ANYONE out there not into Fucking or it's just me ?

[rizzu]

I am also not into fucking .. i dont mind fucking a man but its not something life changing for me .. i enjoy orals very much .. body sex, love exploring body .. mmmmm

[Domosuke]

ME.!!

Anal sex is just not for me. I don't like watching it either really. It's very rare I get turned on by anal sex. I like just like penis and men. I don't like men fucking, and I don't want to do it myself.

I don't like anal sex between a man and a woman either.

Probably the reason I never had a boyfriend at 25.

[SemenDemon]

I enjoy anal (giving and receiving), but sex in general, especially casual sex, has never been a huge motivation for me. I think I could live forever without ever having sex again and be okay. Yet, paradoxically, I DO enjoy it, and even want it, but I am fine going without it unless it literally falls in my lap, which it does occasionally. I've never initiated sex before myself, though, because I've never had any real urge to do so.

It's a bit like pot. I've never paid for it, but I'll smoke it if someone hands it to me. It's nice, but I seldom use it (about 3-4 times a year, if that). I never use it unless it's handed to me.

I wish I could say the same of alcohol, haha. At any rate, this thread is kind of interesting/reassuring on some level. I don't feel quite so weird anymore. ::)

[upNXT]

I would take a blow job over fucking any day

[callioperide]

I like the idea of really going there and getting fcked by a top, but I get so anxious when it does happen to me that my body would just close everything down. (well, not everything. just my good ol' bumhole) So I usually just ends up giving head. Still, I long for the day when I can finally let loose and be more…open.

Dang, that last bit was cringey.

[pasha]

maybe you're asexual and that's ok

[sockboy0]

Never been into fucking and never been fucked! although some guys have tried hard! I love sucking cock and eating cum! Also into white socks and feet! Licking,massaging and kissing! i like getting sucked but i love sucking! Rim jobs and kissing ass are hot too! I never liked the messy anal sex! I have been told i was weird cause i don't get into fucking or being fucked….I know what I like and thats not weird!

[PumpingMuscl]

@sockboy0:

I have been told i was weird cause i don't get into fucking or being fucked….I know what I like and thats not weird!

:urock:

[dist]

I used to have a lot of anal sex with one night stands. But the guy I'm currently dating, we're only doing hands and blowjobs. We tried anal at the beginning but I think we're both mostly bottoms so neither is keen on being top so we kind of just ended up doing this and it's going great. So my answer is, it depends on the person and the chemistry you have. I learned about sex from gay porn so that's the only sex I ever knew, but I've realized that sex is as diverse as the people on this planet.

[Edea]

Don't feel bad. I love to give blowjobs but I don't like receiving or being touched at all for that matter( Never bottomed and probably never will.) Some guys were more than fine with this, but still surprised that I didn't expect something back in return. One guy was really insistent to blow me and I finally gave in aaaaaand couldn't get it up. When I was blowing/rimming him, I was hard as a rock. The minute he touched me, I recoiled. So again, don't feel bad I'm MUCH weirder than you are.

[dzirlo]

i like everything, but more of a foreplay player than into anal, but still love anal so much 

so, some people are more into foreplay than sex, a some not into anything than foreplay. is all.  :love:

[erocal]

Sometimes you fuck and sometimes you get fucked… that's wrong, really wrong.

The important thing to do is... to do what you like. Masturbation, kissing, blowjob...

[PumpingMuscl]

@dist:

I used to have a lot of anal sex with one night stands. But the guy I'm currently dating, we're only doing hands and blowjobs. We tried anal at the beginning but I think we're both mostly bottoms so neither is keen on being top so we kind of just ended up doing this and it's going great. So my answer is, it depends on the person and the chemistry you have. I learned about sex from gay porn so that's the only sex I ever knew, but I've realized that sex is as diverse as the people on this planet.

