Sexual Boundries now vs many years ago

[Kekkaishi]

would you say your sexual preferences changed over the years ?
what are the things that you wouldn't have done or dreamed of doing in the past that you do now in the present ?

for example, in my late teen years I never thought I'd be into watersports, bdsm and fisting but now I love it!
though it can be extreme at times and I never actually experienced watersports and bdsm in real life.

[baselmarcus]

BDSM is definitely one thing I frowned upon when i was a teenager but love now. Also group sex - I always felt it was 'WRONG' - have no qualms about it now.

[hhsq]

Yes… same thing! For instance, I'd never, never immagine in my teens that I would end up drinking piss and enjoying it...

[pilgrim]

I think some aspects/interests have intensified.

[moonmonday]

Things have definitely changed for me, and I think that's true for most. When we're young, we're literally surrounded by no end of shame and fear, which basically govern modern society – it's how they push almost everything. And not gonna lie -- a lot of young people on the scene are pretty shallow and finicky, but I think that is in large part due to the fact that they're experiencing that same fear and uncertainty.

Nowadays, I'm pretty laissez-faire with regards to sexuality and sexual expression, fetish, kink, et cetera. Something may not be for me, but I don't have a strong reaction to most things. As long as it's consenting partners, even if it may not be for me, I just kind of feel like...whatever! But even speaking personally, I've more or less entirely stopped being ashamed of things turning me on, whether or not they're widely-embraced.

I think it's a sign of maturity, really. You grow up, you stop being so afraid about being judged by people who don't matter in the first place and never did.