I would only be tempted with someone who acts against the interest of LGBT+ people as some kind of internalized homophobia. And mostly I would try out them to themselves, and see if they can get help dealing with it.

Just like it is quite common for men/women who are deep down gay themselves will loathe or bad mouth other gay ppl to overcome their own guilt. The story is the same here and I think it is much worse. They will be humiliated and verbally abused or even worse they will be forced to have sex against their will.

I shared this with a female friend (who was supposed to be my best friend) in my college days when I was becoming a doctor that I also like men as well as women. Back then I had never had sex but I had interest in both. We were together for four years and I did everything in my power to be her friend emotionally, financially and I took her to events/concerts which she could never even think of going to. She was from a very conservative house but once she was out she used to to be come wild and curse and get crazy of all sorts just to let out her frustration. Due to all this she qas quite popular in the college as well for being very outrageous. She used to extremely funny thing in college like wearing a lab coat and sit right in the middle of the college hallway and started acting like a professional beggar asking for money from everyone who walked by even poor patients and she used to do this even while were were our in large groups in the mall. Every one in the college knew her crazy side but those who didn't knew her used to be shocked. Back in the day it used to be very funny and stupid.

I put my trust in her and after 2 years told her my secret she kept it for a year and in my last year she blurted it all out to everyone in the college.  It was a very tough time for me to face everyone talking behind my back and eventually i learned what she had done. Imagine my shock. I had many of her secrets too with me but I never went public with them maybe I am made that way.

I will stop my rant here just wanted to share my story here about this horrific event in my life.

My nephew waited until he was financially stable out on his own at 18 before making a public coming out post on Instagram.

My niece is in college and she turned 19 before posting beautiful sappy pictures of her and her girlfriend on Facebook and coming out.

Just a bit irked that the possibility of my alleged status as Favorite Uncle might be due to my orientation and not because of spoiling them. I could have saved some money. (Kidding)

Everyone's journey is different, no way will I be a pothole on their road.

I wouldn't have liked to be forced to be out of the closet when I was not ready.

However, I am human and prone to weaknesses and may accidentally in the heat of the moment out someone.

But it's still and should be a no for me.

I don't mind if someone doesn't feel like coming out, because there was a time I also didn't, but now I just get away as soon as it starts getting like this story again.

yes

Done or might do?

@kukashiffr:

So I wanna know that have you out someone who was in the closet or would you ever do it if you know someone who is doing it behind closed doors. How does gossip like so and so celebrity is gay also comes. Someone's is always an instigator there. Weather the allegation is true or not people just call out certain celebrities for the way they act or the ppl they hangout with even if they are openly LGBT.

For e.g ppl always call Will Smith gay and his wife Jada Pinkett a lesbian, same is for Queen Latifah and I think people also used to call Sophie B Hawkins the singer a lesbian back in the 90's but now she is happily married and have kids. So we are all ears. Out with it.  :blind:

Nope, because it's all about respect, and I respect their privacy as much as I respect mine. 
It's a different case however, if he/she's an annoying prick who has been trying to out me first. Then I might simply give them hell.  >:D

As for celebrities, well… from what I can tell (a colleague used to work in local showbiz), they actually know each other sexuality much better than their fans. So their circle of friends highly likely already aware about it, but decided to stay silent because exposing them would have negative effects on their careers as well. Heck, they don't want to risk being outed as well.

:love:

If someone is completely in the closet and asks for his/her/their privacy to be respected; I would respect their decisions without agreeing with them.

But what about people who are 'out' to the Gay community but not public with the straight community?  Colton Haynes, Ellen Degeneres, Jodie Foster, Thomas Dekker, and Ricky Martin were all widely known to be homosexual long before they did interviews in mainstream magazines 'coming out.'  My shock when Barry Manilow came out was that it had taken him so long.

never, thats just rude!

I don't think you really meant that in all cases.

For instance.. some people need to be outed.. such as:
Tom Cruise
Kirk Cameron
Justin Bieber
Cruise and Cameron will probably never come out.. but Justin will probably come out soon.

Cruise is actually sterile due to chemotherapy as a teenager.. that is why he has no biological children.  If that
Suri is his biological child - then it is a test tube baby.

Many times, fag bashers are in fact closet homosexuals.

Supposedly, 10% of people are exclusively gay, whereas 35% of people are bisexual.  That's a lot of people!
By the way.. here are 6 people who are said to be gay, who are actually bisexual:  Elton John, David Bowie, Freddy Mercury, Boy George, Anthony Perkins, and Graham Chapman (Monty Python - who died of CANCER not AIDS).