that's actually quite the opposite. Gays have very very often a strong mother and an absent father and so they identify to the strong sex hence are looking for men later. So the gayer you are the more you like older men. when you'r bi you "usually" like younger . ( dont take what I just said a 100% sure rule, it's just general stuff).

Funny thing, it works very well in my case)) Of course I understand that's not 100%, but clearly works))

That's not to say I cannot or do not appreciate more mature men, but they aren't a major preference for me. When it comes to relationships, I prefer guys who are as close as possible to my own age. I'm not sure why, but being with someone more than a couple of years older or younger than I am feels weird.

Io credo che tutto dipenda da chi ti ha fatto conoscere il sesso gay..se è  stato un maturo ti piacerà  sempre lui e poco i giovani o viceversa

It's fun, but your theory, is kind of right, too. Moment when I understand that I like man body, when I was 12 years old, I saw the statue of Herakles Farnese. He looks like a muscle mature daddy in it. After that, most of my fantasies were only about this kind of man or older and bigger.

well i think there might be a connection but it is not mandatory if you did not have a real father to like mature men.

Yeah, it's a huge connection in my case, I have a buddy which also about my age. He is straight and knows that I'm gay, he is always acting verbal and physical, more older then he is, especially when he knew that i grown up without a father. Our conversations always like a Pink Fairy with Brutal Rock, he is kind of on homophobia side, but first of all look at my human personality not orientation. So yeah, I like my conversations with him. I think mostly, cause of his daddy-acting role.

I'm not sure.  I grew up with my father but was not particularly close to him.  I was attracted to older men from the moment I hit puberty.  Rather than fantasize about the hot female teacher like my friends, I was going home and jerking off while thinking about my 50-year old history teacher.  I developed a fetish for suits very early on (like 12-ish).  Loved jerking to senators and congressmen while watching CSPAN.  I think I am more attracted to the look than the psychological concept.  I've always felt like a bit of an old soul myself.

@JerodParker:

I wasn't close to my dad but I was attracted to the look of men with beard.  Probably relating subconsciously with a bearded, idealized looking Jesus being a figure of safety and comfort.

@JerodParker:

I wasn't close to my dad but I was attracted to the look of men with beard.  Probably relating subconsciously with a bearded, idealized looking Jesus being a figure of safety and comfort.

Thanks for replies guys, I'm glad to hear that, cause i think it's only special situation, now I see, that there are multiple ways.  :cool2: