You have uploaded the torrent and created a description.

https://www.gaytor.rent/details.php?id=8b7af4ba54372ca0114eb0475c2477e5991bde9d1b710028

Now you "just" need to make it seeding. All torrents go live immediately, there is no more approval since end October 2012.

If the torrent is already in your µTorrent, try these steps in µTorrent/BitTorrent to change from downloading to seeding:
1/ Stop the torrent (do NOT remove)
2/ Click with the right mouse button on the torrent in µTorrent's list and select "Advanced" > "Set Download Location…" > navigate to the file location and confirm (Save)
3/ Right mouse button click on the torrent in µTorrent's list and select "Force re-check". The torrent should check to 100% and µTorrent displaying "Finished" instead of "Stopped" in the status column.
4/ Restart the torrent, it shall go to "Seeding" or at least to "Queued seeding"

If it isn't yet loaded:
a) Go to the torrent description page on GayTorrent.ru, click "Download" and open with µTorrent/BitTorrent
b) When µTorrent/BiTorrent opens the torrent, it shall show a small window to confirm the download location. There click the ". . ." button
c) Navigate to the file, respectively folder, from which the torrent has been created, select it and confirm "Save" or "OK"
d) Force a recheck and once checked to 100% start the torrent

and you don't have to upload the big video to the site. That explains the time-out error. That is to upload the small .torrent file, but you have done that already.

i do all, now i only wait?

its ok? -> hxxp://i39.tinypic.com/nn4hl4.jpg

Edit: disabled live link (active offsite links are not allowed in the forum)

https://www.gaytor.rent/details.php?id=8b7af4ba54372ca0114eb0475c2477e5991bde9d1b710028

Now you "just" need to make it seeding. All torrents go live immediately, there is no more approval since end October 2012.

If the torrent is already in your µTorrent, try these steps in µTorrent/BitTorrent to change from downloading to seeding:
1/ Stop the torrent (do NOT remove)
2/ Click with the right mouse button on the torrent in µTorrent's list and select "Advanced" > "Set Download Location…" > navigate to the file location and confirm (Save)
3/ Right mouse button click on the torrent in µTorrent's list and select "Force re-check". The torrent should check to 100% and µTorrent displaying "Finished" instead of "Stopped" in the status column.
4/ Restart the torrent, it shall go to "Seeding" or at least to "Queued seeding"

If it isn't yet loaded:
a) Go to the torrent description page on GayTorrent.ru, click "Download" and open with µTorrent/BitTorrent
b) When µTorrent/BiTorrent opens the torrent, it shall show a small window to confirm the download location. There click the ". . ." button
c) Navigate to the file, respectively folder, from which the torrent has been created, select it and confirm "Save" or "OK"
d) Force a recheck and once checked to 100% start the torrent

and you don't have to upload the big video to the site. That explains the time-out error. That is to upload the small .torrent file, but you have done that already.