How old where you when you came out?
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Yeah I know exactly what you meant by that but I still think it's wrong.
If it's about the parents. I can't put myself in positions like that though I tried so many times. My parents were not keen on me being gay too but I just worked it out. I made them accept me, I was very stubborn, didn't let myself be a victim or smth. My mum is like a church freak so it was hard but eventually I just invited my bf for every weekend and she began to like him. I don't think she still thinks it's okay and is cool with it but at least I stopped hearing things like "one day you'll have a wife" "you'll never be happy" "you're not normal" everytime I was like "well, fuck off" : D But we still love each other. Who would think we made like thousand dumplings together the whole yesterday.
I think sometimes people coming out should stand their ground really hard and be stubborn about everything. But this kind of behaviour will not be able to achieve if you're not fully at peace with yourself. If it's still not working then probably parents ARE total dicks. But that's how it is if someone is treating their child as a duty or an addition. But that's totally offtopic right now. Sorry. -
21… what a shitty year that was...
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14 y/o and I have never had regrets about it, Fuck homophobia! #yolo
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I was 15 yo when a daddy soccer friend let me fuck him , I still rememder that perfect peach rounded butt ! and those rare blue eyes, it was so warm and full hotter inside that ass, I felt so excited
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18 to friends, 19 to family
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29 yo
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Mmm i was 10 years old when i find out i liked guy since me and my Neighbors nephew had sex the night i turn 10 years old that continued for 8 years but apparently my mom already knew when i told her at 11
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It was somewhere about 14. And at that time have found out that I'm in scat, too (but this is a story from another book).
I suppose, everyone knows that feeling when you fell yourself alone with your interests (especially in such intolerant to LGBT country as Russia). I felt so. But soon I have realized that I am not and there are a lot of people in my city who have the same problems as I do (humiliating and hating and so on).
I thought in different times (now I am 19) that I am pan- and homosexual. But now I realize that I am bisexual, but men attracting me more.
Thanks for your attention :cheers:
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26 ys
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14
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….um...I guess the 4th year of college??????maybe21 or 22....My mum found the chat history of mine...so I got outed
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I first came out when I was 18 to my chemistry lab partner, who ultimately ended up being one of my best friends ;D
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I was 15 and I had a boyfriend who was 26. There was no drama with family, they just accepted it and we moved on to the next topic…I am very lucky to have had this kind of experience and thankful for the loving and understanding relationship I had with my parents, especially my father. He was the coolest dad ever. :thankyou:
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I'm pretty sure I was 14 when I came out to my fam…. not the best experience but oh well.... they're over it. my dad was like it's ok, I know, but you need to be straight... ::)
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19. Came out to friends first.
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23, to my hardcore Evangelical folks. My dad's a pastor too. I never considered remaining closeted as an option.
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I was like 18 and in a relationship. I wanted to stop feeling imprisoned in my own home.
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19 finally got the guts to go to a gay bar
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26 yo
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23, to my hardcore Evangelical folks. My dad's a pastor too. I never considered remaining closeted as an option.
Had you any trouble afterwards?
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