<![CDATA[Why can't I get over him?]]>Ugh. I got another stupid, automated email from Facebook that my ex wants to be 'Friends'. The kicker is- he's sending it to everyone in his address book. He really has no interest in me at all anymore. The worst part is, it shows his profile picture, and he's smiling, and looking handsome and available, and it's tearing me up inside!!! I want to email him directly and say, "Delete my email from your contact list!", but that's the last, little link, and once it's gone… it's gone.

sigh

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/topic/3821/why-can-t-i-get-over-himRSS for NodeWed, 08 Apr 2026 16:28:20 GMTSun, 17 Oct 2010 09:00:46 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to Why can't I get over him? on Sun, 17 Oct 2010 15:20:32 GMT]]>@bluehue:

And don't forget, we're all full of shit…

I thought that was a politician. Always full of the same thing, and needing to be changed frequently.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/69568https://community.gaytor.rent/post/69568Sun, 17 Oct 2010 15:20:32 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Why can't I get over him? on Sun, 17 Oct 2010 15:17:16 GMT]]>And don't forget, we're all full of shit…

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/69566https://community.gaytor.rent/post/69566Sun, 17 Oct 2010 15:17:16 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Why can't I get over him? on Sun, 17 Oct 2010 15:15:48 GMT]]>@bluehue:

All it takes is time. There are many other pricks and assholes out there–hopefully you'll find a keeper with both.  :hug:

I couldn't agree more. I've often said that men are like roses…. Watch out for the pricks!

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/69565https://community.gaytor.rent/post/69565Sun, 17 Oct 2010 15:15:48 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Why can't I get over him? on Sun, 17 Oct 2010 14:54:32 GMT]]>haha… that really made me laugh- which is exactly what I needed right now!!! Thanks!

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/69556https://community.gaytor.rent/post/69556Sun, 17 Oct 2010 14:54:32 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Why can't I get over him? on Sun, 17 Oct 2010 14:52:03 GMT]]>All it takes is time. There are many other pricks and assholes out there–hopefully you'll find a keeper with both.  :hug:

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/69554https://community.gaytor.rent/post/69554Sun, 17 Oct 2010 14:52:03 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Why can't I get over him? on Sun, 17 Oct 2010 11:15:38 GMT]]>@uwsguy102:

You're right. You're right. You're right. I've just never been good at making my heart listen to my head…

I know first hand how hard that situation can be. Granted I don't know the circumstances of how everything went down, but I would seem to think that it ended for a reason. The one thing I will say is that sometimes going back can do more damage in the end than letting it go. I unfortunately had to learn this lesson by having given my ex-husband a second chance.

As hard as it may be to do, in most cases, it's often best.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/69532https://community.gaytor.rent/post/69532Sun, 17 Oct 2010 11:15:38 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Why can't I get over him? on Sun, 17 Oct 2010 10:00:21 GMT]]>You're right. You're right. You're right. I've just never been good at making my heart listen to my head…

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/69530https://community.gaytor.rent/post/69530Sun, 17 Oct 2010 10:00:21 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Why can't I get over him? on Sun, 17 Oct 2010 09:48:05 GMT]]>Stop torturing yourself and put an end to it, once and for all.

The relationship is over, so move on. You'll be so much happier once you do.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/69528https://community.gaytor.rent/post/69528Sun, 17 Oct 2010 09:48:05 GMT