Crush on a guy a work… :(
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Thank you Runewell :love: I saw him today and of course he was looking handsome and he said hi and smiled. I guess you are right. The more I know about the real him (gay or str8) i can figure it out. And even if he is gay… the next question will be: Is he gay for me? Lol Sigh, crushes lol.
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Ah yes…it's definitely a nice feeling to crush on someone
But first things first–find out if he likes guys or not. If so, then you at least have a chance! -
Well, I can somehow relate to your story. It is a nice feeling to be in love. I used to go to this coffee shop and there was this good looking barista. We often talked, but yeah nothing sexual. However, I don't know how to explain it but whenever he looked into my eyes, I can sense something different. When we are together, I can somehow feel it that he has some feelings for me. But I couldn't really tell if this is accurate or not. I am also afraid of telling him how I really feel about him.
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Speaking of that situation, even if he says he is married or he has a girlfriend, I have had married men flirt or … before.
Vad beträffar den situation, även om han säger att han är gift eller han har en flickvän, gifta män har flirtade med mig ... -
Thank you Runewell :love: I saw him today and of course he was looking handsome and he said hi and smiled. I guess you are right. The more I know about the real him (gay or str8) i can figure it out. And even if he is gay… the next question will be: Is he gay for me? Lol Sigh, crushes lol.
Any news to give us? did you talk to him again?
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If you want to have a chance with him, you'd have to first know if he's gay or not. In your chats, you'll have to get up the courage to ask him/listen for clues about his personal life. Nothing too invasive, but enough to find the answers you need. The easiest and most common is just to ask if he has a girlfriend (at an appropriate time! Not randomly!!)
If you actually know he's not into guys, you'll have an easier time getting over the crush.My 5 cents… rather than asking if he has a girlfriend (if he is unsure where you are coming from, or not out to all, he might say yes) I prefer asking (did it recently with a neighbor I had a bit of a crush on) if they have a partner, or, if possible, ask if they have a girlfriend or boyfriend (kind of with an open mind, without necessarily implying anything specific). My neighbor was indeed gay... so my next step was to invite him to kind of a social situation, again, not pressing... in my case, he was not too interested
sniff.
Best of lucks!!!
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Dude, just leave it.. No love or crush in your workplace. I had that and it affected my work a lot… Almost got fired, and influence your future career
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Get a couple beers in him
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I have this but various coworkers at my worplace are sooo hot, nice beard trend here, but i am more careful as i don't want to be fired as that happened to me before. I had a crush on a coworker and he discovered it and they fired me, he told me this of the bibile and going to hell.
Now on this job i am more careful with that, i am more shy because i want to success where i work to be able to emigrate to germany and marry my partner
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Be honest to him and tell him how you feel. You own it to yourself and to him.
There is a great chance that you will be lucky and start a wonderful relationship with him (and i truly wish it for you).
Otherwise, if he rejects you then you can start fresh with someone else.
Do not make the same mistake i did and hide your feelings because you probably going to spend the rest of your life wondering what might happen if…. -
If everyone already knows you have a crush on him, can't you ask one of them to ask? ;D
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