<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[The use of &quot;CIS&quot; or &quot;cisgender&quot;]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Maybe it is just me, but I find this made up word to just be silly.  No offense to the transgender community, but the trans community are the ones who decided they wanted to be called "Trans".  Gay groups decided to be called "Gay".  Other groups used to call them other, mostly derogatory, names and they <strong>decided for themselves</strong> how to be referenced.</p>
<p dir="auto">I don't know of any CIS community and can't remember it's members ever being asked about, or deciding on, being called that.  Can anyone think of one other common term that Cis is used as a prefix for?   I'm sure there may be some obscure words out there, but most people have never heard this term so the use of CIS as a prefix is meaningless.</p>
<p dir="auto">How is arbitrarily labeling people cis or cisgender any different than a straight guy calling someone a fag? Or white people calling a black person the 'N' word?  One group has no business labeling another.</p>
<p dir="auto">I'm sorry if I offend the PC police, but I am NOT a "cisgender" male, I am perfectly fine as just a human male thank you very much.</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/topic/25154/the-use-of-cis-or-cisgender</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Thu, 09 Apr 2026 09:25:58 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://community.gaytor.rent/topic/25154.rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><pubDate>Sat, 14 May 2016 18:08:15 GMT</pubDate><ttl>60</ttl><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to The use of &quot;CIS&quot; or &quot;cisgender&quot; on Sat, 05 Nov 2016 08:43:14 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">I don't like it because it is used in oppression olympics. It is used by people to erase the struggles and discrimination other minority groups face. It implies that these minorities have the same privileges of straight white men which simply isn't true.</p>
<p dir="auto">Also I wouldn't label a person who is transitioning or has done as a "trans-man" or "trans-woman" they would simply be a man or a woman.</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/190563</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/190563</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[farkme]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 05 Nov 2016 08:43:14 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to The use of &quot;CIS&quot; or &quot;cisgender&quot; on Sat, 05 Nov 2016 07:56:57 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">I don't like it because it is used in oppression olympics. It is used by people to erase the struggles and discrimination other minority groups face. It implies that these minorities have the same privileges of straight white men which simply isn't true.</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/190558</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/190558</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[farkme]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 05 Nov 2016 07:56:57 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to The use of &quot;CIS&quot; or &quot;cisgender&quot; on Tue, 01 Nov 2016 23:39:20 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">For everyone's sake, stop being PC and apologetic. Live and laugh. There's so much cry cry boo hoo, my life is so difficult, you don't understand crap. Just call everyone IT and stop playing the victim game. End of story. Makes life much easier. Imagine when a baby is born, your doctor tells you, congrats, it's a baby! That's it, everything is neutral.</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/190083</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/190083</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[flyboy8v2]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 01 Nov 2016 23:39:20 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to The use of &quot;CIS&quot; or &quot;cisgender&quot; on Tue, 01 Nov 2016 23:31:23 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Another word for crazies on Youtube to spout off.</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/190079</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/190079</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[wrestling82]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 01 Nov 2016 23:31:23 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to The use of &quot;CIS&quot; or &quot;cisgender&quot; on Tue, 01 Nov 2016 23:25:34 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">No, it doesn't mean straight.</p>
<p dir="auto">And it is the opposite of transgender</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/190077</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/190077</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[cannonmc]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 01 Nov 2016 23:25:34 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to The use of &quot;CIS&quot; or &quot;cisgender&quot; on Tue, 01 Nov 2016 17:28:53 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">…...I still don't get it ?? Does it mean straight or ?? or does  cisgender mean transgander  ??</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/190043</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/190043</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[alma]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 01 Nov 2016 17:28:53 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to The use of &quot;CIS&quot; or &quot;cisgender&quot; on Tue, 01 Nov 2016 16:52:59 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">It's so funny seeing some gays taking umbrage over semantics when it's played a big role in the gay rights movement.</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/190040</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/190040</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[MancCub]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 01 Nov 2016 16:52:59 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to The use of &quot;CIS&quot; or &quot;cisgender&quot; on Tue, 01 Nov 2016 14:57:48 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">It doesn't really 'fit in'</p>
