Would you pay for sex
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Many men -even straight ones- do pay for sex at some point in their lives!
Some find this a useful experience. It can help them feel better about themselves and boost their confidence because they are having sex!
There are though, always dangers involved in paying for sex.
For a start, many people feel that there is a stigma attached to this – so they can’t ever tell friends or family that they indulge in this way.. :afr2:
Some feel guilty and always regret having had ‘professional’ sex..
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Also, there are dangers of catching sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and of being taken for a ride financially.
Of course, it’s difficult to know how you will feel or what your experience will be like unless you try it!
In this sense, it might be better to explore other options before committing to something that you might not find enjoyable.. ::)
Either way, no one else can tell you how you will feel about paying for sex, so ultimately the decision has to be yours! :afr:
Do consider that a year is not a long time in terms of not having sex – though it obviously feels like it. Often, people go through phases when they just don’t fancy the right people, or the right people don’t fancy them.
And, is it possible that your wish to have sex is so great – and there is also so much anxiety attached to this for you – that you are not giving out the right signals? If the other people feel that you want them purely for sex, they are unlikely to be very flattered by that.
Maybe a good way forward would be to set yourself a target of doubling the number of people you know socially, and then of trying to get to know these people well. This would involve being interested in them as people, talking to them and trying to find out what makes them tick. This kind of social interaction is something that they appreciate – and for most people this is a very good prelude to later sexual activity.
It is also worth remembering that people may go into prostitution for a number of reasons, some by choice, but others may have been forced, trafficked or compelled by a drug addiction. If you can find out what and who your money is going to before you pay for sex, then you can be more confident that it is safe.
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Why pay for it when a lot of guys give it for free. :crazy2:
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Why pay for it when a lot of guys give it for free. :crazy2:
It's a similar case as it is with women..
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I did once, for my 40th birthday, with my husband. It was our first threesome and I don't regret it one bit! >:D
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I'd pay to have sex with someone I'd really want to fuck, so pobably someone unattainable and out of this world hot. Sex for sex, you can get anywhere for free easily.
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well i always said i would never pay for sex and yet i didn't pay for it either cause i dont really have to im a good looking guy and there is nothing to hold me down not to get a sexy guy into my bed i might not be everyone's type but thats normal and okay but i would pay for sex if its with someone who's really hot and outstanding like a porn star for example edu boxer, francois sagat, damien gross , pedro andreas , or some hot gogo dancer i guess i would be okay with that cause this is their job and get paid for it but i would not pay a lot of money for it… max 200 euros
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I did once, for my 40th birthday, with my husband. It was our first threesome and I don't regret it one bit! >:D
Have you ever threesomed again?
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Maybe, it depends on the other guy. But I wanna ask the other way around, would you accept being paid for it?
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I did once, for my 40th birthday, with my husband. It was our first threesome and I don't regret it one bit! >:D
Have you ever threesomed again?
Yes, several times with local guys.
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I did once, for my 40th birthday, with my husband. It was our first threesome and I don't regret it one bit! >:D
Have you ever threesomed again?
Yes, several times with local guys.
What position do you preferr on such trio-scenarios?
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YOLO!
If that's something you wanna try, why not? -
I think sex should be out of mutual love.
That made me laugh so hard :cheesy2: specially on a gay porn forum
But yeah I got some gay friend you'd say the same although they fuck anything, but in their little brain: dating = love, so meeting someone on grindr for a fuck well that's a boyfriend and that's love.. yeah right.. funny how many gays can't face the truth. -
Only if he's worth trying.
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Does dinner count?:)
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Maybe, it depends on the other guy. But I wanna ask the other way around, would you accept being paid for it?
That's a good question. I would never spend money on sex, not that there's anything wrong with it in my eyes.
However it is very tempting to take money when someone offers, but I've never had the guts to take it. I reckon that if circumstances where difficult enough I would tho. -
Yes, I think I would under some circumstances. Especially for a good massage with happy ending I think. It really better be a good massage though.
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Yes of course. i already did it haha
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I wouldn't personally but I would never judge someone who would!
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Maybe I will, when I get older and have more money to spend with it.
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