How is eating ass not gross?
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I agree fully with your feelings on the subject, OP. To me, rimming is (and has always been) a huge no-no.. But as meindallas pointed out, although various genres of media want to generalize and stereotype us gay people it doesn't mean we are all the same or like the same things. Personally, licking someone's butthole is as appealing to me as ditto on a wet vagina… :sickr:
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Honestly I used to feel the exact same. And there're times that I don't feel like doing it. Once I did it for the first time and found out it wasn't what I thought & it was actually a turn on but for me when I do it it has to be with someone that I want to do with I won't do it just with anybody that I have sex with but I understand the thinking I thought the same way for the longest time and still to certain degree I do still do considering won't do it with everybody. That's just my experience. Have any other advice other than what was Artie said in a previous comment which is actually the best advice possible if you're not comfortable with it don't do it. Never do anything you don't like when you're uncomfortable with it just to please somebody else.
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It was a rather interesting experience for me the first time I rimmed and "ate someone out." :an2:
It was my with first boyfriend – who was my first everything -- and prior to doing so, I had no idea it was a 'thing.' I had only seen some straight porn that time, and I didn't even see anything like it nor have I honestly heard of it. I just thought of putting my tongue in there, and was like, "Wow... this is amazingly hot(!)." I guess what I'm trying to say is that I did it out of instinct, AND we were both way surprised.
He was like, "What are you doing?" I didn't respond at first, but eventually said, "Just let me," after he asked again. To me, it felt so natural and I just got into it. My point is that even if you can't fully explain or understand why, it comes natural to some people.
Months later, my now-ex-but-still-close-friend wanted to try it on me. He had repeatedly expressed how he wouldn't do such a thing. To make the story short, he ended up liking or acquiring a taste for it. I guess the saying, "Don't knock it till you try it" comes in here (haha), but yeah – do as you will and please, in your own time and with your own consent.
(And oh, I was 17 at that time, and grew up in a way conservative house hold, lol.)
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Ha ha, well I hope people get nastier as they get older!
If you don't like rimming, don't do it. For me, it's always been hot as hell. I first had sex with a guy at 18 and, without talking about it, I just stuck my tounge in his dirty ass, 'cause he was hot as fuck and I thought it would be okay – and because PORN LIES! He apologized and said if he'd known I wanted to do that, he would've cleaned up, but I just shrugged it off and said it was cool (like a true assman should), and we laughed it off.
Now that that's in the past and I'm mumble years old, I hope I AM looking forward to nastier years!
The moral of the story is: wash your asses, boys!
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I have always enjoyed being rimmed. But I thought doing it it was gross at first too. But there came a time when I really wanted to try it and once a dominant top guy wanted me to rim him and I thought "what the hell, I always wanted to do this" And ended up loving it. Now I enjoy both rimming and being rimmed.
It's not the first thing I thought was gross either. I thought eating cum and ass to mouth was gross. But now I love them both! :anal: Waiting for an opportunity now to try felching ;D -
You are not weird, just way too vanilla :-X
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Sure. Just don't be the guy who will not let others lick yours.
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I love it when my gf licks mine. Feels awesome. But I'm a bit hesitant to lick somebody elses. Feels weird..
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as a top I love it but ONLY if the guy has an hairless ass and of course hygiene must be perfect.
I'll always remember the cutest guy ever I fucked, a total bottom, and the pleasure moan he made when I licked him.. Also guys with muscular ass, muscular backs, you know like in bel ami, hairless, in praha you got guys like that, you just grab the ass, you squeeze it, lick it and hear the guy enjoying so that makes you so hard that you really pound him good after that.
It really needs to be a twink/youngblood muscular hairless dude otherwise that's a big NO and I would vomit just at the thought of doing it.
As a bottom I dont really like that. I dont like anything to touch my butt except a dick. no fingers, no toys, no licking. -
I know how mutch my husband loves it, and he loves to lick mine. Im cleanshaved and his not. I like my man to be hairy. I love to suck him off in a 69:a or he sits on my face and makes me lick him while he jerk off on me. Its so good….
