How many men you have had sex with so far?
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I am still a virgin. I have a very hard time finding guys to have sex/to be in a relationship with.

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I'm 29 years old and I've only ever had sex with 2 people. Both were from long-term relationships. But I also don't hook-up or have casual sex, so my number always stays low

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I'm 29 years old and I've only ever had sex with 2 people. Both were from long-term relationships. But I also don't hook-up or have casual sex, so my number always stays low

than why is your username bottom4porn? :blink:
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After a friend took me to a bathhouse and it awakened my inner exhibitionist! I used to go out every weekend friday and or saturday nights! My interactions were mainly oral,giving and getting, on any given night I could hook up with as many as a dozen guys! On nights after like Pride Parade even more! One time I had not even got to my room and this hot latino guy got me to suck him off in the hallway! I would go at least once a week, so averaging out how many guys like 7 per night times 50 weeks times 15 years of going….you do the math lol. Never swallowed a bad load either!
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Stopped counting/caring after 20…
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stopped counting after 50.. in a span of a year
and are we counting full on sex or does it include oral sex/bj?
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From 2009 until 2015 should be around 100, that's because everyone I kissed also had sex. From 2015 I started dating and I have been monogamous
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Around 200, if we count oral. I am really not into anal sex, though I've topped 5 or 6 of those. Never bottomed. 1 am 54.
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Three, and I am almost 45 years old. Three is not healthy at all. I should have fucked or been fucked in the thousands at my age. I've missed out on a lot of sex because of insecurity. I'm working on it though. I was never in the closet, I was never abused, I'm not isolated from our people, I just never thought about sex much, until a few months ago something happen. But that's another topic.
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Three, and I am almost 45 years old. Three is not healthy at all. I should have fucked or been fucked in the thousands at my age. I've missed out on a lot of sex because of insecurity. I'm working on it though. I was never in the closet, I was never abused, I'm not isolated from our people, I just never thought about sex much, until a few months ago something happen. But that's another topic.
well personally i thik3 is a decent enough number IF you were in serious relationships, or just maybe not really into casual stuff.
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Zero, and I'm 28
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Three, and I am almost 45 years old. Three is not healthy at all. I should have fucked or been fucked in the thousands at my age. I've missed out on a lot of sex because of insecurity. I'm working on it though. I was never in the closet, I was never abused, I'm not isolated from our people, I just never thought about sex much, until a few months ago something happen. But that's another topic.
I don't think you've missed out on anything. I wrote above that I have had over 200 partners, but I cant say that I have 200 happy memories. In fact, when I think about it, I would forgo most of those encounters in retrospect - except for a handful where I really liked my partner and the relationship was long term. There are people who enjoy casual sex without a doubt, but for those of us who are a bit introspective, or insecure or sensitive, quality matters more than quantity, and in my 40s, I actually preferred celibacy to meaningless sex.
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Probably 150 (i'm in my 30s). All all safe, except for two boyfriends! I kinda wish I was more of a whore. But I was scared of diseases and crabs.
Many guys I know have had hundreds already. They had sex with a few new guys a week and it just adds up. -
I'm 29 years old and I've only ever had sex with 2 people. Both were from long-term relationships. But I also don't hook-up or have casual sex, so my number always stays low

than why is your username bottom4porn? Â :blink:
Because I am a vers/bottom who looks for porn, not sex. Hence bottom4porn and not bottom4sex. You can't catch permanent life altering diseases from porn, so I'm a little bit of an addict. And because I go years and years between having sex (it's been 4 years now), porn is the best and safest way to get my rocks off.
Too many people I know, including my ex-boyfriends have diseases like HIV and HPV, which they got from the men they got into relationships with after me. Kinda feels like they got some instant-karma from where I'm sitting, but I don't need any of that bad karma coming my way, so I don't fuck around with strangers. Stranger Danger is what my mom always taught me and she was absolutely right!
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Around 100 , mostly oral sex, I am 37 and not really unto quick hook UPS
-ups, I prefer love making. -
Around 100 , mostly oral sex, I am 37 and not really unto quick hook UPS
-ups, I prefer love making. -
Gosh… I had a good think about it, and I realize that the number is a bit higher than I would have imagined at about 200... I've always seen myself as quite conservative, so maybe it's time to change that...
Good question for the post!! got me thinking...
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So, so many. Since I started (around 1976) around a few hundred a decade. You do the math.
I would however like to say that I am 100% disease free, including hiv and hepatitis. I think I got the clap once, but that was in the 80s.Have you got that rare genetic makeup present in some Swedes or Nordic people that protects them from HIV?
One hell of a lucky man I must say! -
I kind of stopped counting but I prefer lots of sex with a few partners over a bazillion ons.
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