We live in a very rigid society that rules over what's we should or not like. Only white/muscular/blond/blue-eyed guys are considered "truly fine".

Anyway! Any chubbys needing some appraise, hit me up! I would love to be a supporter and a friend!  ;D :crazy2: :hug2:

God save chubby bellys!

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So a little background first. I am 20 years old and I am only attracted to bigger guys and when I say bigger I mean generally 300 lbs and over, don't know why just the way I am. Now, I am definitely not bigger is better type of guy, but lets just say my current boyfriend is in the 390s and adorable! Anyways, wanted to know if there are a lot of other guys out there with this similar interest. I am not talking about bears, just chubs.

I Like chubby guys.

Some people think intellect and humor matter more than superficial appearance, and looks tend not to last, so if that is all an attraction rests on, it's not gonna last. "Love is not love that alters when it alteration finds," said Shakespeare, but rather "an ever fixed mark." And, bless them all, some people want to hold and be held by much larger men. Ideally, as someone said, if the size changes, that's fine too, but not a priority. As with any other sexual interest, there are extremes. "Gainers" who want to be bigger (not more muscular), are out there.

I just wish I had known decades ago that lots of perfectly attractive and desirable guys are out there looking for large people to partner with for play or more. It just didn't really click for me that chasers wanted me as I am and did not consider my size and shape to be an inconvenience or impediment, but something they, bless them, liked for its own sake. Is that clearly said? When we were together, I never really grokked that all the parts of my appearance I had been trained to dislike the most, were in fact advantages and a turn on. Seems obvious that if they were after me, they wanted ME, not an Olympics gymnast or diver, but that took a long time to soak in.

Fortunately, there are clubs and online dating sites, as well as special Events. Special theme nights at gay saunas also exist in the US. What happens in the rest of the world is more than I can report, and I no longer expect to get much in the way of thoughtful or useful responses with specifics from other countries where societies are more– or less-- open about sex and gay sex. A question months ago about rent boys and strait pickups in Europe and points
east, now increasingly on view in commercial porn, brought no answer.

Anyway, yeah, there really are chasers who are just like other guys only they would rather frolic with a great big chub than with their mirror image. It may or may not "take all types," but there definitely ARE all types.

Matt, don't change your look because others don't like it. If you are okay being who you are than that is all that matters.

If other people don't find that attractive and you want them to find you attractive and changing your appearance will make that happen then that's what you will have to do.  If you are fine with your current situation, then don't change your look.  Nothing worth doing is easy.  If you like fit men that only like fit men, then become fit yourself.  It is not impossible and there are benefits to both sides.  Either accept yourself as you are and the fact others will not, or be the change that you want to happen.  Throwing up one's hands and saying "why should I change" is childish.  If you want something, by all means go and get it.