<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Ghosted for a trade]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Man, I think I just got ghosted for a first trade. Posted my link and then got nothing but radio silence.</p>
<p dir="auto">And while it doesn't cost me anything, it just feels really bad. Like if you asked, I probably would have shared the videos anyways.<br />
<img src="https://community.gaytor.rent/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/apple/1f614.png?v=57695cee877" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-apple emoji--pensive" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title="😔" alt="😔" /></p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/topic/57511/ghosted-for-a-trade</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Wed, 08 Apr 2026 11:13:12 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://community.gaytor.rent/topic/57511.rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><pubDate>Sat, 05 Feb 2022 03:43:34 GMT</pubDate><ttl>60</ttl><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Ghosted for a trade on Tue, 08 Feb 2022 05:05:34 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto"><a class="plugin-mentions-user plugin-mentions-a" href="/user/bi4smooth" aria-label="Profile: bi4smooth">@<bdi>bi4smooth</bdi></a></p>
<p dir="auto">Thanks for tagging me.</p>
<p dir="auto">I only see 3 posts and none are about trading, so a staff member must have purged the thread/post rather than just delete it.</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/289304</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/289304</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[raphjd]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 08 Feb 2022 05:05:34 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Ghosted for a trade on Tue, 08 Feb 2022 03:17:54 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto"><a class="plugin-mentions-user plugin-mentions-a" href="/user/flozen" aria-label="Profile: flozen">@<bdi>flozen</bdi></a> I agree, both people just uploading to the site would benefit the most people.</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/289300</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/289300</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Arandom2003]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 08 Feb 2022 03:17:54 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Ghosted for a trade on Mon, 07 Feb 2022 17:27:47 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto"><a class="plugin-mentions-user plugin-mentions-a" href="/user/flozen" aria-label="Profile: flozen">@<bdi>flozen</bdi></a> said in <a href="/post/289245">Ghosted for a trade</a>:</p>
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<p dir="auto"><a class="plugin-mentions-user plugin-mentions-a" href="/user/arandom2003" aria-label="Profile: arandom2003">@<bdi>arandom2003</bdi></a> said in <a href="/post/289183">Ghosted for a trade</a>:</p>
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<p dir="auto">Like if you asked, I probably would have shared the videos anyways.<br />
<img src="https://community.gaytor.rent/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/apple/1f614.png?v=57695cee877" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-apple emoji--pensive" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title="😔" alt="😔" /></p>
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<p dir="auto">I'm sorry for your experience, but you touched on an important point at the end of your comment.</p>
<p dir="auto">This site is designed to be a <em>sharing</em> site, not a <em>trading</em> site.</p>
<p dir="auto">There appears to be an increasing number of members seeking trades.  In rare cases, they both upload to our site.</p>
<p dir="auto">More often, they seek to message privately and trade off-site, which leaves two people with the porn they want, and the rest of the community here with,,, nothing.</p>
<p dir="auto">I would simply encourage everyone to follow the best path -- <em>share</em> and <em>seed</em>.</p>
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<p dir="auto">I'm not an admin, nor the Forum Police - but I believe that using the forum to setup "trades" is considered abuse (e.g. not allowed). I'll defer to the likes of <a class="plugin-mentions-user plugin-mentions-a" href="/user/raphjd" aria-label="Profile: raphjd">@<bdi>raphjd</bdi></a> on this (he's the boss-man in these parts).</p>
<p dir="auto">As <a class="plugin-mentions-user plugin-mentions-a" href="/user/flozen" aria-label="Profile: flozen">@<bdi>flozen</bdi></a> wrote above: this is a <em><strong>sharing</strong></em> site, not a  <em>trading</em> site...</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/289282</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/289282</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[bi4smooth]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 07 Feb 2022 17:27:47 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Ghosted for a trade on Sun, 06 Feb 2022 16:36:17 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto"><a class="plugin-mentions-user plugin-mentions-a" href="/user/arandom2003" aria-label="Profile: arandom2003">@<bdi>arandom2003</bdi></a> said in <a href="/post/289183">Ghosted for a trade</a>:</p>
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<p dir="auto">Like if you asked, I probably would have shared the videos anyways.<br />
<img src="https://community.gaytor.rent/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/apple/1f614.png?v=57695cee877" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-apple emoji--pensive" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title="😔" alt="😔" /></p>
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<p dir="auto">I'm sorry for your experience, but you touched on an important point at the end of your comment.</p>
<p dir="auto">This site is designed to be a <em>sharing</em> site, not a <em>trading</em> site.</p>
<p dir="auto">There appears to be an increasing number of members seeking trades.  In rare cases, they both upload to our site.</p>
<p dir="auto">More often, they seek to message privately and trade off-site, which leaves two people with the porn they want, and the rest of the community here with,,, nothing.</p>
<p dir="auto">I would simply encourage everyone to follow the best path -- <em>share</em> and <em>seed</em>.</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/289245</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/289245</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[flozen]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 06 Feb 2022 16:36:17 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Ghosted for a trade on Sat, 05 Feb 2022 21:49:15 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Next time you should password protect your file. That's the best way to keep from getting ghosted.</p>
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