway. You have nothing to lose, only to gain if you do that. Why? Because when you try it then you'll know for sure how you really feel when having sex and what you really want from sex and what you don't want, what you need and what you don't need.
If you don't take a risk you have already failed, if you try and you don't like it, you have gained a lot cause you know lots of stuff about your sexuality right now for sure. -
And in order to find someone with whom you'd feel nice during sex, someone who will accept you - is to go to some dating gay sites (planetromeo, grindr, etc.) and to write about yourself as much as you can completely honestly. Cause if you honestly write about what you are afraid of and what kind of guy you'd like to date and what you need to feel safe and horny and all that - then guess what? All the guys who can't accept you like that will vanish from you and those who accept you will send you a message and want to meet with you and get to know you.
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So if you think you have some special needs/problems or something, you need to write that in your info so others can know this and trust me that there are people who will read that info of yours and who will be completely okay with your need/s so they'll message you and probably tell you that they really appreciate your honesty and that they are the ones able to meet that need of yours and they'll wanna meet you.
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So whether you just wanna have sex immediately with someone or you first wanna get to know him in person on coffee or something, it's always the same - you need to honestly write as much as you can about yourself and you'll find a person that have nothing against your need/want/problem and that's how you'll find a guy with whom you can feel nice during sex.
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If you don't write about yourself, about your needs/wants/problems then you probably won't find anyone, especially if you have some special wants/needs/problems because people need to know information about you so they can see if they are okay with you and since there always are people who are gonna be okay with the way you are (no matter the way you are) the right person will message you and you'll be able to enjoy time with that person cause that person will be patient & understanding with you and will accept you the way you are!
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Remember that you need to find only 1 right person, only 1… you really think that's impossible?! If you do, please create your profiles on dating gay websites anyway - write a lot about yourself and upload your pictures (with or without face, naked or in clothes - depending on whether you're looking for immediate sex, getting to know someone before sex or looking for your mate) and see the magic happening!
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And if you're afraid (shy, etc)- there's nothing wrong with feeling afraid - almost everyone is afraid of meeting someone new to a certain extent (many don't want to admit it so you have an impression that they are fearless or something) but the difference between those people (who are both afraid) is that some people do it anyway (they take a risk) and that's how they discover more about what they like/don't like, want/don't want, need/don't need etc and after awhile they find what they were looking for... and some people don't try it cause they are afraid - so they stay on the same place all the time and they won't move from that place untill they embrace their fear and try what they are afraid of anyway - then they'll be much happier even if they didn't like the experience they had (cause now they know what they don't like so they will now be able to going in direction of what they do like instead)...
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(First sorry because English is not my first language!
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I'm 33Yo, power bottom (I like to call me myself like that), had lots of oral sex in my younger years (I always was the giver, just only two times in my life I have received it) and jerk off other guys. I've NEVER had penetration, first because I was afraid it was gonna hurt and second because I was afraid that "anal sex" always end in a "mess" (if you know what I'm trying to say).
Years passed by and well, I didn't have sex in like 13 years (not even oral sex with other guys) so, I'm starting to think I'm asexual or something, I don't know, I like men like I like to breathe… But I don't have a strong enough motivation to go out and lose my "anal" virginity.
PS: I might add that I'm "normal" looking, and a discrete bottom (people sometimes doesn't even know that I'm gay) -
(First sorry because English is not my first language!
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I'm 33Yo, power bottom (I like to call me myself like that), had lots of oral sex in my younger years (I always was the giver, just only two times in my life I have received it) and jerk off other guys. I've NEVER had penetration, first because I was afraid it was gonna hurt and second because I was afraid that "anal sex" always end in a "mess" (if you know what I'm trying to say).
Years passed by and well, I didn't have sex in like 13 years (not even oral sex with other guys) so, I'm starting to think I'm asexual or something, I don't know, I like men like I like to breathe… But I don't have a strong enough motivation to go out and lose my "anal" virginity.
PS: I might add that I'm "normal" looking, and a discrete bottom (people sometimes doesn't even know that I'm gay)Not asexual… you have sex drive! you just only dont like anal sex enough :S why the need of a label?
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I'm over 26 now and haven't penetrated or been penetrated.
For me it's mostly a matter of religion and trust. -
not a virgin anymore… lost it a 18yo
i am 33yo and has been 3 years i am no longer interested in doing sex with other people.
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I'm a virgin when it comes to sex with a woman.
With men not so much.
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I'm not a virgin anymore. But sometime I wish i coulb be a virgin again. Because sex can be boring since the guys always want to do the same thing and are not into pushing their limits…
I'm 27 btw
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I only lost my virginity at 27.
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I'm not a virgin anymore. But sometime I wish i coulb be a virgin again. Because sex can be boring since the guys always want to do the same thing and are not into pushing their limits…
I'm 27 btw
I'll help you push some limits. >:D
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I am 26 and turning 27 in August and I am still a virgin.. Why I am virgin? Because i am living in a country where being gay is crime and cause up to 16 years of jail. But at the same time no one ever has been jailed here for being gay. Finding guy for sex is easy than finding anything else here through Grindr and other sources but i am still virgin as i am afraid to go with some stranger at his place
I know it sounds easy to say and that the reality is harder than this however…. I would seriously try to move to a different country. I couldn't imagine being forced to stay in the closet and pretend I am someone I am not. I hope that some day whatever country you are in comes to its senses and realizes that love is not a crime. That however is easier said than done and may not be the right thing for you as a person.
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so 25 is the new 18? there are so many 30 plus and still certified virgins.
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Well, certainly not me!
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so 25 is the new 18? there are so many 30 plus and still certified virgins.
Actually no, in the gay male world, it's quite the opposite.
Just that the topic clearly stated for anyone who is still a virgin to pitch in towards that.
So you are gonna get a bunch of guys saying they are virgins.
Myself included who is a 27 year old virgin, not by choice.
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Well.. not virgin anymore…. still struggling with the bathroom urge when i am being fucked tho ... i havent properly enjoy being penetrated yet... still awkward xD
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I am 29 soon 30. Chinese potato queen! Several sex experiences with Occidental guys but never down to anal level. Tried a few times, but still not ready. Think I am still into fucking but should be the one beloved.
Do try it, never met any bottoms who didn´t like anal sex.
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so 25 is the new 18? there are so many 30 plus and still certified virgins.
The funny thing is, it´s really easy to get sex with other men, testosterone gives you one hell of a sex drive.
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