I love that you guys are still together and didn't break up for that! :love: it amaze me the amount of gays who are so into someone but the second they realize they're both top or bottom they lose interest completely! like really that's the only reason you wanna be with someone just to fuck how shallow is that! and I totally agree with you that porn is what shaped our sex life and taught us things that aren't really necessary or even normal to be honest we learned to fuck each other just to be like straight couples

[dist]

@PumpingMuscl:

@dist:

I used to have a lot of anal sex with one night stands. But the guy I'm currently dating, we're only doing hands and blowjobs. We tried anal at the beginning but I think we're both mostly bottoms so neither is keen on being top so we kind of just ended up doing this and it's going great. So my answer is, it depends on the person and the chemistry you have. I learned about sex from gay porn so that's the only sex I ever knew, but I've realized that sex is as diverse as the people on this planet.

I love that you guys are still together and didn't break up for that! :love: it amaze me the amount of gays who are so into someone but the second they realize they're both top or bottom they lose interest completely! like really that's the only reason you wanna be with someone just to fuck how shallow is that! and I totally agree with you that porn is what shaped our sex life and taught us things that aren't really necessary or even normal to be honest we learned to fuck each other just to be like straight couples

Thanks. Although, I must admit I didn't think it would last when I realized he wasn't a top. I like dominant guys so that's why I like tops. I'm not really into anal that much because it hurts and requires pre-work. For a long time I only imagined us being friends. But I came to really enjoy being with him and it kind of just snowballed from there. And another reason is that I used to be skinny but now I'm more muscular from lifting weights so I'm feeling more masculine and can see myself taking on the more dominant roll if the other guy is not.

But I can definitely see why some guys would break up over that. Sex is a big part of a relationship and if it's not a match, it can mess up the dynamic of the whole relationship, even outside the bedroom.

[Ononoke]

Your question was "it's just me?", and with all these replies the answer is a pretty obvious NO, right?
And that's the reality of life, really. Different people has different preference, and sex is just one small part of it.

I'll get philosophical a bit if you don't mind. While I agree 'fucking' is one important element of 'romance' or 'love', it's not really a mandatory thing. That's because 'love' itself is a state of mind. I believe 'being loved and being able to love' has a far deeper and fundamental satisfaction impact compared to several seconds of orgasmic pleasure. It's what's happening between you and your partner that matters the most. How you slowly get to know them personally, the discovery of things you hate to love, and love to hate. The building of ethereal bond that only the two of you understands. The thought of 'wanting to grow old together' with this person despite his/her flaws, that's unlike a come-and-go one-night-stand. A connection at an emotional level, that surpasses the physical. In fact, if you analyze couples who have spend years of marriage and/or togetherness, you'd discover that THAT is the key to their long lasting relationships.

So does 'fucking' required? Nope. Not really. It doesn't even guarantee a strong relationship. You only need to find someone who feels the same way as you about this principal (which are plenty irl btw), and all is set for your happiness! :hug:

[propagandhi]

I love blowjobs. :bj2:  I love it when I can get a guy to squirt without him ever touching himself.

[TheNewt]

It's normal, some bisexual and gay men are not into anal sex.  For decades I had no desire to do anal sex at all, and I only did things like oral sex, mutual masturbation, body contact/rubbing with kissing, and sometimes consensual BDSM.

Now since I have done anal sex as active/top only, I enjoy it but I only do it with a boyfriend/partner.  This is only if he wants it, and we use condoms.  We don't have to have or do anal sex at all if he does not want to.  I have had relationships and partnerships with other top/active men who I was with for years, and we did not do any anal sex at all.  I personally have no desire to get fucked, bottom, or be passive for anal sex but that's me.

I know men both top/active and bottom/passive, and even versatile men or men who love to be both top/bottom or active/passive for anal sex who, when they have sex only want to have anal sex. For me this is boring or being too limiting.  I dated men like this and the ones who were pushy about anal sex I did not like especially since at the time I had told them how I had zero interest in doing any anal sex at all since at the time it was a total turn off.

[PumpingMuscl]

@TheNewt:

when they have sex only want to have anal sex. For me this is boring or being too limiting.

yea I know a lot of people like this! for them sex is just fucking nothing else, it's kinda sad because I think they can't connect emotionally to appreciate other stuff  they're a sex machine

[jkronfuss]

It's not, I went almost 2 years without sex after a break up, each person is different si you should not push yourself into doing what you don't want to do.