<![CDATA[How long have you and your partner been together?]]>Today–May 15, 2017, now considered as the “official” date--Bobby “CrusaderRab” and I celebrate our 35th anniversary.

35 Years--three and a half decades!

I’m pretty sure that a relationship of any sort was something that never crossed the minds of either of us looking back to that warm Saturday afternoon--never thinking that one-time thing would turn into every other week–months later, probably still never really looking at a future and years together.

Even as the years passed, a life together wasn’t foreseen. Now, decades later, I can’t imagine a life without Bobby. Countless fantastic experiences I’ve enjoyed with him over these last 35 years, most of which he’s the one to thank for.

Today--in its twilight--there’s no doubt about our relationship and the future for it’s the relationship of a lifetime that’s destined to last a lifetime!

Regarding the “official” May 15th date--a revision--only recently recognized in putting this post together. Unsure of exactly when it all started, our guesstimate has always had the date as May 13th--the two of us celebrating a couple of days ago…

I called him and said, “Happy Anniversary…” His reply…”Oh, today’s the 13th?”

Seeing today, May 15th as the true anniversary date, we definitely did do it up more than we did a couple of days ago–calling, informing him of the real date and how it came to be, I said “Make a mental note…”

…then I said, “Happy Anniversary…”

Acknowledging the revised date, Bobby replied, “Happy Anniversary.”

With that I say, Happy Anniversary to all celebrating one today–asking how long have you and yours been together?

A little bit of us–previous forum topics and posts…

Heartache & Headaches...in a relationship destined to last a lifetime - https://community.gaytor.rent/index.php?topic=47275.msg253500#msg253500

My “Live and Die Guy” - https://community.gaytor.rent/index.php?topic=45569.msg241254#msg241254

Re: How old are you and your partner? - https://community.gaytor.rent/index.php?topic=30415.msg215561#msg215561

Re: How old are you? - https://community.gaytor.rent/index.php?topic=28066.msg258397#msg258397

Re: Why doesn't anyone post face pics? Picture of Me. - https://community.gaytor.rent/index.php?topic=33429.msg245434#msg245434

...and mine - https://community.gaytor.rent/index.php?topic=46195.msg245433#msg245433

Re: Older/Younger relationships, do they survive? - https://community.gaytor.rent/index.php?topic=47082.msg252099#msg252099

Re: Do you cut your own hair or have it professionally done? - https://community.gaytor.rent/index.php?topic=43089.msg237713#msg237713

Poll: Discrimination--Abuse and You - https://community.gaytor.rent/index.php?topic=46788.msg249427#msg249427

What's your country's national anthem? - https://community.gaytor.rent/index.php?topic=44916.msg235754#msg235754

“Ideal” Height to Weight Proportion - https://community.gaytor.rent/index.php?topic=46707.msg248764#msg248764

Poll: Fragrance Use - Colognes, Perfumes, etc. - https://community.gaytor.rent/index.php?topic=49244.msg266742#msg266742

Hi there! How’s the weather? - https://community.gaytor.rent/index.php?topic=43243.msg224107#msg224107

Re: will you marry your partner in the future? - https://community.gaytor.rent/index.php?topic=36874.msg234888#msg234888

Re: What body modifications do you have? - https://community.gaytor.rent/index.php?topic=1775.msg214213#msg214213

Re: Do you like or dislike tattoos? - https://community.gaytor.rent/index.php?topic=42316.msg235820#msg235820

Re: What type of job do you have guys? - https://community.gaytor.rent/index.php?topic=33055.msg217186#msg217186

Then & Now (1982, 2017).jpg
...Me & Bobby ('82-'88).jpg
Bobby & His Baby...Me & Mine.jpg
High School Classes of '78 & '56.jpg
British Columbia (1986).jpg

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/topic/32720/how-long-have-you-and-your-partner-been-togetherRSS for NodeWed, 08 Apr 2026 10:55:14 GMTMon, 15 May 2017 15:27:55 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to How long have you and your partner been together? on Wed, 17 May 2017 12:28:41 GMT]]>My boyfriend and I have been together since the middle of 2014. I don't exactly remember when, since… it may sound weird, but we have never actually proposed to each other. We are comfortable around, taking good care around each other and being lovey dovey, so... yeah

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/215263https://community.gaytor.rent/post/215263Wed, 17 May 2017 12:28:41 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How long have you and your partner been together? on Wed, 17 May 2017 12:15:37 GMT]]>@obras62:

We've been together for almost 9 years. We are 21 years difference in age and from different cultures, I actually moved to his country.

Very good!

Also, regarding your "21 years difference in age"–another example supporting my forum post "Re: Older/Younger relationships, do they survive?" - https://community.gaytor.rent/index.php?topic=47082.msg252099#msg252099

Congratulations! :clap2:

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/215261https://community.gaytor.rent/post/215261Wed, 17 May 2017 12:15:37 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How long have you and your partner been together? on Tue, 16 May 2017 11:22:01 GMT]]>We've been together for almost 9 years. We are 21 years difference in age and from different cultures, I actually moved to his country.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/215151https://community.gaytor.rent/post/215151Tue, 16 May 2017 11:22:01 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How long have you and your partner been together? on Tue, 16 May 2017 05:31:49 GMT]]>@MikeChang:

19 Years on the 12th June.

Nice! :clap2:

June 12th is just around the corner!

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/215131https://community.gaytor.rent/post/215131Tue, 16 May 2017 05:31:49 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How long have you and your partner been together? on Tue, 16 May 2017 05:28:13 GMT]]>@kukashiffr:

9 years and going strong … we have had our share of up and downs but we both have surpassed things that don't matter. We both cannot live without each other I simply love him for being him. He means more then anything in the world to me :cheers:  :love:

Right on! :clap2:

Regarding "He means more then anything in the world to me"–I definitely know the feeling!

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/215130https://community.gaytor.rent/post/215130Tue, 16 May 2017 05:28:13 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How long have you and your partner been together? on Tue, 16 May 2017 05:22:36 GMT]]>@Ellis:

Today–May 15, 2017, now considered as the “official” date--Bobby “CrusaderRab” and I celebrate our 35th anniversary.

35 Years--three and a half decades!

My Sweetie–long before he knew me…

Playing It 'Straight'.jpg
...guessing maybe 2-3 years old.jpg
The Family.jpg
3 months from turning 3.jpg
Almost 3!.jpg

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/215128https://community.gaytor.rent/post/215128Tue, 16 May 2017 05:22:36 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How long have you and your partner been together? on Mon, 15 May 2017 22:06:45 GMT]]>19 Years on the 12th June.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/215083https://community.gaytor.rent/post/215083Mon, 15 May 2017 22:06:45 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How long have you and your partner been together? on Mon, 15 May 2017 19:59:28 GMT]]>9 years and going strong … we have had our share of up and downs but we both have surpassed things that don't matter. We both cannot live without each other I simply love him for being him. He means more then anything in the world to me :cheers:  :love:

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/215069https://community.gaytor.rent/post/215069Mon, 15 May 2017 19:59:28 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How long have you and your partner been together? on Mon, 15 May 2017 18:37:31 GMT]]>@amicusets:

13 years. Today happens to be his 55th birthday. I have been with him since I was 27.

Congratulations and Happy Birthday to your partner! :hug2:

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/215066https://community.gaytor.rent/post/215066Mon, 15 May 2017 18:37:31 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How long have you and your partner been together? on Mon, 15 May 2017 18:31:08 GMT]]>13 years. Today happens to be his 55th birthday. I have been with him since I was 27.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/215065https://community.gaytor.rent/post/215065Mon, 15 May 2017 18:31:08 GMT