It's a sad -- but not completely shocking -- turn of events

So true. Porn news is too often a necrology of beautiful men.

I am reminded of a line from Harvey Fierstein's Torch Song Trilogy: I think my biggest problem is being young and beautiful. It's my biggest problem because I've never been young and beautiful. Oh, I've been beautiful, and God knows I've been young, but never the twain have met.

No, Arnold, by not being young and beautiful at the same time, you were probably saved much grief.

@kalayaan said

May you have the Peace you really needed.

Amen to that. It is a tragedy that so many only find peace in the grave.

Such a shame.

It shows how kids can be abused mentally by their parents. He was a cash cow in their eyes.