Adopting last name?
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I would be okay with adopting my husbands last time, but only if he wants to do the same.
The whole culture of the woman getting the man's last name after marriage is just kinda absurd to me. It makes it seem like the woman is like somehow lesser than the man.But if the partners take each other's last names, then to me, it sort of signifies the unification of their families, you know? Same thing with hyphenated names.
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i am against marriage, homosexual, heterosexual, everything.So i would not even adopt any name and i would never marry.
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I don't see the need to do it, so I probably won't (assuming that I would marry, and I don't see the need to either).
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My husband took my last name when we got married. I told him that I would never change my last name, so he has to make sure he really wanted to change his name (I was okay with keeping separate names). It was a hassle for him to change his name, but he says it was worth it.
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I remember I had a college professor who took his wife's last name. I always looked at him as a spineless loser after that. I guess if you're in a gay couple it doesn't really matter. But a man taking his wife's name seemed really unmanly to me.
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My partner and I have been together for 30yrs. We only now have started talking marriage, I guess because we are older and don't want or need family drama in the event something happens to one of us.
We have talked about name changes and we are trying to incorperate both because he is the last of his line and I'm a junior so we want to honor both names. We will figure it out. everyone needs to do what's rite for them. -
Adopting the last name is old fashioned and sexist, in our opinion.
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I think it's romantic… if both decide to do it.
I like the idea of creating a bond, but it also could look like an attempt of ownership of the other person's identity...
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the new age law don’t allow change the family name here. bcos the government think wife adopted husband name is not fair to woman.
and same sexual marriage is never available here. even if it’s available I think the new age law still effect to same sexual marriage
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My partner and I have been together for 30yrs. We only now have started talking marriage, I guess because we are older and don't want or need family drama in the event something happens to one of us.
We have talked about name changes and we are trying to incorperate both because he is the last of his line and I'm a junior so we want to honor both names. We will figure it out. everyone needs to do what's rite for them.32 years here and we are in the same boat.
Talking about it but not sure what to do with the names at this point. Seem to be leaning towards a new last name. -
Its sad to say that my surname is the only thing that is even remotely posh about me in anyway, I'm common as muck really, apart from my name that is, and so I'm bloody well keeping it ;D
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Nah… Too tired to change names on current ID's and documents.
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