Have you ever been in a LDR?
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Wondering how many people are in a long distance relationship and what they do to make it work.
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I don't really believe it works at all.
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Depends on how you describe "far".
I was with a guy about 200km away for a year. Didn't work out.
But now I'm trying my luck with a guy whos 500km away. Guys, wish me luck. -
Betty Downer here with a bit of a silver lining.
Long distance relationships just don't work but that's okay because really neither do any other relationships in the end.
Just enjoy what you can while you can.
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Was with In a long term distance relationship for 3 yrs, visited a few times, both sort of cooled on it after that. Can be frustrating but made up for it on the visits
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I never have and I never will :crazy2:
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I have. With my current boyfriend. Actually it was kinda weird. I met him via facebook and I didn't expect to fall for him in any way. I didn't even know his face until several months later. I fell for him after knowing him for 6-7 months, and by that time I've seen his face, but we haven't had met yet because we lived in different part of the country. I stated my feelings for him and we were kinda established in a long distant relationship for much of our relationship period. After three years, he moved to the city where I live and we immediately met and this time, formally got acquainted. We are still in a relationship by now. It's kinda funny for me how it was all started.
Also, we are in a relationship but without either of us proposing to each other. We just… get through it, expressing affection and all. Is that weird? :-X
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Long distance relationships just don't work but that's okay because really neither do any other relationships in the end.
^this
Although I've been in LDR for years, separated by schools and work and too expensive travel costs. I guess it depends a bit on what you want to get out of it and how you define a relationship. If you need direct sexual contact often then I guess it doesn't work. I'm content with the occasional cam sessions and knowing that feelings can travel any distance. Also I enjoy my personal space a bit too much I think. I won't lie though, I miss the skin-to-skin contact a lot when we're separated for too long. Again, I think it depends greatly on how secure you both are in your feelings and what your personal needs are. In general, I would say No, it doesn't work. But there are exceptions to every rule.
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