Age Gaps

oldmanlover

im 24 my partner is 63, we get along fine, i look after him and he keeps me out of trouble at night, there are some issues like goals or traveling and having an older person that has done all that and may not feel secure on the plane or long walks at the airport, health insurance in all,
i havent been in a relationship with someone my age, i would get more things done but i dont find anyone at my age attractive,

Ascareus

it seems that my BF will be younger than me
but what i really fear that he's likely `the top while i am the bot..
sometimes that kind of relationship isn't normal

myrea

@Ascareus:

it seems that my BF will be younger than me
but what i really fear that he's likely `the top while i am the bot..
sometimes that kind of relationship isn't normal

Ascareus, redefine your normal… because normal is, well just a word which people use to stygmatize and divide... believe me there are loads of young tops and older bottoms as couple, it's far from something to raise a brow at. And it's your life live it as you desire.

lawyer72us

My husband is 23 years older than me and we are 10 years together.

jonas25

I love my 11 year older husband. And i love to take care of him and he love to take care of my needs….. :cheers: :love:

YoungDuncan

Age isn't an issue for me. I tend to prefer older guys as guys my age are too fickle. But I guess there would be a limit. I would find it weird to date someone who was retired, for example. But I wouldn't have a problem if they were divorced and had kids. Guess I'm the weird one…

jonas25

My man is 14 years older than me. We started dating (he took my virginity) when i was 20 (1993). We are still together…..

Derdukboy

I don't really think age gap are any kind of problem(As long you're +18 xD). I'm 19 but I like 30-35 old men. :cheers:

shizen

As long if you're both happy with it ánd follow the law it's wrong in my eyes. I think it's better to be someone you really love who's a lot older than to be with someone who is around your age and don't feel comfortable with him/her.

gyv

@Derdukboy:

I don't really think age gap are any kind of problem(As long you're +18 xD). I'm 19 but I like 30-35 old men. :cheers:

Yes, I'm 35 and my bf is 21 and we are very happy, so I don't think age gap are any kind of problem :cheers: :hug2:

chubchaser

I am 20 and I don't really care what age my partner is. I have had 5 sexual partners, 3 being between the ages of 33 and 35, and the other two being 21 and 24. My boyfriend is 35 and I do feel that my parents would rather me be dating someone my own age, but it has no affect on me especially because he is just so damn cute!

Now I do think that there is a limit, I don't think I could go past 40 for a relationship, but for just a sexual interaction I definitely could.

Aurbierre

I've only been in two relationships in my life.

The first one the gap was 26 years.. I was 19 then, and my current relationship the gap's 12.

Most of my friends are cool with the age gap of my current relationship but the first one was tough to explain as he was as old as my own parents. but then even that didn't bother me.

I love older guys. i find experience to be a real bonus point when am with a guy, but the major factor for both my relationships was maturity - not age, but mental maturity. Guys can be older physically and yet be immature and vice versa, and both guys (ex and current) were very mature in their demeanour and this was the biggest factor that sparked the relationships.

So the age gap was shall I say a bonus point for me.. it's not overly important and I dont see the problem with it as long as both parties are happy, but for me maturity has a higher value.

assoom

It does not matter to me as long as there is chemistry.
But older people accept large gaps as you said because their chances to get laid are less, unlike younger guys who have more options