@polgara:

For bottoms that started out super tight. What was the best way you found to train your ass to be more receptive? I'd love to be more ready to go when bottoming rather than having to work up to it for a long time.

The most important thing for you is to be really relaxed and for your partner to take it slow at the beginning.
Secondly, have a regular sex schedule (which is not so easy to have) but you can help yourself with toys. My life changed when I bought my first dildo and experienced slow and long type of anal "fun".

As a boy I was really skinny and therefore my whole build was pretty tight so sex was also very painful because of that, and even using dildo to widen my anus I still had some troubles with bottoming.

Your partner, especially if you're younger, should be okay with taking it slow at the beginning. It wasn't before I moved in together with my BF that I could have sex without some kind of pain when he entered me just because we do it more regularly now when we have our own place and privacy.

Your "hole" is in theory just another body muscle and if you want it to be loose, you gotta make it and keep it that way. Also, try with butt plugs if wearing one is possible. They will make you more horny and loose your hole even more.

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@tux98:

@polgara:

For bottoms that started out super tight. What was the best way you found to train your ass to be more receptive? I'd love to be more ready to go when bottoming rather than having to work up to it for a long time.

The most important thing for you is to be really relaxed and for your partner to take it slow at the beginning.
Secondly, have a regular sex schedule (which is not so easy to have) but you can help yourself with toys. My life changed when I bought my first dildo and experienced slow and long type of anal "fun".

As a boy I was really skinny and therefore my whole build was pretty tight so sex was also very painful because of that, and even using dildo to widen my anus I still had some troubles with bottoming.

Your partner, especially if you're younger, should be okay with taking it slow at the beginning. It wasn't before I moved in together with my BF that I could have sex without some kind of pain when he entered me just because we do it more regularly now when we have our own place and privacy.

Your "hole" is in theory just another body muscle and if you want it to be loose, you gotta make it and keep it that way. Also, try with butt plugs if wearing one is possible. They will make you more horny and loose your hole even more.

I did wear my buttplugg my boyfriend then (husband now) bought me. And i still use a plug at home when i cleaning. Its more fun that way.

You should try one from LoveSense and let him control you with that.  :cheesy2:

@polgara:

For bottoms that started out super tight. What was the best way you found to train your ass to be more receptive? I'd love to be more ready to go when bottoming rather than having to work up to it for a long time.

The most important thing for you is to be really relaxed and for your partner to take it slow at the beginning.
Secondly, have a regular sex schedule (which is not so easy to have) but you can help yourself with toys. My life changed when I bought my first dildo and experienced slow and long type of anal "fun".

As a boy I was really skinny and therefore my whole build was pretty tight so sex was also very painful because of that, and even using dildo to widen my anus I still had some troubles with bottoming.

Your partner, especially if you're younger, should be okay with taking it slow at the beginning. It wasn't before I moved in together with my BF that I could have sex without some kind of pain when he entered me just because we do it more regularly now when we have our own place and privacy.

Your "hole" is in theory just another body muscle and if you want it to be loose, you gotta make it and keep it that way. Also, try with butt plugs if wearing one is possible. They will make you more horny and loose your hole even more.

I did wear my buttplugg my boyfriend then (husband now) bought me. And i still use a plug at home when i cleaning. Its more fun that way.

For bottoms that started out super tight. What was the best way you found to train your ass to be more receptive? I'd love to be more ready to go when bottoming rather than having to work up to it for a long time.

The most important thing for you is to be really relaxed and for your partner to take it slow at the beginning.
Secondly, have a regular sex schedule (which is not so easy to have) but you can help yourself with toys. My life changed when I bought my first dildo and experienced slow and long type of anal "fun".

As a boy I was really skinny and therefore my whole build was pretty tight so sex was also very painful because of that, and even using dildo to widen my anus I still had some troubles with bottoming.

Your partner, especially if you're younger, should be okay with taking it slow at the beginning. It wasn't before I moved in together with my BF that I could have sex without some kind of pain when he entered me just because we do it more regularly now when we have our own place and privacy.

Your "hole" is in theory just another body muscle and if you want it to be loose, you gotta make it and keep it that way. Also, try with butt plugs if wearing one is possible. They will make you more horny and loose your hole even more.

I used buttplugs as well. Startet small and slowly started getting bigger.  It works it just takes time . I was tight as fuck as well. It took me way longer than i wish it did. LOL

My husband (also the same guy that take my virgin way back then) bought me (after the first time) a small buttplug and a dildo that i could play with. I think the dildo was only 4 inch and thin. My favoritedildo today is about 7 inch and thick….. :cheers:

Plugs and dildos are what I've been using and it takes a while but does the trick if you're patient and don't rush your body. You also have to keep up with it as I recently went from taking fairly good sized plugs no problem in November to tight as a virgin again this past weekend thanks to the holidays keeping me too busy and tired to play with my ass much. :cry2:

Never had that problem  :cheesy2:

For bottoms that started out super tight. What was the best way you found to train your ass to be more receptive? I'd love to be more ready to go when bottoming rather than having to work up to it for a long time.

Buttplugs, and dildos and sex. Lots of sex. I was supertight the first time my husband took my virginity and we had to use lot of lube. Today we dont use any lube at all, because he has lot of precum, and he rims me and my ass is not tight anymore  :cheers: