<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[How did you lose your virginity?]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Was it with a boyfriend? A FWB? Or a casual hookup?</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/topic/43904/how-did-you-lose-your-virginity</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Wed, 08 Apr 2026 11:41:30 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://community.gaytor.rent/topic/43904.rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><pubDate>Sun, 15 Sep 2019 17:48:36 GMT</pubDate><ttl>60</ttl><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to How did you lose your virginity? on Fri, 21 Aug 2020 11:03:02 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">I was 18 and just getting into the hookup scene.  I answered an ad from craigslist and went to the guys place.  Didn't tell him I was a virgin.  I was sucked off once before this, so I had an idea on how to suck dick when he put his to my mouth.  After a bit, he put on a condom and slowly sunk into my ass without prep.  Being a complete virgin, I'm to this day surprised it did not hurt at all.  He fucked me until I came and kept on going until he came in me through the condom.  That was the only part I didn't like; I was already sexually finished and was waiting for him to be done.</p>
<p dir="auto">My second time being fucked was a lot more memorable, but that's a different story.  lol</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/262818</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/262818</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[gayaznboi22]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 21 Aug 2020 11:03:02 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to How did you lose your virginity? on Wed, 12 Aug 2020 23:57:37 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Just a hookup. I was a 17 y.o. top, he was a gay soldier in a small town. It was ok but not special at all. We actually met once before that but my attempt at sex failed. Second time was the charm and then we met a few more times. Now 12 years later he still occasionally writes to me on whatsapp but I'm not really interested anymore.</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/262522</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/262522</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[hatrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2020 23:57:37 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to How did you lose your virginity? on Sat, 08 Aug 2020 11:56:14 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">I didn't get penetrated until later but I had my first sexual experience with another person when I was 11. I was on a crowded bus on the way home from school and these three guys took turns groping me. While one was groping, the other two stood in front and chatted so no one could see. Then they'd swap and they kept doing this until I cummed in my pants.</p>
<p dir="auto">Looking back, it was crazy but I thought it was super horny at the time. I was so scared about the orgasm though because I was worried it would stain my school uniform and my mum would ask me what it was. But it didn't.</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/262332</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/262332</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[stickyboy]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 08 Aug 2020 11:56:14 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to How did you lose your virginity? on Thu, 06 Aug 2020 10:55:22 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Mines was planned. I was 17 and was dating the person, still great friends with him, and we arranged to go on a date to the cinema. After the cinema we went into a local pharmacy to buy condoms then headed home to mines. My family were all working so we had a few hours of privacy and basically it was a clusterfuck of "what do we do" etc but we learnt quickly. It still makes me laugh when we talk about it and how we didn't really know what to do.</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/262267</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/262267</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kotorsl]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 06 Aug 2020 10:55:22 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to How did you lose your virginity? on Tue, 04 Aug 2020 09:51:10 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">I was in the closet, and in a small town. I didn't speak of it again until I was 24. And I saw those guys around, and I was terrified of them.</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/262219</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/262219</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[BEAUJONES]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 04 Aug 2020 09:51:10 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to How did you lose your virginity? on Sun, 26 Jul 2020 16:46:43 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">At age 20 i met a married guy online, older daddy type.. we ended up hooking up in a wooded area sucking kissing wanking.</p>
<p dir="auto">The next week we met up again at his house when his wife was away for the day. He let me fuck him bareback i didnt even think about what i was doing at the time. I wore condoms after that</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/261854</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/261854</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Dadams]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 26 Jul 2020 16:46:43 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to How did you lose your virginity? on Fri, 24 Jul 2020 21:42:58 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto"><a class="plugin-mentions-user plugin-mentions-a" href="/user/alcrow" aria-label="Profile: alcrow">@<bdi>alcrow</bdi></a>:</p>
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<p dir="auto">If frotage also counts then I think I was somewhere between 5 and 7, and it was with my then best friend, who was a year older than me, but I was the one, who came up with the idea. Of course, we didn't know back then what we were doing, we considered that "wrestling". We kept on doing it occasionally for the next 10-12 years, but more and more scarcely as the guy was straight. But I still remember the first time he came and the last time we did it. Good times…</p>
<p dir="auto">If only penetration counts, then it was last year, at the tender age of 30 with a fantastic escort in London. I'm glad it was with him, because he knew exactly how to make it an outstanding experience. I can't wait to see him again... Of course it would be much better if I could find someone who actually loves me, but the odds of that are astronomical.  ;D</p>
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<p dir="auto">I really loved your childhood experience.</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/261760</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/261760</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[raju82]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2020 21:42:58 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to How did you lose your virginity? on Fri, 24 Jul 2020 20:22:36 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">I was 17/18, I was dating the guy at the time, first time he put it in was the back of his car then we went back to his place and went a bit further in a bed this time, hurt really badly, had to stop it hurt so bad!</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/261756</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/261756</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[johnnydoe12]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2020 20:22:36 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to How did you lose your virginity? on Fri, 24 Jul 2020 19:53:44 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">If frotage also counts then I think I was somewhere between 5 and 7, and it was with my then best friend, who was a year older than me, but I was the one, who came up with the idea. Of course, we didn't know back then what we were doing, we considered that "wrestling". We kept on doing it occasionally for the next 10-12 years, but more and more scarcely as the guy was straight. But I still remember the first time he came and the last time we did it. Good times…</p>
