<![CDATA[Been barebacking too long]]>I have bb sex pretty much exclusively and now whenever I try condom sex it doesn't stay hard at all. I just don't feel very much at all no matter how hot the guy I'm with is. What should I do?

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/topic/57907/been-barebacking-too-longRSS for NodeWed, 08 Apr 2026 08:54:47 GMTMon, 28 Feb 2022 07:32:59 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to Been barebacking too long on Thu, 31 Mar 2022 20:31:34 GMT]]>"Been Barebacking Too Long" sounds like the title of a gay Country Music song!

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/291848https://community.gaytor.rent/post/291848Thu, 31 Mar 2022 20:31:34 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Been barebacking too long on Thu, 31 Mar 2022 19:45:44 GMT]]>you should always practice safe sex, especially when you have many partners!
try a thin condom. Don't just expose yourself to risk like that!! you should take care more of yourself!!

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/291844https://community.gaytor.rent/post/291844Thu, 31 Mar 2022 19:45:44 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Been barebacking too long on Fri, 11 Mar 2022 15:34:21 GMT]]>Do you watch a lot of porn? Maybe decrease your viewing time?

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/290863https://community.gaytor.rent/post/290863Fri, 11 Mar 2022 15:34:21 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Been barebacking too long on Fri, 11 Mar 2022 12:06:47 GMT]]>@pasha Do you have access to recreational hard-on pills? Or, you can discuss this with your Doctor. Condom use can be a sort of mind over matter but the hard-on pills will help you wrap up - especially in a dark room.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/290847https://community.gaytor.rent/post/290847Fri, 11 Mar 2022 12:06:47 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Been barebacking too long on Mon, 28 Feb 2022 22:55:52 GMT]]>@realstik said in Been barebacking too long:

@pasha Get tested. Get on PREP. Get a condom that fits. Put lube inside the condom.

All excellent suggestions:

  • Get PrEP to protect against HIV infection... as a positive side effect, you'll visit your Dr once every 3-6 months and get std and other blood tests to help make sure you remain healthy!
  • Try to have sex with other guys who ALSO take sexual health seriously - either on PrEP, on HIV meds (e.g. Poz-Undetectable), or who are otherwise aware of, and manage the risks of human sexuality (which is nothing new - sex has been "risky" since the beginning of time!)
  • Use condoms when you can - and lubricate yourself BEFORE your put on the condom (as well as after) - this increases the sensations exponentially and should eliminate the "dull" sensations you're experiencing now
]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/290332https://community.gaytor.rent/post/290332Mon, 28 Feb 2022 22:55:52 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Been barebacking too long on Mon, 28 Feb 2022 13:41:03 GMT]]>@pasha Get tested. Get on PREP. Get a condom that fits. Put lube inside the condom.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/290299https://community.gaytor.rent/post/290299Mon, 28 Feb 2022 13:41:03 GMT