<p dir="auto">Some academic decided non-trans people needed a special word to describe them so came up with 'cis'. If ever a word was not needed it was probably 'cisgender'.</p>
<p dir="auto"><img src="https://community.gaytor.rent/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/apple/1f61e.png?v=57695cee877" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-apple emoji--disappointed" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":(" alt="😞" /></p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/190032</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/190032</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[cannonmc]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 01 Nov 2016 14:57:48 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to The use of &quot;CIS&quot; or &quot;cisgender&quot; on Tue, 01 Nov 2016 11:12:07 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto"><a class="plugin-mentions-user plugin-mentions-a" href="/user/cannonmc" aria-label="Profile: cannonmc">@<bdi>cannonmc</bdi></a>:</p>
<blockquote>
<p dir="auto">Basically it means someone who identifies as the gender they were 'assigned' at birth.</p>
<p dir="auto"><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cisgender" rel="nofollow ugc"><strong>Wikipedia</strong></a></p>
<p dir="auto">So if they said 'It's a boy' and you identify as male, that's cisgender. Not a word that would cross my lips voluntarity</p>
</blockquote>
<p dir="auto">?? but still isn't that just being yourself ?<br />
I mean i don't get it . an adult male is a Man , and an adult Girl is a woman , No matter how Butch or Girly they act .</p>
<p dir="auto">And I believe that transgendered people are the gender they want to be . ftm is a man and mtf is a woman . in my book<br />
So where does cisgender fit in ??</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/189982</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/189982</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[alma]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 01 Nov 2016 11:12:07 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to The use of &quot;CIS&quot; or &quot;cisgender&quot; on Mon, 31 Oct 2016 00:46:59 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Basically it means someone who identifies as the gender they were 'assigned' at birth.</p>
<p dir="auto"><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cisgender" rel="nofollow ugc"><strong>Wikipedia</strong></a></p>
<p dir="auto">So if they said 'It's a boy' and you identify as male, that's cisgender. Not a word that would cross my lips voluntarity</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/189741</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/189741</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[cannonmc]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2016 00:46:59 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to The use of &quot;CIS&quot; or &quot;cisgender&quot; on Sun, 30 Oct 2016 22:53:24 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">I'm sorry but i really need to know …What does cisgender means ?<br />
I read about it but it still Don't get it .</p>
<p dir="auto">I keep hearing cis but what does it mean ???</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/189717</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/189717</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[alma]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2016 22:53:24 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to The use of &quot;CIS&quot; or &quot;cisgender&quot; on Sun, 30 Oct 2016 21:25:24 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto"><a class="plugin-mentions-user plugin-mentions-a" href="/user/upnxt" aria-label="Profile: upNXT">@<bdi>upNXT</bdi></a>:</p>
<blockquote>
<p dir="auto">The term wasn't coined until around 1998…we got along without it quite fine. And I agree with the original post...why? just why? It is an attempt (or at least how it is used) to pigeon hole the majority of human kind. Most don't have trouble with identifying with their birth sex, so it doesn't need a term...the acceptation, that needs a differentiating term...Speaking as a minority gay male. Makes sense to me.</p>
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<p dir="auto">That's foolish. Most people are not attracted exclusively to the same sex, so why do the terms gay and homosexual exist? Why does ambidextrous exist as a term or  paraplegic since most people are neither?</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/189708</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/189708</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[scramer]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2016 21:25:24 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to The use of &quot;CIS&quot; or &quot;cisgender&quot; on Sun, 30 Oct 2016 19:36:31 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">The term wasn't coined until around 1998…we got along without it quite fine. And I agree with the original post...why? just why? It is an attempt (or at least how it is used) to pigeon hole the majority of human kind. Most don't have trouble with identifying with their birth sex, so it doesn't need a term...the acceptation, that needs a differentiating term...Speaking as a minority gay male. Makes sense to me.</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/189684</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/189684</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[upNXT]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2016 19:36:31 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to The use of &quot;CIS&quot; or &quot;cisgender&quot; on Thu, 06 Oct 2016 12:48:10 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">most people on here seem to hate it because they associate with a certain type of person in their mind who uses this word rather than the word itself.<br />