<p dir="auto">If only penetration counts, then it was last year, at the tender age of 30 with a fantastic escort in London. I'm glad it was with him, because he knew exactly how to make it an outstanding experience. I can't wait to see him again... Of course it would be much better if I could find someone who actually loves me, but the odds of that are astronomical.  ;D</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/261754</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/261754</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[alcrow]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2020 19:53:44 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to How did you lose your virginity? on Sun, 19 Jul 2020 17:33:09 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Glad you did  <img src="https://community.gaytor.rent/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/apple/1f642.png?v=57695cee877" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-apple emoji--slightly_smiling_face" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":)" alt="🙂" /></p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/261556</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/261556</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[andergarcia]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 19 Jul 2020 17:33:09 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to How did you lose your virginity? on Fri, 17 Jul 2020 18:35:44 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Yes I have moved on from that.  :cheers: Have a nice day!  <img src="https://community.gaytor.rent/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/apple/1f642.png?v=57695cee877" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-apple emoji--slightly_smiling_face" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":)" alt="🙂" /></p>
<p dir="auto"><a class="plugin-mentions-user plugin-mentions-a" href="/user/andergarcia" aria-label="Profile: andergarcia">@<bdi>andergarcia</bdi></a>:</p>
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<p dir="auto">I hope you have overcome that terrible moment in your life and been able to move on…<br />
Good luck!</p>
<p dir="auto"><a class="plugin-mentions-user plugin-mentions-a" href="/user/raju82" aria-label="Profile: raju82">@<bdi>raju82</bdi></a>:</p>
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<p dir="auto"><a class="plugin-mentions-user plugin-mentions-a" href="/user/andergarcia" aria-label="Profile: andergarcia">@<bdi>andergarcia</bdi></a>:</p>
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<p dir="auto">:-[<br />
I hope you reported that rape… they should have been taken to jail because of what they did to you.<br />
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Well I did not report to anyone, I was too young to understand it. He was a friend and he did brainwash me. He continued to use for some years before he moved on to a different city for further education. So many years later I realized I never wanted that it forcefully brainwashed to me, when I realized this I really wanted to move on and focus on my own life and career.</p>
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]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/261510</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/261510</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[raju82]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2020 18:35:44 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to How did you lose your virginity? on Fri, 17 Jul 2020 10:52:52 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">I hope you have overcome that terrible moment in your life and been able to move on…<br />
Good luck!</p>
<p dir="auto"><a class="plugin-mentions-user plugin-mentions-a" href="/user/raju82" aria-label="Profile: raju82">@<bdi>raju82</bdi></a>:</p>
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<p dir="auto"><a class="plugin-mentions-user plugin-mentions-a" href="/user/andergarcia" aria-label="Profile: andergarcia">@<bdi>andergarcia</bdi></a>:</p>
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<p dir="auto">:-[<br />
I hope you reported that rape… they should have been taken to jail because of what they did to you.<br />
[/quote]<br />
Well I did not report to anyone, I was too young to understand it. He was a friend and he did brainwash me. He continued to use for some years before he moved on to a different city for further education. So many years later I realized I never wanted that it forcefully brainwashed to me, when I realized this I really wanted to move on and focus on my own life and career.</p>
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]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/261492</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/261492</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[andergarcia]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2020 10:52:52 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to How did you lose your virginity? on Tue, 14 Jul 2020 08:44:17 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto"><a class="plugin-mentions-user plugin-mentions-a" href="/user/andergarcia" aria-label="Profile: andergarcia">@<bdi>andergarcia</bdi></a>:</p>
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<p dir="auto">:-[<br />
I hope you reported that rape… they should have been taken to jail because of what they did to you.<br />
[/quote]<br />
Well I did not report to anyone, I was too young to understand it. He was a friend and he did brainwash me. He continued to use for some years before he moved on to a different city for further education. So many years later I realized I never wanted that it forcefully brainwashed to me, when I realized this I really wanted to move on and focus on my own life and career.</p>
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]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/261388</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/261388</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[raju82]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2020 08:44:17 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to How did you lose your virginity? on Tue, 14 Jul 2020 07:59:36 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">:-[<br />
I hope you reported that rape… they should have been taken to jail because of what they did to you.</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/261385</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/261385</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[andergarcia]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2020 07:59:36 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to How did you lose your virginity? on Tue, 14 Jul 2020 05:21:50 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">My virginity was taken by two "straight" identified guys who caught me at the park near our house. To be honest, I had heard there were gay men that went down there. I had no idea what cruising was, and I was curious. It is a small town so there weren't opportunities to meet gay people my own age. I was 14 at the time.I was jumped and pulled into a pump house along the rive and raped and beaten.</p>
