<![CDATA[The case for not coming out]]>I think there are certain situations where it is better not to come out than to do so. For instance, if you live in a very conservative community

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/topic/32138/the-case-for-not-coming-outRSS for NodeWed, 08 Apr 2026 08:55:39 GMTTue, 25 Apr 2017 17:39:39 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to The case for not coming out on Sat, 27 May 2017 22:51:11 GMT]]>The risk of losing almost everyone you knew so far is one of those situations I guess. This is a real risk if you live in a conservative community.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/216536https://community.gaytor.rent/post/216536Sat, 27 May 2017 22:51:11 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to The case for not coming out on Tue, 23 May 2017 21:23:14 GMT]]>Obviously, don't come out (yet) if it will threaten your life and/or living situation.

But beyond that, I'd say go for it.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/216045https://community.gaytor.rent/post/216045Tue, 23 May 2017 21:23:14 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to The case for not coming out on Wed, 26 Apr 2017 15:21:55 GMT]]>@raphjd:

Clearly, if it's a life or death situation then it's better to be safe.

In the "modern world",  there's very little reason not to come out.

It's still not safe to come out in ethnic countries; former Soviet bloc, muslim, black-centric, and whatnot.

The ethnic country bit is obviously tough - I am talking about the "modern world"

Coming out is not always the answer

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/212723https://community.gaytor.rent/post/212723Wed, 26 Apr 2017 15:21:55 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to The case for not coming out on Wed, 26 Apr 2017 06:31:43 GMT]]>Clearly, if it's a life or death situation then it's better to be safe.

In the "modern world",  there's very little reason not to come out.

It's still not safe to come out in ethnic countries; former Soviet bloc, muslim, black-centric, and whatnot.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/212690https://community.gaytor.rent/post/212690Wed, 26 Apr 2017 06:31:43 GMT