<![CDATA[Where did you find your gay friends?]]>Will gay guys automatically assume you're interested in them if you just want to hang out? My cynical experience tells me: yes, they will automatically assume that you secretly want to fuck them. But on the other hand, I've seen documentaries and stories where gay guys simply hang out.

So where do you meet these guys?

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/topic/26102/where-did-you-find-your-gay-friendsRSS for NodeWed, 08 Apr 2026 14:01:57 GMTWed, 29 Jun 2016 09:49:33 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to Where did you find your gay friends? on Sun, 12 Mar 2017 15:44:38 GMT]]>I had a few gay friends, male and female, at University, but we kinda lost contact, and now I speak to them online once a year if that.
I tried to be friends with a guy I was dating afterward, but he kept wanting sex and I wasn't into it, so that stopped too.

I'm happy with the straight friends I have - our personalities and likes match, and that's all I'm looking for in friends. Sexual orientation doesn't bother me.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/206476https://community.gaytor.rent/post/206476Sun, 12 Mar 2017 15:44:38 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Where did you find your gay friends? on Tue, 07 Mar 2017 00:36:12 GMT]]>I find my friends on line, in my local bar. I used to go to the sauna but no longer. I also avoid like the plague any organisation that has the letters LGBTQI in them. I have no problem with l and G but BTQ and I have nothing to do with me or my lifestyle.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/205802https://community.gaytor.rent/post/205802Tue, 07 Mar 2017 00:36:12 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Where did you find your gay friends? on Sun, 05 Mar 2017 17:22:52 GMT]]>All of them online through dating websites. They were either dates that morphed into friendships or fuck buddies that became friends.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/205562https://community.gaytor.rent/post/205562Sun, 05 Mar 2017 17:22:52 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Where did you find your gay friends? on Sun, 05 Mar 2017 04:49:39 GMT]]>Online is a good place.  You can get to know each other a bit before meeting.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/205487https://community.gaytor.rent/post/205487Sun, 05 Mar 2017 04:49:39 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Where did you find your gay friends? on Sat, 04 Mar 2017 23:54:15 GMT]]>must of friend i have i found them from dating program ether I'm not their type or  they not my type so we hang out together as much as we can but of course not all who i met become my friend it's depend on other stuff

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/205470https://community.gaytor.rent/post/205470Sat, 04 Mar 2017 23:54:15 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Where did you find your gay friends? on Sat, 17 Sep 2016 18:19:23 GMT]]>friends of friends, in the major part!

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/185284https://community.gaytor.rent/post/185284Sat, 17 Sep 2016 18:19:23 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Where did you find your gay friends? on Sat, 17 Sep 2016 15:29:33 GMT]]>in gay bar  in amstedam

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/185276https://community.gaytor.rent/post/185276Sat, 17 Sep 2016 15:29:33 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Where did you find your gay friends? on Fri, 16 Sep 2016 19:18:02 GMT]]>Mostly in gay chat/meeting apps, also i look for some social media groups

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/185199https://community.gaytor.rent/post/185199Fri, 16 Sep 2016 19:18:02 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Where did you find your gay friends? on Wed, 14 Sep 2016 18:13:31 GMT]]>Idk just random places @.@

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/185051https://community.gaytor.rent/post/185051Wed, 14 Sep 2016 18:13:31 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Where did you find your gay friends? on Wed, 14 Sep 2016 15:09:46 GMT]]>Most of my gay friends were friends I made even before finding out they were gay. Usually connected to activities I like to do or events I like to attend.

