<![CDATA[Coming out to a BBF]]>I came out of the closet to my best guy friend about 2 months ago, and yesturday to my girl BFF [we know eachother our whole life].
On the one hand, I can't explain how reliving is to tell that, and to recieve such a positive reaction from them both.
On the other hand, Im still partially in-closet amongs most of my family, and Almost-all of my friends.
I just can't imagine myself bringing up this topic..

What do you guys think? How was your coming-out scenerio?
Feel free to share any thoughts  :love:

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/topic/25332/coming-out-to-a-bbfRSS for NodeWed, 08 Apr 2026 13:03:07 GMTTue, 24 May 2016 09:47:02 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to Coming out to a BBF on Sun, 05 Jun 2016 20:36:18 GMT]]>It was not such a big deal in Germany - my dad actually told me he had kinda figured it out and wasn't a surprise to him. My friends were all cool. Couple of relatives acted weird - I just ignored them.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/176140https://community.gaytor.rent/post/176140Sun, 05 Jun 2016 20:36:18 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Coming out to a BBF on Sun, 05 Jun 2016 20:12:04 GMT]]>Hmm…. I came out to my friends through text. Not the best way to do it, but hey my friends are pretty chill so it's not like telling them in front of them will changed anything.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/176139https://community.gaytor.rent/post/176139Sun, 05 Jun 2016 20:12:04 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Coming out to a BBF on Sun, 05 Jun 2016 17:55:43 GMT]]>i only come out to the person asking about my personnal life, because they care enough to ask if i'm dating someone. Some collegues never asked, some other asked the first day of work and it didn't bother me to answer frankly

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/176134https://community.gaytor.rent/post/176134Sun, 05 Jun 2016 17:55:43 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Coming out to a BBF on Tue, 24 May 2016 19:58:57 GMT]]>@CountAchee:

I came out to my BFF who is a guy shortly before my 20th birthday. Little to say he was pissed, pissed that I didn't tell it much earlier and that I felt that I needed to hide parts of my life and that I thought he would condemn my sexuality. To my defense I was really scared of losing my best friend. Luckily it turned out for the best in my case.
Thank you, big sis, for forcibly outing me to my mother, this only gave me strength to understand that I can't be afraid.

haha, my sister is the first one i came out to, because she is bisexual herself too, and she just straight forward asked me about my sexuality.
Thanks to her, it became much easier to understand my sexuality [althought im still not quiet sure, but i donr care - i love what i love], and to come out to more people.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/174997https://community.gaytor.rent/post/174997Tue, 24 May 2016 19:58:57 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Coming out to a BBF on Tue, 24 May 2016 10:09:51 GMT]]>I came out to my BFF who is a guy shortly before my 20th birthday. Little to say he was pissed, pissed that I didn't tell it much earlier and that I felt that I needed to hide parts of my life and that I thought he would condemn my sexuality. To my defense I was really scared of losing my best friend. Luckily it turned out for the best in my case.
Thank you, big sis, for forcibly outing me to my mother, this only gave me strength to understand that I can't be afraid.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/174904https://community.gaytor.rent/post/174904Tue, 24 May 2016 10:09:51 GMT