I just read a book about raising boys (don't ask why) and there was a chapter on gays. It stated that boys could turn out to be gay and to accept them and know that schools were teaching kids to also accept it and blah blah blah. So my question is why the parents that read this still don't understand that being gay is part of your identity and it's not a choice.

I guess that most of the parents haven't read such bibliography..