<p dir="auto">Horrible first time story.</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/261375</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/261375</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[BEAUJONES]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2020 05:21:50 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to How did you lose your virginity? on Sun, 12 Jul 2020 21:28:22 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">If we're talking about penetration it was with a hook-up that developed into a fuck buddy sort of situation.</p>
<p dir="auto">It was mediocre if only for the fact that I was not really interested in sex back then, too addicted to porn… <img src="https://community.gaytor.rent/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/apple/1f61b.png?v=57695cee877" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-apple emoji--stuck_out_tongue" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":P" alt="😛" /></p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/261318</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/261318</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Grotomode]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 12 Jul 2020 21:28:22 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to How did you lose your virginity? on Thu, 25 Jun 2020 20:21:03 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">A neighbor boy 5 years elder to me raped me, when I was 10 years old.</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/260526</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/260526</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[raju82]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 25 Jun 2020 20:21:03 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to How did you lose your virginity? on Tue, 16 Jun 2020 17:21:16 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto"><a class="plugin-mentions-user plugin-mentions-a" href="/user/sluttydave" aria-label="Profile: SluttyDave">@<bdi>SluttyDave</bdi></a>:</p>
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<p dir="auto">I did not expect a nuanced answer like that. May I add: The concept of virginity is hard to apply to today's standards, especially to gay men, so I'd go as far as to say, that I might have given parts of my virginity to several people over time xD</p>
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<p dir="auto">Oh, a little flattery and I'm inclined to join you in being Slutty, Dave.  Check under the hood – perhaps there's a few virgin (or slightly used) parts you still need to set free.    :cheesy2:</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/260054</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/260054</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[flozen]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 16 Jun 2020 17:21:16 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to How did you lose your virginity? on Thu, 11 Jun 2020 21:56:16 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto"><a class="plugin-mentions-user plugin-mentions-a" href="/user/flozen" aria-label="Profile: flozen">@<bdi>flozen</bdi></a>:</p>
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<p dir="auto">The concept of losing virginity (usually negative for a girl, usually positive for a boy) is an entrenched linguistic and cultural concept in so many parts of the globe, with organized religion playing a key role.</p>
<p dir="auto">So, I didn't <em>lose</em> my virginity at all – I know exactly where I put it...    :afr:   :cheesy2:   :afr:</p>
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<p dir="auto">I did not expect a nuanced answer like that. May I add: The concept of virginity is hard to apply to today's standards, especially to gay men, so I'd go as far as to say, that I might have given parts of my virginity to several people over time xD</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/259737</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/259737</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[SluttyDave]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 11 Jun 2020 21:56:16 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to How did you lose your virginity? on Sun, 31 May 2020 15:58:15 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">With a neighbor, when we were younger and we were playing computer games at his place. It was my first gay experience and I remember it with a smile on my face  <img src="https://community.gaytor.rent/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/apple/1f642.png?v=57695cee877" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-apple emoji--slightly_smiling_face" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":)" alt="🙂" /></p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/258977</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/258977</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[andergarcia]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 31 May 2020 15:58:15 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to How did you lose your virginity? on Sat, 15 Feb 2020 20:06:17 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">hmmm, it was in 2001 I was around 17 and I had a relationship with a married 44 man. Since I was living with my parents and he was with his family we went to a hotel nearby. It was nice, everything was so natural and I felt realy cozy and special. Looking back at it, I am glad that this was my first time. He was respectful, gentle and caring and doing the right steps trying not to hurt me (at least not too much)</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/255523</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/255523</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[nikolaos84]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 15 Feb 2020 20:06:17 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to How did you lose your virginity? on Sat, 11 Jan 2020 13:31:59 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">It was with my ex boyfriend. We cared about each other so I'm glad I did it with him!</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/254862</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/254862</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[vdkblue]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 11 Jan 2020 13:31:59 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to How did you lose your virginity? on Wed, 08 Jan 2020 15:26:17 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">It was when I was in the seminary (or is that semen-ary?), and with another student.  He was a friend…not a hookup, but not romantic either.  When I left that vocation, I was worried that I wouldn't find other nice young men to play with.</p>
<p dir="auto">It turned out, though, there were quite a few out there  ;D</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/254768</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/254768</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[eobox91103]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 08 Jan 2020 15:26:17 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to How did you lose your virginity? on Wed, 08 Jan 2020 14:35:42 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">A hot escort, who returned the money as he enjoyed it lol.<br />
Worth it. No regrets.</p>
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