How to stretch out your hole

[Eridanos]

You need to practice with your anal sphincter in order for it to relax enough.

Start with your fingers and see how much you can stretch it.  Buying those kits of buttplugs with increasing sizes will help you get accustomed to stuff even bigger.

[butterchurn]

Thanks   My ultimate goal is to get fisted, but I think that is going to take some doing….  :anal:

[stickyboy]

I have a very convenient, cheap way of dealing with this - cucumbers. You can buy them in various sizes and they've very cheap.

As a curious, (very) horny 12 year old, cucumbers were a godsend!

[toratora2]

A couple of useful posts from a very intresting blog:
http://crotchshaver.blogspot.com/2012/10/butt-plugs-not-ideal-for-stretching.html
http://crotchshaver.blogspot.com/2012/10/depth-training-beginners-guide-to.html

[butterchurn]

Thanks for the links!  super interesting

[daroster]

Same here

[furfiend]

Relax.  Is biggest key.  Relax.  And then practice.

Also, don't fuck self with key.  Probably do much damage.  Good luck.

[hhsq]

Relaxation and much practice with dildos ;D

[upNXT]

they have those butt plug sets that increase in size…something you would leave in is probably the best because it will force you to relax and not focus on being probed in and out...and then gradually work up the size. Also, if you really want to get into the scene, find an experienced top to help you

[bibob]

@butterchurn:

I have a really tight hole, and it often hurts to get fucked.  I'd love to be a power bottom, but I don't know how I could get there.  Any advice?

ha, that's a 1st world problem…
seriously, enjoy that tightness while you can
because it won't take long for men to seek you out and loosen you out as nature takes it's course from overuse.

Then how to tighten it back would be the million dollar question.
l've never heard of any top complain about a tight hole but a loose hole is too easy to find...