Cisgender, transgender, words to increase our understanding of the world, I like it</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/186807</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/186807</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[pasha]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 06 Oct 2016 12:48:10 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to The use of &quot;CIS&quot; or &quot;cisgender&quot; on Thu, 06 Oct 2016 04:19:17 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">I feel it is also a silly term but it seems okay to me if it is being used in a medical sense and less in the way of, "You don't understand the STRUGGLE you white cis male bigot!" It just seems quite childish when used this way and seems to be used to shut down arguments.</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/186784</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/186784</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Dry]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 06 Oct 2016 04:19:17 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to The use of &quot;CIS&quot; or &quot;cisgender&quot; on Thu, 08 Sep 2016 23:56:38 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">I too think it's a silly term but when I say that I usually get shouted down</p>
<p dir="auto">It strikes me as a made-up word (yes, I know they all are) waiting for a quack to use</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/184678</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/184678</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[cannonmc]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 08 Sep 2016 23:56:38 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to The use of &quot;CIS&quot; or &quot;cisgender&quot; on Thu, 08 Sep 2016 23:50:57 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">It's a stupid term. I prefer the term normal.</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/184677</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/184677</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[semurg30]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 08 Sep 2016 23:50:57 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to The use of &quot;CIS&quot; or &quot;cisgender&quot; on Thu, 08 Sep 2016 18:58:50 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Cisgenders don't need a 'community' because they are the norm. There is no real discrimination against cicgenders (if you believe a transgender person is discriminating you… well... maybe there are really some trans people who do that... but c'mon... the life of cisgender people is in anyway affected by any kind of discrimination on that regard). It would be the same thing as to say straight people need protections and need to form a community. They don't... majority and provilledged groups don't need that. That's not just <s>PC Culture</s> it's sheer reality and logic.</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/184661</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/184661</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[hhsq]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 08 Sep 2016 18:58:50 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to The use of &quot;CIS&quot; or &quot;cisgender&quot; on Thu, 08 Sep 2016 13:11:12 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Well, there has to be a word for everything and I'm very happy that I have one more now. I was really missing the word sooo often. <img src="https://community.gaytor.rent/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/apple/1f609.png?v=57695cee877" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-apple emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=";)" alt="😉" /></p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/184644</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/184644</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[horyna]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 08 Sep 2016 13:11:12 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to The use of &quot;CIS&quot; or &quot;cisgender&quot; on Fri, 27 May 2016 12:23:17 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Regardless of its origin, the term cis is used by the trans community, in particular non-binary and gender fluid member it seems, to attack and shoot-down debate with non-trans (i.e. cis) people. The term is used to suggest that because the individual is cis, he/she is privilaged in that they are in the majority and experience little oppression because of their gender. It is a term simply used to dismiss others and cause them to feel bad about their privilage in this new game of oppression-olympics that seems to have taken over the internet and universities. The term is used against gay men and women and other minorities who identify with their assigned-gender to suggest that they are stil privilaged in spite of their status as a minority and thus their opinions are those on non-trans, privilaged people and so should hold no merit - it is quite a sad term and is used more politically than just as a simple means of catagorization.</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/175383</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/175383</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tutankhaten]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 27 May 2016 12:23:17 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to The use of &quot;CIS&quot; or &quot;cisgender&quot; on Sat, 21 May 2016 08:38:24 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Cis and cisgender are made up words, as are all words. cisgender dates from the 1990s. Vintage in porn terms, new in dictionary terms.</p>
