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    Is it possible to found out you're actually bi?

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      deko
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      Sexuality is not a "straight" line that's why I question mine regularly

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        Moonie
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        Have only been attracted to males emotionally and physically. Seems like a straight line for me.  :cheesy2:

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          spam17
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          @Moonie:

          Have only been attracted to males emotionally and physically. Seems like a straight line for me.  :cheesy2:

          :cheesy2:

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            obras62
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            It seems that you have the answer in the first place with trying not to label yourself.

            Why do you need a label, you have a name and that should be enough.

            I agree with you on being able to love women but not being attracted to their bodies.

            Love who you want and enjoy the rest without labeling

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              spam17
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              @obras62:

              It seems that you have the answer in the first place with trying not to label yourself.

              Why do you need a label, you have a name and that should be enough.

              I agree with you on being able to love women but not being attracted to their bodies.

              Love who you want and enjoy the rest without labeling

              Truth said..

              :crazy2:

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                fuckall
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                it's possible

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                  bulbaboy
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                  I'm straight but I get very turned on by gay porn (why else would I be here?). When it comes to real life, however, I have almost zero attraction to any guy I meet. Once or twice, maybe, in my entire life, did I ever see a guy who was exceptionally good looking enough for me to even contemplate it. I'm turned on by all kinds of porn (female, male, shemale too), but I'm only ever drawn to females in real life. So I'm not sure where I end up on the spectrum, but I definitely can't consider myself bi. Bi certainly exists, but I think much fewer people fall into that category than it seems.

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                    maraqua63630
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                    Yes, i think you'll juat have to experiment around

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                      thefatmunky
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                      I like both cock and pussy/boobs, but if i had to choose between the 2, cock always wins 😛 i'm also not sure what to classify myself as, but what does it really matter, labels are overrated…i think as long as no one gets hurt, just be yourself and enjoy it, whatever it might be

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                        Megazor
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                        I'm only sexually attracted to males, but I usually fall in love with any gender. I've even dated women, really loving them, but I can't be turned on or have sex. I'm homosexual and panromantic then. After finding out that your sexual preference and romantic preference can be different it was easier to understand myself.

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                          TheNewt
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                          Yes it's possible.

                          I'm bisexual but I first came out as gay when I was very young, and other bisexual friends of mine did the same thing and it's pretty common.

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                            addic2porn
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                            I have not been with a girl yet but I know that I like girls. I am attracted to beautiful girls. Eventhough I have not dated a girl but I know that I will do it one day. On the other hand, I have had sex with guys. I am so much attracted to guys more than girls.
                            So the big question here about my label - I would like to label myself as Bisexual although I have not even touched a girl sexually. I don't care what the world says.

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                              porkyV2
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                              @kagaminelen:

                              I always knew I was gay, but some time ago I've stopped labbing myself, and it make me saw things by another way.

                              The thing is:
                              I've already fell in love with girls a few times, but, idk, I mean, I'm not attracted to the female body, I think…
                              This dosen't even make any sense, right?
                              While I can fell love and be attracted to guys.
                              Now I'm just asking if I'm bi, and idk the answer, it's driving me CRAZY!!

                              Have you ever felt that way? Did you give it a try?

                              as a young man i did have 2 girls i fell in love with BUT never had sexual thoughts on them. in retrospect, this is a good example of the big big difference between love and lust. bisexuality in its definition contains sexuality, hence you are not bisexual since you are never sexually aroused by the female body. bisexuals have sexual arousal for both sexes. what you may be "feeling" is PLATONIC LOVE or even AGAPE, both of which is love without sexual intent or contact. the latter is more religious in nature.

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                                spam17
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                                @addic2porn:

                                I have not been with a girl yet but I know that I like girls. I am attracted to beautiful girls. Eventhough I have not dated a girl but I know that I will do it one day. On the other hand, I have had sex with guys. I am so much attracted to guys more than girls.
                                So the big question here about my label - I would like to label myself as Bisexual although I have not even touched a girl sexually. I don't care what the world says.

                                😇

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                                  helloitsmesf
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                                  well, i wouldnt use the term find out but, enlightened - i think yes. the thing is, we're not just straight, gay, bi or whatever. sexual orientation can't be labelled and put in mutually exclusive and exhaustive categories. it's a spectrum and you're allowed to be attracted to everyone regardless of gender.

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                                    mufum69
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                                    I'm in my 50s. I struggled with the idea that I was Gay/bi or strait for years. Most of my relationships were with women. I've had plenty with men also. Finally about 10 years ago I accepted the fact that I was attracted to both. Guess on an 80/20 split 80 being women. Most women find themselves relating well to me. Probably because of my feminine side. Though if you met me you would think I was the most hetero person you know. My gay friends also feel comfortable with me. So I like to use the tag Heteroflexible. I guess if I'm attracted to you then it doesn't matter whether your a male or female. If we connect it works for me.

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                                      JACK777
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                                      There is some kind of a scale so its all fluid.

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                                        DamaDama
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                                        i have thought of that but i don't think i am.Sure, i like the idea of messing with a woman, but what really happens is that women do not attract me at all.Sexually at least,because i like seeing pretty women

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                                          gaypraha2
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                                          side note : some people are actually ambisexual. Ambisexual means you switch from time to time from straight to gay ; it's different than bisexual cause you can be straight for some months or even years and you dont feel like having sex with same sex but then you enter a period in which you are gay and you dont feel like having straight sex. Bisexual is different, you can be horny for both sex along the same period of time.
                                          (I know in english bisexual and ambisexual are used in the same way but not in my language).

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                                            R3ini3r
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                                            Just try both sides again. And again.. and again  ;D

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