I have no partner. I have to get myself off. When I want to get hard, I strip naked. I take an hot shower. I put body lotion all over, and let it get absorbed. Then, I massage my cock, until it starts to lengthen. Then, I lie down on the bed. I hold my cock in one and, and stick fingers of the other up my ass to get the hole all wet with lotion. Then, I stand up, when I'm a little hard. I hit my buttock very hard with the flat of my hand about 5 or 6 times. I get harder. I switch hands, and do the same to the other buttock. By this time, my cock is fully hard, is sticking out, and a little up, about 6 1/2 inches long. I may hit myself even harder on each buttock in turn. I may grab my cock, and massage it until I come. I may put as many fingers up my asshole as will fit, and finger fuck myself. Or, I may just lie down, and put my drawers back on. It depends on how I feel. It's good to have options. I do miss a human touch.