I think I might be gay, but I'm not sure. How do I know?
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You always know that, maybe you are just denying it to yourself
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If you don't know for sure you're probably bisexual.
If you're straight or gay you usually kinda know it. Unless you're a woman. But what you jack your dick to should be the indicator.
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I don't think you don't know. I think you're just afraid. But don't be, there's nothing to be afraid of.
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personally i've known i was attracted to bigger guys since about 7th grade. for me, girls are icky - and so are slim guys. But then i'm in the minority of an already minority group.
i don't even think i can function THAT way around a woman. Or a slim guy.
I did have a phase where i was intellectually considering girls, but when i started to think about them - i think "Ick. Nope".
No regrets here.
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you dont have to be either one or the other. there are 50 shades of gay. some guys are 100% gay, some are 100% straight. most people are somewhere in between. you could be 90% straight and 10% gay. or 80%/20%. you dont have to call yourself by one label or the other. just live your life and what feels right to you.
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I agree and there are so much more shades to it than the ones you outlined too. E.g. Asexual, demisexual, pansexual, sapiosexual, hetero/homoflexible, queer.
But these terms are all labels through which we can generalize our emotional/sexual attraction to explain it to other people and to relate. If you know how you feel, and it's not covered by a term, then it still exists, because you feel that way.
I came out as gay, but that's because I always knew I liked men. For most of us it feels so permanent, but honestly I feel that it limited me to feel/be whatever I feel. Just the last year or so I have also opened my mind to the possibility of a (sexual) connection with females. It's kind of tricky, because I don't hope this is the internal homofobia in me speaking that is hoping for a "normal" future.. Main point I think is just be openminded.
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I too, feel "different" when I was growing up. And being different isn;t always easy, but sure has it perks. I get friends more easily, because i feel like I understand how girls feel, while can also see it from boy's perception. Don't get caught up in the idea of "knowing". Just embrace you for who you are ;D
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i think i found about about myself when i was like 14 years old or older. it feels like the sky fell on my head, heart and everything. but i think i can cover up for a few more years. finger crossed.
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I too was at an experimentation point in my life when i was in High school. I slept with both men and women. Men, since i was 9 yrs old. Women since i was 13. And I actually LIKED both of them. Until, I earned my "red wings" in college. That was truly a first and last experience for me. Haven't wanted to have sex with a woman since then. HAVE had sex with 2 women, but they were both 1 nite stands. So basically what I am saying is that i agree with this post. We are who we are until we decide to be something else. And i do believe we are born this way, but, our exoeriences during our life time may mold us one way or the other.
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I'm 32 and I'm still unsure, I consider myself now 95% gay. 5% goes for the fact that sometimes (quite rarely TBH) I feel attracted by a woman, altough I've never seriously considered having sex. I think it might just get akward. On the other hand, I'm gay but I really don't like men, I have no male friends and if I werent with my partner I honestly wouldn't feel like talking to gay men.
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Since you are here, in a gay porn site, you are quite gay. I'm not sure = I'm afraid to confess to myself.
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1. You like to see hot boys whether on tv, magazine or real life
2. You have some feelings towards handsome men and your dick may get hard
3. You are attracted to men more than to women
4. If you ever been with a guy sexually, you liked it….... -
When you masturbate, what ever you think about is what you are. I mean if you think about sex involving men or penis, you are gay. It's that easy. The fact that you are asking the question is a good indicator as well.
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When your sexually erotic dreams are those involving men.
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if your attracted to Adam Levine or at one point Justin Timberlake.
if your attracted to Jude Law in Gattica or Bradley Cooper in Failure to Launch.
if you haven't rushed to see Teen Mom Farrah sex tape
if you haven't seen Paris Hilton sex tape One Night in Paris and you have seen it and Rick Soloman gets you off more than she does.
if your read James Deen blog and your not reading just looking at the pictures you looking at James more than his cofuckers in the scenes he does.
if you know who Bo Derek is and how she looked in 10 and not Wayne's World
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JUST keep in mind one thing = being gay is not a crime or bad thing. People should accept who they are. Just enjoy your life and be yourself. If you like men then it is no sin.
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I'm not so sure either since I never dated a girl.
I'm guessing I'm gay because I usually attracted to guys not girls, but sometimes I can watch female porn too.Makes me wonder if I'm bisexual or gay…
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sexuality is fluid. Just because you're straight doesn't mean you are attracted to every individual of the opposite sex, so just because someone is gay doesn't make them attracted to everyone of the same sex. You shouldn't label yourself, things happen, love is love regardless of gender/sexual pref. I think you are def curious about some same-sex action, though :cheesy2:
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i knew, but at the same time, i tried to brush it off
until i kissed my first guy, then i knew for sure, and gay i was
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I always knew….
I always loved playing "doctor". changing time in the locker room, and I would often find myself day dreaming about being able to hook up with a man.Same here. I remember as a child touching myself while watching Lou Ferrigno in Hulk (yes, Im in my 40s :P)
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