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I'd say you are weird. There is nothing gross about rimming an ass. Have you heard of a thing such as an enema? I am a dom top that loves to shove the bottoms face in my ass and also go ass to mouth a lot. But I make sure my ass is completely cleaned out before I go hunting for a trick. Same is true for the bottom - always check if they are 'clean'.
I am assuming you like to kiss and make out. Do you know how many bacteria are in the mouth of guys? So what is the difference? -
I am assuming you like to kiss and make out. Do you know how many bacteria are in the mouth of guys? So what is the difference?
I'm not against rimming as I said above but I'm pretty sure that's not a good argument at all to convince the OP.. you dont get Escherichia coli on your lips or mouth… you dont get warts in your mouth ( well you can but that's really nothing compared to the ass, where HPv is very activ even if warts aren't formed( that's a different type of Hpv that you have on your lips if you are stressed for instance) ), you dont get A hepatitis, and you can get mouth candida when licking from an ass or sucking a dick that went bareback. Hepatitis A is a big problem among gays who are licking their butt.(http://gaymenshealth.org/std-information/hepatitis/hepatitis-a/) So no, rimming is not without danger and an activity more prone to infection than just kissing. as always: chlorhexedine mouth wash after doing that is absolutely necessary.(it kills hiv, esch.coli, all types of hpv, candida.. and it's long acting ( 6-7hours in mouth http://chlorhexidinefacts.com/mechanism-of-action.html))
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What an interesting subject. I agree with the above. It's a preference kind a thing and it's really come on instincts if you want to do it or not. For me?, I liked to be rimmed. Such a beautiful feeling, let me tell yah! :cheesy2:
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I will put just about anything in my mouth, so long as it's been cleaned beforehand. Hygiene is a big factor for me when it comes to this sort of thing. Different strokes. I don't think it's worth getting hung up on unless someone is trying to make you do it against your will, in which case you should tell them to fuck off.
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I think porn has made it seem more normal than it actually is. I have a strong "DO NOT WANT" on the issue and it's been years since the last guy I slept with has even brought up the subject.
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Try checking at Brent Corrigan's perfect pure pink hole and rethink that
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How is sucking dick not equally as gross? It's not just cum that comes out of there … urine does, too ... and pretty much everything in that whole region tends to get sweaty, swampy, and funky after being covered up by two layers of clothing for a few hours. Have you ever really thought about how icky vanilla oral sex really "should be"?
It's fine if you're not into it and you don't have to make apologies for it, but the only answer to your question I can give is that if you can understand why "because it's hot and it turns you on" is a good enough explanation to explain while you like to drink directly from the same pipe that delivers pee .... well, then it shouldn't be too hard to understand the same sort of psychology is going on in the heads of people that like to lick a clean, luscious ass. ;D
For the record, I've never liked the whole sucking a dick immediately after fucking thing I see in porn, too (I've had one bottom try it with me before and I immediately stopped him -- I couldn't kiss him after he did that, haha). It doesn't make you "weird," it just means that's you. I can also understand that there must be tons of guys that are totally into that, otherwise those kinds of scenes wouldn't be so common.
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I used to feel really bad because I always loved having my ass rimmed, yet I hated doing to same to my partners. Eventually I just started to suck them off more to make up for it. But eating ass is a preference not many enjoy so you aren't alone OP.
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Quite the opposite, actually!!! >:D
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I love it! But there are 2 things involved here. First, I only do it to guys that I really really like, not just any Joe Schmoe. And by like, I include LUST. I can look at any guy on the street and tell you if I'd eat his ass on a first date or not. Some I would, some, absolutely not. But that's not to say that after I get to know a guy that I may change my mind and find the thought very exciting later on. You see, it's kind of a trust and empathy thing. "I like you, a LOT, I want to intensify our intimacy." At least, that's how it works for me. Being a top, I do LOVE man ass, so I almost LOOK for an edible ass when I'm on the prowl. The second thing is, of course, the guy's hygiene. The cleanest looking guy in the place can fool you sometimes. At the first hint of less than stellar, all bets are off.
I gotta believe that if you've ever had it done to you, and done right, you would re-think your opposition. But maybe I'm wrong about that. The feeling is like nothing else. It's like 1000 volts going through your body in a most pleasurable way. Why wouldn't you want to return that favor or share it with someone you love or really like?
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