Confusion Identifying sexual orientation
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Good day Everyone,
An having trouble identifying what sexual orientation I am. All I know is am into Muscle, I get erection seeing well built men. I masturbate with flexing videos, cam shows and Feat of strengths or other dominative videos.
This made me question If I was a gay, problem is I dont know or ever felt like I have the urge to actually have sex with a man or do I feel like I can allow another man inside me (I never have tried on both by the way), now some might say may be its because am into too much masturbation (am not) that I lose taste in actual sex. Truth is I never did as long as I know, felt the need for actual sex, I mean I fantasize and dream about cumming on biceps or pecs or being carried around by powerful men but never actual sex.
Now I thought lately that muscle women can make me hard too and thats where I even got more confuse. Whats my problem?? -
I think that it would help to start having sex. Why wouldnt you want to start experimenting? You're not gonna live the rest of your life just masturbating right?
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Sexuality is complex and confusing and individual.
There are a lot of people who are just not interested in having sex with other people.
There are a plethora of terms you may want to look through if you want to have a way to describe yourself. Don't let yourself be pressured into doing something you're just not interested in. You certainly don't owe anyone - much less strangers on the Internet - a label to make them/us feel more comfortable.
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I think that it would help to start having sex. Why wouldnt you want to start experimenting? You're not gonna live the rest of your life just masturbating right?
You have a point here..
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Agreed…get out there and do something and you will know...after the nerves drop away...you will know. Your dick will let you know what turns you on.
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Agreed…get out there and do something and you will know...after the nerves drop away...you will know. Your dick will let you know what turns you on.
Your dick.. and maybe your ass as well, will let you know!
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You will never know what you are until you start having sex and experimenting.
Is your fantasy's gay? Yes. Very gay. Straight guys do not have those types of fantasies.
But its just a fantasy. Actual real sex is different and much more complex.
It's not just about where the dick goes and for how long. It involves taste, smell, body language, attraction and hundreds of other little things that give the experience its flavor.
You're into muscles. Nothing wrong with that. But until you act on your desire's, your entire sexual life is nothing but a fantasy and not real. Just a thought that's in your head.
Don't deprive yourself of one of life's best parts. -
Maybe you have to figure out by yourself. The fastest way is to go to a gay bar to see whether you are into man or just be attracted by the muscle as you said you can erect when see muscle women. If you do not want to take a risk, a Psychologist is recommended.
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Hyper-masculinity turns me on (big muscles, jocks, uniforms, leather, bikers, etc…).
I am versatile. I can Top oral / Anal just about anyone (good imagination).
I'm VERY picky on who I will bottom for.
Fem is a huge turn off.
So chemistry is a huge part of my sexual orientation.
If you haven't found your chemistry I can see being confused on orientation.
Have you played with any toys? Sometimes that can help you figure out if you can get any pleasure from anal, then try to find the right partners to give you that pleasure.
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