Tired of having to always ask for accomodation.

I have Lupus, which is rarely visible - so people ignore it.
When it becomes visible -ie I have a seizure or blister from sunlight - people freak out rather than dealing with it.

I know for other people who are gay and have a disability, it's different.

No I don't tell that many people, and I feel do not feel it's something (due to the fact I'm a high functioning autistic) I need to bring up.

Don't get me wrong, it sucks being gay and autistic, but I learn to accept it I guess.

Thx for the replies, wish more would respond to it.

Agreed there is more than 1 actual form of disability.
The is the Intellectual Disability that affects learning to Physical Disability which is more seen out in the open.

The Intellectual one can be a little more harder to tell compared to the Physical Disability, cause they look like any other person, require a lil more attentiveness towards what they need help with.

It also depends on the level of the disability..

Agreed there is more than 1 actual form of disability.
The is the Intellectual Disability that affects learning to Physical Disability which is more seen out in the open.

The Intellectual one can be a little more harder to tell compared to the Physical Disability, cause they look like any other person, require a lil more attentiveness towards what they need help with.