Pain during anal sex
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What pain are you experiencing?
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During the penetration part, I really can't relax my anus and it really hurts
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First I am not a doctor and I have not played one on TV but I have had sex with a few.
I am not officially recognized the world over as an anal expert but in select areas it is known.Personally I find most of the pain associated with anal receptive sex, especially in the beginning, to be mental. Which isn't to say it can't or doesn't hurt but that there is a bit of mind over matter when it comes to taking it up the ass.
I would recommend the best way to prevent pain during anal sex is to become more comfortable with the act. Get yourself a dildo and ease yourself into it. Lots of lubrication is also a good idea and when I say lots I mean both on your hole, in your hole and what ever is going into your hole being well coated in slippery. You don't want to tear anything down there. Relaxing and breathing can also contribute to a better experience. Being tense and anticipating pain is not going to make it any more pleasant. Personally I find making sure I have cleaned out my anal cavity prior contributes more to being relaxed, if I'm certain nothing is coming out unexpectedly it makes it far easier to relax and let go. I would not recommend any of the numbing lotions available. I would also hate to recommend substances that may or may not be legal where you are but one of the great functions of poppers is a relaxing of the sphincter.
In short a dildo or a very patient top could and should be helpful in showing you the way to anal bliss.
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How to prevent pain during anal sex?
You find a guy with a small dick.
Some of the most painful experiences I have had anally have been with guys who were horizontally challenged.
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Some of the most painful experiences I have had anally have been with guys who were horizontally challenged.
Well, with so many miles on you, I guess you would know.
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I found only one position after having anal sex couple of times in which the guy was down and i was up on his dick, he was fucking me… It was only pleasurable moment.... otherwise other positions were uncomfortable or painful for me
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Right, right, I forgot I am on a forum on the internet and a honest attempt at offering assistance that was requested opens me up to ridicule from someone with a keyboard and issues I won't even bother sharing tissues for.
Only being metric means I have a lot of kilometres on me not miles, so many I must clearly be less a human because not only have men desired putting it in me, I allowed such travesties to be committed. Still, at the very least, I am metric and not living in the past.
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You need to be relaxed and lot of lube if you worries to mutch.
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Buy a dildo and practice! It worked well for me ;D
Patience on the part of your top is also ideal, and lube also. In other words: all that's already been said here. -
A Top how hoeny he might be, muste have patience, but when you are fully open (for me that is) he can go how hard he and i wants…
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My first question is "Do you want to do it?" If you don't want to do it, don't cause it will most likely hurt. If you do want to do it, as others have suggested, practice with inserting your fingers, dildo.. etc…
Relax, Relax, Relax..
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try to start easy, with fingers etc
and of course, lots os lubecheck my public acts tumblr: aroundthere-vids.tumblr.com 
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just from my experience:
1. if you don't feel enjoying or fun with your partner, you may feel that you have to do it to please him, so it may cause the pain
2. try to use lubs or any similar kinds,
3. ask you partner to do something passionately like more kissing, ….i am not sure this may help, i am both but some time i would like to be given by my lover
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Use lube, but not too much (spit is a very good lubricant). First finger yourself with one than two fingers. When it feels comfortable do the real thing. :bansex2:
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