I met some at book launches and others by striking up a conversation at the local swimming pool. I don't like going to bars much,  but I imagine that would also be a good place to find some friends- a karaoke bar would be best. You can sing and make friends while bonding over how good/terrible you were.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/185043https://community.gaytor.rent/post/185043Wed, 14 Sep 2016 15:09:46 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Where did you find your gay friends? on Wed, 14 Sep 2016 13:22:11 GMT]]>Few of them actually greeted me first in Grindr and after chatting for some time, we became friends. We didn't immediately hang out together though, it took a couple of times first, while I met some other few in facebook.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/185039https://community.gaytor.rent/post/185039Wed, 14 Sep 2016 13:22:11 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Where did you find your gay friends? on Wed, 14 Sep 2016 13:00:05 GMT]]>I kind of have the same problem. I just don't see the idea of getting friends just because they are gay. I have my straight friends and I'm very proud of them. On the other hand the guy I'm meeting right now has like ONLY gay friends and some of them really attractive. So it's kind of weird… I only know gays from dating apps for example if the date didn't work out and we just became friends or from SCRUFF then those are international friends mostly US or GB and they are some great people but it's sad that you can't even go out for a drink cause someone's from another country and you'll probably won't even meet.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/185037https://community.gaytor.rent/post/185037Wed, 14 Sep 2016 13:00:05 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Where did you find your gay friends? on Sat, 23 Jul 2016 14:21:53 GMT]]>always in the app…...talk first,and pick someone to meet in real life

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/180275https://community.gaytor.rent/post/180275Sat, 23 Jul 2016 14:21:53 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Where did you find your gay friends? on Fri, 22 Jul 2016 01:17:37 GMT]]>I like that this topic has some good ideas. Thanks. Keep it relevant for all minorities of minorities.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/180172https://community.gaytor.rent/post/180172Fri, 22 Jul 2016 01:17:37 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Where did you find your gay friends? on Wed, 20 Jul 2016 22:31:44 GMT]]>Internet!

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/180067https://community.gaytor.rent/post/180067Wed, 20 Jul 2016 22:31:44 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Where did you find your gay friends? on Wed, 20 Jul 2016 03:53:01 GMT]]>A public park at night.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/179987https://community.gaytor.rent/post/179987Wed, 20 Jul 2016 03:53:01 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Where did you find your gay friends? on Sat, 16 Jul 2016 06:27:31 GMT]]>Platonic gay friends, in highschool, college and now in my work

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/179626https://community.gaytor.rent/post/179626Sat, 16 Jul 2016 06:27:31 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Where did you find your gay friends? on Sat, 16 Jul 2016 04:24:19 GMT]]>I might want to add that I met my best friend in a dating site. We started seeing each other for sex, but never really developed into a serious relationship. We got really found of eachother nevertheless, and it's been about 4 years since the last time we had sex, but we still talk pretty much everyday and hangout every week.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/179624https://community.gaytor.rent/post/179624Sat, 16 Jul 2016 04:24:19 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Where did you find your gay friends? on Fri, 15 Jul 2016 20:06:50 GMT]]>alot were hook ups, that turned into friends

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/179612https://community.gaytor.rent/post/179612Fri, 15 Jul 2016 20:06:50 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Where did you find your gay friends? on Tue, 12 Jul 2016 21:54:21 GMT]]>and also i fund the another gay friend in my language institute

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/179371https://community.gaytor.rent/post/179371Tue, 12 Jul 2016 21:54:21 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Where did you find your gay friends? on Fri, 08 Jul 2016 22:48:46 GMT]]>i fund my first friend in gaybar !

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/179101https://community.gaytor.rent/post/179101Fri, 08 Jul 2016 22:48:46 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Where did you find your gay friends? on Thu, 07 Jul 2016 21:20:14 GMT]]>in GYM  forsure  ;D

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/179029https://community.gaytor.rent/post/179029Thu, 07 Jul 2016 21:20:14 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Where did you find your gay friends? on Thu, 07 Jul 2016 04:37:19 GMT]]>@Bolzen:

Also, at least here in Germany, it seems that our local hacker spaces have much higher than usual share in openly gay people. I have some ideas why that might be, but I'm still not sure why.

What are your ideas? I'm curious?  🙂

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/178943https://community.gaytor.rent/post/178943Thu, 07 Jul 2016 04:37:19 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Where did you find your gay friends? on Thu, 07 Jul 2016 04:28:20 GMT]]>Honestly, Jackd. LGBTQ based activities are a good way to meet platonic friends as well

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/178941https://community.gaytor.rent/post/178941Thu, 07 Jul 2016 04:28:20 GMT