Is it possible to found out you're actually bi?
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Yes and I think it's perfectly normal. I'm gay, but every once and awhile I meet or see girls I'm attracted to. There are some I would even go out on a date with. But that's as far as it would go. I don't think of myself as bi though because I could never be satisfied just being with a woman, I'll always want a man.
My definition of bi is someone who likes both sexes and could be perfectly happy with either one. I know lesbians who say they are lesbians, but they still sleep with a guy every once and awhile. I know gay guys who say they're gay, but sleep with girls every once and awhile. As long as everyone is honest and nobody is hurt, that's all that matters (to me).
To me, it's nothing to stress. Go with the flow, don't let the label constrain you from happiness.
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I'm sorry, but I already said it many times in different threads and different sites that I don't believe in "bi" term. A gay dude attracted to woman doesn't make him "bi" or a straight dude enjoying gay porn and somewhat having curiosity behavior to other dude doesn't make him "bi". There are only two polar, North or South, there is no middle polar. All you need is find yourself deeper with open minded.
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I'm sorry, but I already said it many times in different threads and different sites that I don't believe in "bi" term. A gay dude attracted to woman doesn't make him "bi" or a straight dude enjoying gay porn and somewhat having curiosity behavior to other dude doesn't make him "bi". There are only two polar, North or South, there is no middle polar. All you need is find yourself deeper with open minded.
That might be how it is for you, but you can't speak for other people because you don't know what's going on in their head.
As someone who ISN'T polar north or south, I can assure you that's how it is for some people even if it isn't for you.
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tottaly, i've found! and it's same thing at all, just hook up more LOL.
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Kinsey scale… there are two fixed orientations in totally straigh and totally gay, however there is a lot of fluidity in the mid areas, a 50/50 bi is probably fixed but it's common that people who are 20 hetero/80 gay or 80/20 might at times flow to the other side of the spectrum.
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Kinsey scale… there are two fixed orientations in totally straigh and totally gay, however there is a lot of fluidity in the mid areas, a 50/50 bi is probably fixed but it's common that people who are 20 hetero/80 gay or 80/20 might at times flow to the other side of the spectrum.
I like the idea of a.. scale!!
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do a google search on FUZZY logic. it might helps you to realise that sexual orientation actually exists on a continuum.
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Honestly, I've found two types of Bi men. First are the ones who like the sex with both male and female, but will only consider a relationship with women. Then there are the Bi men who would have a relationship with either male or female, depending on the person they are with. While I am Gay with no personal knowledge of bisexuality, I could consider both types Bi, though for different reasons. There is no need to add more discrimination by spouting that Bi people are not actually bi.
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Honestly, I've found two types of Bi men. First are the ones who like the sex with both male and female, but will only consider a relationship with women. Then there are the Bi men who would have a relationship with either male or female, depending on the person they are with. While I am Gay with no personal knowledge of bisexuality, I could consider both types Bi, though for different reasons. There is no need to add more discrimination by spouting that Bi people are not actually bi.
i hate to discriminate but i'll just call out those who say they are bisexual but are really gay. having a vagina or twice once does not make one a bisexual. i understand what you are saying about the first ones. they are the true bisexuals in my opinion. the second ones are iffy. one cannot fence sit for so long they do not fall on one side or the other. surely there will be crossings but one will return to the preferred side. as such, men who are actively engaging in hetero sex and have homo sex on side are true bisexuals. on the other hand, men who actively engage in homo sex and have hetero sex on the side and calling themselves bisexual is just b.s. this is only my opinion.
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I always knew I was gay, but some time ago I've stopped labbing myself, and it make me saw things by another way.
The thing is:
I've already fell in love with girls a few times, but, idk, I mean, I'm not attracted to the female body, I think…
This dosen't even make any sense, right?
While I can fell love and be attracted to guys.
Now I'm just asking if I'm bi, and idk the answer, it's driving me CRAZY!!Have you ever felt that way? Did you give it a try?
i did. i had fallen in love with 2 girls in my life. but we have the same problem, i have 0 attraction to the female body and to add, i'm repulsed just by the sight of a vagina . the best way to answer your question is: give vagina a try. your cock will tell you if you are bisexual or not. goodluck!
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I see no sentimental relationship between males for me, but I love the sight of a male body, especially if muscular, and arouses me greatly. I'm attracted to females also, but it's a stronger sentimental relation than physical attraction (even if I have my tastes and I find some women very attractive).
Gay, straight or bi are only names, like all simplifications are wrong. There is no North and South pole in human brain… there are also people that have sex with animals... it's gay or not? It's a stupid question...
You don't need to know if you are labelled like gay or not, as long you know what you like... -
You don't have to choose words to describe and limit yourself. Just embrace your feelings.
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You don't have to choose words to describe and limit yourself. Just embrace your feelings.
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Happens more often than you think!
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Sexuality is not a "straight" line that's why I question mine regularly
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Have only been attracted to males emotionally and physically. Seems like a straight line for me. :cheesy2:
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Have only been attracted to males emotionally and physically. Seems like a straight line for me. :cheesy2:
:cheesy2:
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It seems that you have the answer in the first place with trying not to label yourself.
Why do you need a label, you have a name and that should be enough.
I agree with you on being able to love women but not being attracted to their bodies.
Love who you want and enjoy the rest without labeling
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It seems that you have the answer in the first place with trying not to label yourself.
Why do you need a label, you have a name and that should be enough.
I agree with you on being able to love women but not being attracted to their bodies.
Love who you want and enjoy the rest without labeling
Truth said..
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it's possible
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