Can you love sex with men butnot love men?
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I think it's possible…
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While I've had more than my share of simple "sex" (anonymous meetings in sometimes dark places where no one stays around after I make him cum), I can't say I can have sex without caring deeply about, and even loving, most of the men I've been with.
I've gotten laid by all too many guys who won't kiss me while we're making out or fucking "because if _kiss them that makes [them] gay"–say what? I always wish I could get these men to just let go and embrace the passion of making love to another man--the passion I'm feeling while they're letting me suck them off or, most strangely, pounding my ass with their cocks like their dicks were a substitute for punching me. And they always cum REALLY hard, panting hard and even moaning sometimes as they pull my hair while they impale me. Then, they yank their dicks out of me quickly, zip up and button up and buckle their belts as fast as they can, avoiding eye contact as much as possible. But then the majority of them either hand me a paper with their cell number or they say it to me quickly and ask me to repeat it, so now I'm really confused.
I mean, hell, yeah, I love getting laid any way at all, but I just tend to have a pretty intense "personal investment" with whoever I choose to let stick their stiff dicks in me. So, for me, I have to throw my gauntlet down on the side of loving men--I love everything about men's bodies and I love when the man or men I get intimate with make it just that more intense by us caring about each other. Hell, I love kissing and hugging, love being playful while I'm doing whatever while we're "nekkid" I love kissing and sucking on a man's neck, love kissing his chest and belly, hell, I just plain love making love to my men, and I guess that's as simple as I can put it._
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I love to have sex with a man because i fell in love with a man.
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Sexuality is very complex. For a sexuality to be completed and defined, it needs two factors together:
- Sexual Attraction
- Romantic Attraction.
I think you're some sort of bisexual, in bisexuality those factors sometimes separate. You get horny with men, but not love them. I don't know how is your sexual relationships with women but it might be the case you can easily love one, but they don't turn you on as much as men does. Anyway, if a woman can make you happy and be in love, and you can at least have sex with them and enjoy it, go for it. But it doesn't mean you won't still have sexual appetite for fucking men asses, just saying.
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I must love the man first and then sex, or at least relieved him
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I know people who have different sexual and emotional orientations. I for instance am emotionally attracted to both men and women. But only sexually attracted to men. So technically I could date both men and women but since I only like sex with guys I'll only date them.
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I think so. You can be attracted to something and never fall in love with it. Straight guys do it all the time. Fuck random females because they are hot, then go back home to the ones they love. No big deal if you ask me. Just protect yourself.
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Absolutely you can… There is a big difference between enjoying a feeling, sensation, or a particular act and actual love itself. Sadly though, too many people confuse the two and think that they go hand in hand, or that once you have done one, the other will follow. This is simply not the case.
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Maybe I am the only ones who believes this but if you have sex with men you are gay. You may not love the men you have sex with because you are not allowing yourself to. You can have sex with a guy and go back to your straight life by just saying it was a one time or hundred time thing.
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ok first, gay relationships (even marriage) is not inferior to staight relationship. In fact, gays couples are more stable than straight couples… why? because between two gay guys, they know what's going on, they know they are both sluts, and they are ok with it (i'm talking about younger couples). Older, more mature gay couples, they are very serious ans very monogamic (except for open-relationship). I know many gays couples like that.
Straight couples... not even let me start with them... All i will say is that they are crapier then gays couples most of the time.second, Loving a man is so much fullfilling, and so intense... so pure. I'm in love myself and let me tell u that it makes me feel alive, even thought he is in belgium and i'm here in the fuckin united states...
My straight best friends (a girl) agrees with me, and some other straight guys i know agree that gay love is sometimes more honest than straight love (go figure ???).aw I agree, love is fulfilling.
but when people continue to perpetuate stereotypes about gay youth being promiscuous, it makes me sad.
- "they know they are both sluts"
=/ who have you been meeting? call me an optimist, but I see the acceptance of polyamory and monogamy coexisting better in the near future. different strokes for different folks right?
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Yes and I called it fulfilled lust
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You mean have sex with them and not be in love? Or mutually fuck around with a friend on occasion to have fun? Those are different. Yes there are a ton of straight guys who hook up discretely via Grindr, Craigslist, BBRTS.com, etc. to get a blow job or bust a nut in a tight ass. Maybe they're girl won't do anal. Maybe he likes looking down upon a "fag" to degrade him or make him his bitch, somehow that domination gets some straight guys off. Maybe they're just super horny and haven't had any luck with girls when they need it so they try guys. SO MANY REASONS. Tricky subject. Not two minds of men are alike. I absolutely can't get hard or aroused to the thought of a girl, let alone a picture or physical encounter. VERY repulsive actually.
If you are asking if you can fuck someone and not develop feelings for them, that's another story. If you have a really close friend fucking them will most likely make it awkward. If it's their first time or your first time, people tend to develop feelings for their first. Or if they make you have an ultra intense orgasm.
I wonder how many straight guys have a gay friend they casually fuck around with on occasion and don't let their experiences and secrets cause problems. That's how porn is depicted. Especially hidden cam anonymous hookup clips. Or roommates. I personally don't think if the guy can be entirely straight if he's messing around with another dude. Just as I can't mess around with chicks due to the intense repulsion. Seriously pussy looks like a crime scene/ axe wound and wouldn't be surprised if they had retractable teeth. I can't even stand the word.
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You mean have sex with them and not be in love? Or mutually fuck around with a friend on occasion to have fun? Those are different. Yes there are a ton of straight guys who hook up discretely via Grindr, Craigslist, BBRTS.com, etc. to get a blow job or bust a nut in a tight ass. Maybe they're girl won't do anal. Maybe he likes looking down upon a "fag" to degrade him or make him his bitch, somehow that domination gets some straight guys off. Maybe they're just super horny and haven't had any luck with girls when they need it so they try guys. SO MANY REASONS. Tricky subject. Not two minds of men are alike. I absolutely can't get hard or aroused to the thought of a girl, let alone a picture or physical encounter. VERY repulsive actually.
If you are asking if you can fuck someone and not develop feelings for them, that's another story. If you have a really close friend fucking them will most likely make it awkward. If it's their first time or your first time, people tend to develop feelings for their first. Or if they make you have an ultra intense orgasm.
I wonder how many straight guys have a gay friend they casually fuck around with on occasion and don't let their experiences and secrets cause problems. That's how porn is depicted. Especially hidden cam anonymous hookup clips. Or roommates. I personally don't think if the guy can be entirely straight if he's messing around with another dude. Just as I can't mess around with chicks due to the intense repulsion. Seriously pussy looks like a crime scene/ axe wound and wouldn't be surprised if they had retractable teeth. I can't even stand the word.
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