Here are some things that confuse me:
if the trans is wanting so much to be female, why is the trans the top/fucker and not the bottom?

why is this trans putting a ball gag on my friend? the only reason I can think of for that is to establish forced domination

what pleasure can someone get from wearing a strapon other than dominating/abusing the bottom?

I long for the good old days, when two guys would get together and one would fuck the other guy's ass with his COCK! Sigh...