Need advise: My ex is now my supervisor, and treat me like nobody.
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^^^^^ thanks
Emotionally cheated? Like, how? He got a hug from the straight guy?
yeah basically, I initially knew from a gut. While we are on LDR, the guy came up several times, the way he spoke about him seems weird. And since our circle of friends are pretty much the same, heard things or two from the people that he had a very close friend. I guess he cheated by replacing my presence with this guy and start imagining life with him instead with me. And moreover, the guy is straight, how hurtful is that
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Pay no mind ti him , move on emotionally and get a labor attorney.
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undermine and sabotage him every chance you get and when he threatens to fire you threaten to out him and sue the company for creating a toxic work environment. Make his life such a living hell he quits…that's what I do when friends become my supervisors.
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undermine and sabotage him every chance you get and when he threatens to fire you threaten to out him and sue the company for creating a toxic work environment. Make his life such a living hell he quits…that's what I do when friends become my supervisors.
You're just trolling. That's a horrible thing to do.
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thanks for the replies lol. I may not be his bf anymore, and he cheated, but since I'm such a loser, I bare no ill will, I can't imagine hurting him in any way shape and form.
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definitely you should ask to talk to him privately and then open up. If you had a story with him this shouldn't be a taboo between you two, that only makes things worse. best luck on that.
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definitely you should ask to talk to him privately and then open up. If you had a story with him this shouldn't be a taboo between you two, that only makes things worse. best luck on that.
plot twist, alrd did ask him to speak privately face to face. But he cannot and won't do it. Bc he's too anxious and doesn't have the emotional capacity to handle such conversation. :crazy2: . It sounds crazy, I know, Ive been with him for 2 years, this is what happened whenever we get into a fight, 1 of us is upset, or when we're about to have serious conversation. I might've dodged the bullet when I think of it regarding this guy.Â
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undermine and sabotage him every chance you get and when he threatens to fire you threaten to out him and sue the company for creating a toxic work environment. Make his life such a living hell he quits…that's what I do when friends become my supervisors.
You're just trolling. That's a horrible thing to do.
I'm not trolling. I'm just a legitimately horrible person.
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i can't stand this kinda drama…..even just read abt it.....if u can't just quit .....then maybe try to date his boss.....and eventually be his boss?
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definitely you should ask to talk to him privately and then open up. If you had a story with him this shouldn't be a taboo between you two, that only makes things worse. best luck on that.
plot twist, alrd did ask him to speak privately face to face. But he cannot and won't do it. Bc he's too anxious and doesn't have the emotional capacity to handle such conversation. :crazy2: . It sounds crazy, I know, Ive been with him for 2 years, this is what happened whenever we get into a fight, 1 of us is upset, or when we're about to have serious conversation. I might've dodged the bullet when I think of it regarding this guy.Â
He sounds like an emotionally/mentally immature guy with self esteem issues, who needs to face up to his actions - you deserve someone that, no matter the error, will at least attempt to discuss it with you - that is not a lot to ask
people like him want it all but want no consequence - kinda like leechers on this site that screw up their ratio then freak out.. instead of just fixing it lol
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go down
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tension builds up sure.
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He did say, that he didn't want me to waste my time, and that the wasn't sure about our relationship. And he has confessed that he emotionally cheated during our LDR. We've talked. But what i dont understand is, why he treats me like no one. I did try to move on, went on dating apps, did some hook ups. But all felt empty. I saw the guy I cared for everyday, and he barely blinks an eye on me anymore.
Basically, he has set the tone of the relationship he wants to have with you, which is distant and neutral, the way one would behave with a colleague or work mate that one has little in friendhship with except for workplace interaction.
I would suggest that instead of investing any more time and emotion in this situation, you treat him in exactly the same neutral manner that he is treating you with. Be polite and distant, and focus on just the job at hand. Sometimes this hard effort - even when its fake - allows us to have the space and time we need to recover from being hurt. And at the end, you will be free of him.
Chances are good, though, that once you distance yourself and he no longer feels pressured, he will become friendlier.
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