Ti dico di si perchè anche io ne sono la prova vivente!
Convivo con donna da quasi 15 anni ma negli ultimi 20, spesso, vado a curiosare il porno gay. Il mio è un interesse non costante. Periodi in cui la cosa mi attira di più e quando per niente.
Qualche anno fa mi persi un pò. Mentre ero un adorabile fidanzato di una bella ragazza, contemporaneamente ero un focoso trombamico di un amico gay. Incontri fugaci, lussuriosi, spesso evoluti in orge. Però questo sesso omosessuale non lo trovavo così appagante se non per la "porcaggine" che due o più uomini possono mettere in atto.. Così gli incontri diminuirono, fino a sparire del tutto. Oggi sono anni che non incontro uomini.
Ma il porno è rimasto..

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• you can look at one man and be incredibly turned on, and find virtually no other man sexually attractive in the least... that doesn't make you gay!
• you can look at one woman and be incredibly turned on, and find virtually no other woman sexually attractive in the least... that doesn't make you straight!

As humans, we strive (both constantly, and futilely) to bring order to our own existence.

But the Universe isn't about order, it's about chaos!

The Kinseys found that there were VERY few men who never EVER found another man sexually attractive; and equally so, they found VERY few men who never EVER found a woman sexually attractive. And the same was found for women.

Interestingly, they found that women were culturally - in the 1950's and 1960's - far more open/receptive to accepting/admitting that they were attracted to something "not standard" for them.

The idea that "to be gay" you have to not (ever) find a woman sexually alluring, and "to be straight" you cannot (ever) find another man to be sexually attractive is purely a social construct.

There ARE rare exceptions (and you may indeed be one of them) - but if you're someone who claims "it's all of one, and none of the other", then you are probably (not definitely, just probably) deceiving yourself!

Statistically speaking, most of us are "fluid" - we have a preference, but we will find exceptions our own "rules"!

As the father of 5 boys, I'll tell you what I've told my children as they have grown:

• If your dick gets hard, you're attracted to it!

That doesn't give you license to ACT on that attraction, but it is what it is and you can't change it! The goal in life is to find someone who makes your dick hard, and for whom you cause the same reaction (clearly, not "their dick being hard" for a woman, but you get the point)....

A straight guy may be curious, bu after seeing it once, they usually don't go back for seconds.

It used to be one or the other, with no exceptions. As time and acceptance evolves, we learn more about ourselves. There's heteroromantic, homoromantic and (other)romantic and none has to strictly adhere to what ends up happening between the sheets.

If one is true to oneself, or even at minimum only count one's own opinion of themselves, yes perhaps someone can be (whichlabeltheywant) while looking or participating in (whichconsensualactivity). If nothing else, count it as roleplaying.

Every experience brings a different glitter to the gem we can be.