How'd you react if your kid was homophobic?
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Homophobia doesn't develope out of thin air, it had to be nourished somewhere.
If my child had homophobic ideas I would, first, explain to him/her at the best of my possibilites how homophobia is wrong. Second, I would sniff out where he/she is getting all that shit from and cut my son/daughter from it.
Of course if you do something douchey like divorcing your wife without any explanation and then go live the gay-party-boy lifestyle, you screwed up, BIG time. Either the child is gonna hate you (and the mother would nourish that hate) or he/she would grow up to be an irresponsible ass and will use you as an example.
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People aren't born homophobic so I doubt I would have to problem with raising kids and one of them popping up as homophobic. As long as you treat your kids right the chances of them hating you is thin to nothing. And I still don't get why it's called homophobia, I don't know why people are scared of gay people, I've only ever met douche bags.
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teach he/she a leasson heheh Lol. But pretty sure a honest converrsation, and educating would solve it easily!
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that's no bigge for me….. oh no! i will be worried... for all the pressure she or he would carry in this life
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Very wise question.
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My kid can not be homophobic because first thing im going to teach him/her would be that everybody is equal and shoul not be judged by things they cant choose
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I have the joy of being a step parent. 5 kids. They real mom and dad are awesome. They teach tolerance. And they as us questions. They know we are just the same except our love is shared in a gay
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Kids usually have to become rebels at some point, I want to be a father and I imagine myself with a partner but I have always wondered what can you possible rebel agains to when your parents are gay. I mean, it's like having hippie parents and becoming a CEO, I guess being straight as ever would be the most possible outcome, yes, they might even yell faggot at you during an argument but I don't know. It's an usual response to fight everything your parents are at some age. Let's hope it would just be a phase but in the end, that's just parenthood. Or so I guess.
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I will make a reflection of my daily behavior, serious thought and consideration myself first. if he is very young dont know much about sexuality and just curious. I will lead him to the right side. If he is teenager i will accept his sexuality. As a father your responsibility is to give them what’s right and wrong in their growing ages.
by the way boys always like to play woth boys. At the early age like 7-10, they will have a curiosity to sex, that’s normal play with each other’s cock or try to do anal or oral is not that strange. you will pay attention at that time it’s very a period
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I will make a reflection of my daily behavior, serious thought and consideration myself first. if he is very young dont know much about sexuality and just curious. I will lead him to the right side. If he is teenager i will accept his sexuality. As a father your responsibility is to give them what’s right and wrong in their growing ages.
by the way boys always like to play woth boys. At the early age like 7-10, they will have a curiosity to sex, that’s normal play with each other’s cock or try to do anal or oral is not that strange. you will pay attention at that time it’s very a period
I miss understanding the topic… homophobic is totally opposite of homophobia. can’t modify my post now. but i’d say if they hate gay and they are grown up at 16 years old, they will lose inheritance of mine. I don’t want to give my legacy to a gay hater. and I will not pay their college fee. they don’t belove against all of my love to them for decades.
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