<p dir="auto">And I still think it is an ugly word, not in its meaning but just as a word. And a word I have never used. Except in this thread of course</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/174630</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/174630</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[cannonmc]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 21 May 2016 08:38:24 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to The use of &quot;CIS&quot; or &quot;cisgender&quot; on Sat, 21 May 2016 04:15:00 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Cis is neither a made up word or a word that is new or "invented on the internet"<br />
those of us the work  in psychology and psychiatrics use the term neutrally  and have done for a while now.</p>
<p dir="auto">its a Latin-derived prefix cis-, meaning "on this side of", which is an antonym for the Latin-"trans"-, meaning  "on the other side of".  so when Cisgender is mentioned it means on this side of the gender<br />
transgender means on the other side of</p>
<p dir="auto">to quote Rawson on its usage.</p>
<p dir="auto">"It’s an incredible and invisible power to not need to name yourself because the norms have already done that for you. You don’t need to come out as heterosexual or cisgender because it is already expected. Since it isn’t a derogatory term, those who take exception to it may be uncomfortable with trans issues or perhaps they are unwilling to confront their own privilege."</p>
<p dir="auto">Cis-gender is not a slur it just means you identify with the gender and or sex you were born with.<br />
those that see it in the same light as  <em>Breeder</em> or <em>faggot</em> equally horrid terms ,are delusional or intellectually naive, as are those socialist wannabe's  that use the term in that fashion.</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/174618</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/174618</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[antstorm]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 21 May 2016 04:15:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to The use of &quot;CIS&quot; or &quot;cisgender&quot; on Wed, 18 May 2016 00:29:39 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Perhaps I'm lucky. I don't discuss "gender-related issues" so I have no need for "a useful and descriptive [yet ugly] word"</p>
<p dir="auto">I may be wrong but my memory says that 'queer' didn't <em>start</em> as an insult. Check out <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=70pQEryssh4" rel="nofollow ugc"><strong>Ruth Wallis</strong></a> And calling anyone any kind of 'scum' doesn't seem friendly or helpful.</p>
<p dir="auto">And if you really want to read some psycho-babble about Queerness (their word) try <a href="http://thequeerness.com/author/thequeerness/" rel="nofollow ugc"><strong>this</strong></a> - the author actually had pieces printed in a national newspaper. The paper is no longer…</p>
]]></description><link>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/174324</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://community.gaytor.rent/post/174324</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[cannonmc]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 18 May 2016 00:29:39 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to The use of &quot;CIS&quot; or &quot;cisgender&quot; on Tue, 17 May 2016 16:05:40 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto"><a class="plugin-mentions-user plugin-mentions-a" href="/user/cannonmc" aria-label="Profile: cannonmc">@<bdi>cannonmc</bdi></a>:</p>
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<p dir="auto">Just because something is on the internet doesn't make it legitimate.</p>
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<p dir="auto">The fact that it's use is widespread and recognised is actually what is making it legitimate; whether we like it or not "the internet" is not apart from "real life", but if this was a just a topic about linguistics, then it wouldn't spark this much discussion  <img src="https://community.gaytor.rent/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/apple/1f642.png?v=57695cee877" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-apple emoji--slightly_smiling_face" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":)" alt="🙂" /></p>
<p dir="auto">I think it's pointless to make out a word as "bad" when in fact only the intentions behind it are bad. In my eyes cisgender is a useful and descriptive word that comes in handy when discussing gender-related issues; of course it's a limitative label to describe an individual as a whole, but as Mrker1234 pointed out, sometimes labeling is necessary (and inevitable).</p>
<p dir="auto">I see this issue as an opposite of what happened with the term "queer", that started as an insult and eventually was reclaimed as descriptive: the fact that the use of "cisgender" is still debated shows that it isn't well established yet and that it could go either way, depending on what use will prevail.<br />
Personally I don't feel like we need another way to discriminate on sexuality, so I'm hoping people will realise that calling someone "cis scum" is just pointless riling.</p>
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