The reason why I say it's not unheard of, is because me myself included, I do not really care for anal sex. I'd rather just not do it.

I mean I'd be open to do it, but I'd rather not.

They advised me too put a lot of lubes when the ass is too tight

Lube is just the first step.  If you're new to bottoming, do yourself a huge favor and find a patient top.  1) Relax.  2) Lube.  3) Relax.  4) ass play.  5)  Relax.

The right partner will take the time to help you relax and open up.  If they just dive right in, you're not going to enjoy it very much (unless you've been doing it a long time and are into extreme abrupt entries.)

Might even get yourself a few small/medium toys and have a party of 1 to find out what works for you.

99% of the problem of an ass being too tight is the bottom isn't relaxed enough.

If it's more than a 1 night stand, then do some ass play without even trying to penetrate and work your way up.    Building trust and pleasure for the bottom is the best way to build up to actual penetration.

Exactly. No need to rush straight to anal sex. Focus on some assplay and wanking, and work up to anal.

If it's more than a 1 night stand, then do some ass play without even trying to penetrate and work your way up.    Building trust and pleasure for the bottom is the best way to build up to actual penetration.

I don't always like anal sex as a top.  When someone's ass is too tight it's like sticking my dick into a press.