<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[BEING GAY IS SO HARD WITHIN MY SOCIETY PLS HELP]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">BEING GAY IS SO HARD WITHIN MY SOCIETY PLS HELP</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/topic/9948/being-gay-is-so-hard-within-my-society-pls-help</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Wed, 08 Apr 2026 09:08:06 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://community.gaytor.rent/topic/9948.rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><pubDate>Wed, 30 Apr 2014 19:06:30 GMT</pubDate><ttl>60</ttl><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to BEING GAY IS SO HARD WITHIN MY SOCIETY PLS HELP on Wed, 06 May 2015 21:06:10 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto"><a class="plugin-mentions-user plugin-mentions-a" href="/user/antstorm" aria-label="Profile: antstorm">@<bdi>antstorm</bdi></a>:</p>
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<p dir="auto">where are you ..</p>
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<p dir="auto">I guess:</p>
<p dir="auto"><img src="https://static.gaytor.rent/pic/flag/india.gif" alt="" class=" img-fluid img-markdown" /></p>
<p dir="auto">:afr:</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/128107</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/128107</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[spam17]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 06 May 2015 21:06:10 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to BEING GAY IS SO HARD WITHIN MY SOCIETY PLS HELP on Sun, 03 May 2015 01:02:49 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">where are you , if you're worried about naming your nation you could say something like <em><strong>MENA</strong></em> , which is basically the new term for the Middle East and Near Asia meaning  Arab Nations and Turkey.<br />
Secondly being a part of any society ,or clique is going to be hard , too fat too thin , too black white Asian or not enough is always going to be an obstacle of some sort, and whilst I admire the <strong><em>it gets better</em></strong> approach , as a mental health professional , it can be a phrase that's not always psychologically safe for your mental well being and is intrinsically western-centric , it doesn't take into account other cultural norms its easy to say it gets better in an environment like San Francisco , London Melbourne or Sydney but it really isn't something that helps in places like Oman or Dubai for example.  I don't know you so i cant help you help yourself , all i can really say is be yourself , be safe and make intelligent decisions , if you need to be on guard ,especially if you're in a nation that is violent against non heterosexual people then act accordingly, and ,if you get a chance to change your surroundings to a more suitable and slightly safer environment then do so.</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/127639</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/127639</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[antstorm]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 03 May 2015 01:02:49 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to BEING GAY IS SO HARD WITHIN MY SOCIETY PLS HELP on Sun, 03 May 2015 00:38:38 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">*our society</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/127631</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/127631</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[kagaminelen]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 03 May 2015 00:38:38 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to BEING GAY IS SO HARD WITHIN MY SOCIETY PLS HELP on Sat, 02 May 2015 22:56:17 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Being Gay is hard in any society, but things are getting better, I come from a homophobic country too and I moved to the UK and I am much happier now.<br />
Just do as I did. Stay cool, pacient, honest to yourself but play the game in your country for your safety.<br />
When you grow stronger, you can use your voice to help your society and others like you, but play the game for now, be safe and then think of the bigger picture.<br />
You will make it. Good luck <img src="https://community.gaytor.rent/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/apple/1f609.png?v=57695cee877" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-apple emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=";)" alt="😉" /></p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/127625</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/127625</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[incrediboy]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 02 May 2015 22:56:17 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to BEING GAY IS SO HARD WITHIN MY SOCIETY PLS HELP on Sat, 02 May 2015 22:38:00 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">I feel you, I'm like in an "out but not out" limbo</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/127617</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/127617</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[fonon]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 02 May 2015 22:38:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to BEING GAY IS SO HARD WITHIN MY SOCIETY PLS HELP on Wed, 18 Feb 2015 13:41:03 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto"><a class="plugin-mentions-user plugin-mentions-a" href="/user/taqaa" aria-label="Profile: taqaa">@<bdi>taqaa</bdi></a>:</p>
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<p dir="auto">the internet can be a great tool.  try looking for help on a website which caters to helping those in difficult situations.  if your country is dangerous for you to live in, maybe you can find sanctuary in a nearby, more welcoming country?</p>
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<p dir="auto">Your suggestion is not always that easy..</p>
<p dir="auto">:blink:</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/120235</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/120235</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[spam17]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 18 Feb 2015 13:41:03 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to BEING GAY IS SO HARD WITHIN MY SOCIETY PLS HELP on Sat, 14 Feb 2015 17:04:17 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">the internet can be a great tool.  try looking for help on a website which caters to helping those in difficult situations.  if your country is dangerous for you to live in, maybe you can find sanctuary in a nearby, more welcoming country?</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/119814</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/119814</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[taqaa]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 14 Feb 2015 17:04:17 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to BEING GAY IS SO HARD WITHIN MY SOCIETY PLS HELP on Sun, 25 Jan 2015 18:20:40 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Is it really hard or do you believe that it is so?</p>
<p dir="auto">:afr2:</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/118169</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/118169</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[spam17]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 25 Jan 2015 18:20:40 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to BEING GAY IS SO HARD WITHIN MY SOCIETY PLS HELP on Sun, 25 Jan 2015 17:17:13 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">I'm really sorry to hear that. Maybe we can offer advice if we knew more about life for LGBTQ individuals in your country. Stay strong, man.</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/118164</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/118164</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[scramer]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 25 Jan 2015 17:17:13 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to BEING GAY IS SO HARD WITHIN MY SOCIETY PLS HELP on Sun, 25 Jan 2015 15:07:47 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">I myself live in a rather homophobic country/ society where lgbt people are ridiculed and marginalised. This is why I intend to move to a more welcoming country like Canada in the near future. I would advise you to be patient, go for higher studies and emigrate.</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/118155</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/118155</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[kumar777]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 25 Jan 2015 15:07:47 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to BEING GAY IS SO HARD WITHIN MY SOCIETY PLS HELP on Thu, 15 Jan 2015 13:20:54 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">just dont be insecure. heads up!</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/117419</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/117419</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[uzuzjh]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 15 Jan 2015 13:20:54 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to BEING GAY IS SO HARD WITHIN MY SOCIETY PLS HELP on Thu, 06 Nov 2014 19:51:25 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Where are you?</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/111539</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/111539</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[mcmxc1983]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 06 Nov 2014 19:51:25 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to BEING GAY IS SO HARD WITHIN MY SOCIETY PLS HELP on Fri, 31 Oct 2014 16:17:24 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Where do you come from? Maybe you can start first by asking for help from your best friend</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/111054</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/111054</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[ragi]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 31 Oct 2014 16:17:24 GMT</pubDate></item></channel></rss>